523. Chapter 522: Regret and Complaining

When they kicked off, I stuck to Zi Han tightly, I always blocked in front of her wherever she went, Zi Han didn't even touch the ball, just followed her, she was a little unhappy, and the ball didn't have to be touched. Copy URL to visit wรจn%77%77%77%2e%76%6f%64%74%77%2e%63%6f%6dI thought to myself, forget it, just play, just make her happy, so I distanced myself a little, sure enough, she ran over and finally received the ball, and then she dribbled, of course, the dribble is not as smooth as me, but it is also very good.

Dribbling the ball to the basket, and then she was about to go to the basket, and I slowly shook it, and then shook my hands to defend. She shot, the ball bounced on it and rebounded and went in, Zihan happily turned around and jumped his hand, but he didn't expect to step on my instep and fell directly. She sat down on the ground with her buttocks: "Ah, my feet." Hurt! โ€

I hugged Zi Han, squatted down, grabbed her feet, Zi Han frowned and cried out in pain. "Go over there and sit down and rub it again." I picked her up, and she obediently wrapped her arms around my neck. A pair of Danfeng eyes were blazing, and I asked, "Does it hurt?" โ€

"It hurts."

"Huh? So the stubborn Zihan will also cry out in pain. I said to her.

"Do you think I'm stronger than Lin Xi?" Zihan said quietly.

I said, "It's not going to be, it's just that you are indeed much more stubborn than Lin Xi in some aspects." โ€

"Where?"

I wanted to say that you said to me, but when the words came to my mouth, I still held back and didn't say it.

I put her on the stool, turned back to Zhang Wei and said, "Is there ice water?" Take it and cool it down first! "People who play golf usually bring water to drink, but the weather is a little hot, and the cold water is also hot!

I had to let Zhang Wei stay with Zihan, I went to the supermarket to buy two ice creams and a bottle of ice water, and when I came back, Zihan had already taken off his shoes and socks, and the painful look on his face was also relieved a lot, and it seemed that he didn't hurt his bones.

I turned on the ice water and poured it on her right ankle, her calves trembling slightly, and she snorted softly. I said, "It doesn't matter, just bear with me for a while, haven't you been hurt before?" โ€

"No! What are you doing here? Cause me to step on your feet. โ€

"I'm sorry, you say it! How can I be responsible for you to be satisfied! I laughed and applied ice cream to the left and right sides of my ankles, trying to make a joke and deflect her pain.

Zhang Wei watched from the side.

"Who made you responsible, it's normal to get injured while playing! You'll send me back to the dorm in a moment! Zihan's helpless appearance is really distressing.

I kept holding the ice cream with my hand and talking to Zihan until twenty years later, when she said she wanted to go back.

Zhang Wei put Zihan up, but she was too short, and Zihan always felt that she was not strong enough, so I walked in front of her, squatted down with my back to her, turned around and pointed to my back, and Zihan lay on my back.

I carried her on my back, but I didn't expect her to be so tall and so light on her back, and I asked, "Why are you so light?" โ€œ

Zihan was lying on my back, her mouth was in my ear, and she whispered, "I don't know." โ€

Zhang Wei said: "People think you play well, and you come here every day to practice......

"Zhang Wei!" Zihan shouted.

Zhang Wei stopped talking, stuck out her tongue and said, "Then I'll go back to the court." โ€

"Oh."

I carried Zihan to the dormitory, and Zihan asked, "Have you reconciled with Mr. Lin?" โ€

I said, "Sort of." โ€

"Re-pursuit?"

I smiled and said, "Sort of." โ€

"What's going on?" Zihan asked me.

I reluctantly said, "I guess you know this better than I do." I still want to talk to her, but I don't know what to say. โ€

"She is under a lot of psychological pressure, Lin Batian...... Forget it, let's not talk about it. โ€

"Looks like you've talked to her about it?" I asked.

Zihan said: "Otherwise, she would have left a long time ago." She didn't have the face to see you, but I said, now that Zhenhe is developing in a good direction, without a few of us, what will you do? โ€

"So, she's staying, isn't she?"

"Why did you say He Jing came back? It was because He Ke didn't know what to do, so he found He Jing, but in reality, could anyone afford to fight with Lin Batian? Forget about you and Saori, the most unbearable thing for Mr. Lin is that you still hook up with He Ke. But...... Now that she knows the truth, what she hates most is your hypocrisy. โ€

I didn't speak......

Passing by the outpatient department, I said, "Buy some medicine to wipe it, otherwise it will be difficult." โ€

"Hmm." Zihan replied softly on my back.

When I went into the outpatient department with Zihan on my back, someone also knew me and greeted me head-on: "Mr. Yin, what's wrong?" โ€

I said, "Manager Chen accidentally broke his foot and wanted to get some medicine." โ€

"So if you're not careful, it hurts."

Zihan responded: "It's okay, it hurt just now, but now it's fine." โ€

"Well, Mr. Yin, I'll take the first step and go back to work overtime."

"Bye-bye."

Putting down Zi Han's stool in the hall outside, I went into the outpatient department to get the medicine, and the pharmacy salesman gave me the medicine, and I took out my wallet, huh? What about wallets? I took it out before playing just now, it was broken, and it must have fallen on the basketball court! It doesn't matter if you have money, but those cards and documents can be very useful. I hurriedly turned around and walked out of the outpatient department, and told Zihan that I was in a bit of a hurry, and I had already gone outside before she could ask.

The basketball court was rummaged over and asked a lot of people, but no one saw me, so I continued to turn back helplessly, feeling depressed. Forget it, it's already lost, what else can be done? What needs to be done now is to freeze the credit card and reapply for a new card, as well as report the loss, however, the bank has already left work at this time, and I don't know if the online bank can handle this kind of loss reporting procedures.

I returned to the outpatient department, and Zihan hurriedly asked, what's wrong. I replied, "Urgency." โ€

The big beauty of Zihan smiled softly at me. I said, "What's the matter, haven't you ever been in a hurry?" โ€

Zihan shook his head at me and said, "My face has changed completely, and I am frightened." โ€

I tapped her nose and said, "It's going to be cranky, wait, I'll go in and get the medicine." โ€

Who knows, I didn't take any money in my pocket, and the little waiter who sold medicine didn't know me, so he naturally didn't give me credit, so I had no choice but to go out and borrow fifty yuan from a security guard, and then went back to get the bone medicine that was rubbed outside.

I picked up Zihan again, and I was not tired along the way, but it was different when I went to the dormitory, I was so tired that I was so tired that I gasped like a dog, and finally climbed to Zihan's dormitory. After entering, he threw her on the sofa heavily, and then fell down himself, gasping for breath, Zihan said to me: "Xiao Luo, you look so funny." โ€

"Huh...... yes, yes? "I stood up and looked for water to drink. Thinking about the lost wallet, Zihan asked, "Where is your notebook?" โ€

Zihan pointed to a layer under a certain countertop: "There, what's wrong?" In a hurry? โ€

"Of course!"

I took out my laptop and turned it on, and Zihan asked again, "What the hell is going on?" โ€

I thought, if I told her that I lost my wallet, she would definitely blame herself very entangledly, so some things are better not to speak, after turning on the machine, I said to Zihan: "You look at your feet first, is there any cotton wool?" โ€

Zihan thought for a while, and then said, "Yes, the drawer over there." โ€

I said, "Then you wait for me, I'll find it for you after I get this text." โ€

Zihan limped into the bathroom, and I struggled to think about my bank card number. Luckily, as I can remember, I got this done in about ten minutes.

Originally, I wanted to go downstairs after I got it done, but I lost the key or something, and I called the witch, and the witch said that she was still in a meeting and was not available......

I'm bored on the Zhenhe company's intranet, this website is not good, it's too substandard! No, this website is the face of a company, it can't be like this......

sent a message to He Ming, saying that the intranet website is too substandard, after sending it, Changshu wanted to find a cigarette to smoke, and suddenly remembered, where is Zihan? Why did Zihan stay in the bathroom for so long and didn't come out? I hurriedly got up, did she have an accident in the bathroom: "Zihan, Zihan, what are you doing?" I shouted a few times.

He didn't even answer me, the water in the bathroom was rattling, and it had been ringing for a long time. I hurriedly went over and knocked on the bathroom door, and then, the sound of the water stopped, and I shouted: "Zihan, is there a mistake, you have to take a shower for so long, is there something wrong!?" โ€

When I was shouting, Zihan came out, wearing pajamas, a very smooth pajamas. The light behind her shines from behind her, and the outline of the whole person's body is undoubtedly revealed, and it seems that she can see everything through it. I withdrew my gaze and moved to it, my hair was wet, like a hibiscus out of water, and I asked, "What are you doing?" I took a shower for nearly an hour. โ€

After Zihan wiped his face, he said, "I fell asleep inside." โ€

"No...... No way. Can you sleep in the shower? I was shocked.

"Well, I'm tired." Zihan said.

I said, "I'll help you go to sleep, then." Don't work so hard. โ€

Zihan said: "Some of the texts were not processed last night, and they were all night last night......"

I squeezed her hand and said, "It's going to break the body, what do you want me to say about you?" โ€

"Then don't say it." Zihan Nunu mouth.

I shook my head helplessly, and then said, "Come on, I'll help you push the oil." โ€

"Push your head!" Zi Han said hurriedly, a blush appeared on his face. I helped her to her bedside, and she sat down.

I opened the oil and said, "Tell me when it hurts, you know?" โ€

"Hmm," Zihan replied softly.

I picked up those white and flawless legs, and the skin of her whole body was so good, smooth and moist.

I poured a few drops of the oil on her swollen ankle, and then began to rub it gently, then slowly increased my strength until she started to cry out in pain, and I rubbed her ankle with that force.

At first, Zihan was still crying out that it hurt, but with the continuation of the massage time, Zihan gradually got used to it, and chatted with me without a match, until the back, Zihan's voice was getting smaller and smaller, and it didn't take long for her to fall asleep again, it seems that she was really tired.

I stopped what I was doing, tore some tissue paper from the table, gently wiped Zihan's ankles, straightened her, and she sighed and continued to sleep. I put the blanket over her belly, leaned over, and began to admire her little face up close.

Her skin is perfect, and there is not even a small spot on her white face, and she knows at a glance that she has always been pampered. The bridge of the nose is straight, a little slightly upturned, the long eyelashes tremble with the slight movement of the eyes, thick like two brushes, the eyebrows seem to have not been repaired, natural and straight, the mouth is slightly pouted from time to time with the action of swallowing saliva, the cheeks are red, two dimples are looming, the face is full, the lines are soft, and the whole person is like a sleeping angel!

Zihan sighed again, turned over, curled up like a child, turned his back to me and continued to sleep, psychologically speaking, people in this sleeping position are the most insecure, and subconsciously need real care!

I looked at the time, it was almost 9 o'clock, and it was time for the witch to return. cleaned up a little, turned off the computer, and exited Zihan's room. Had a light meal with the witch, just...... She still sleeps in a separate room with me.

Lying on the bed, thinking back to the past few days with the witch, I gradually became a little confused, in the haze I seemed to hold the witch's hand, in front of the white piano, smiling, admiring the witch's elegant and beautiful piano sound......

On Monday, the alarm goes off and the busy week begins again.

From what I know, the former purchasing supervisor Luo Yuanchao, quotation engineer Wu Fangqiang, and production manager Zhang Chengchu are in one camp, and Ma is vice president, factory director Hu Yue, deputy director Zhang Xinjiang, business director Qin Lizhang, and production director Wang Xingguo are in another camp.

I have only been in for a month or two, and I can feel this atmosphere, especially Luo Yuanchao's complaints are very much. Luo Yuanchao thinks that Zhang Xinjiang will always make extra money, and he can't get used to him all day long, and he has deep contradictions and grievances.

The previous contradictions, there is also the contradiction between the non-related class and the privileged class, the relatives and friends of the boss lady and other people and the villagers form a kind of privileged class, everyone has a deep preconception, everyone even thinks that the lottery for eating Chinese New Year's Eve dinner, why the winning rate of the boss lady's family is particularly high, and the good prizes are drawn by them.

I've been in for a month or two, and the contradictions between the old employees and the old employees have disappeared, at least superficially. Transform into a conflict between old employees and new employees.

The contradiction between the PMC department and the production department is very deep, Wang Xingguo, the processing supervisor, used his original influence to adopt a soft resistance policy on the production plan, Mr. Zhen was angry and even wanted to fire Wang Xingguo, I blocked it, I communicated with Wang Xingguo, plus Yu Shiwei's training, Wang Xingguo obviously improved, after Manager Zou came in, this strong resistance attitude is gone.

However, the production department has been complaining that the production plan is unreasonable, and the PMC department has accused the production department of not implementing the production plan enough. In particular, Wang Xingguo and Zhang Dongmei have deep contradictions.

I decided to let Zihan train a course of "T-shaped thinking and effective communication", Zihan talked about the concept of lateral thinking and vertical thinking, as well as the advantages and disadvantages of lateral thinking and vertical thinking, so that everyone can understand what horizontal thinking is, what vertical thinking is, which type of person they belong to, which two types of people are prone to conflicts, etc., and then she gave an example of T-shaped thinking and marriage:

Why are many people's marriages unhappy, or on the surface others think they are happy, but in fact they are not happy inside. There are two main reasons: communication barriers:

Chinese people have always lacked equal and rational thinking. Therefore, the communication between husband and wife is either to teach the guide to quarrel, or to endure in his heart and endure his physical and mental exhaustion. Therefore, some young couples are always noisy and quarrelsome, can't stand each other, and divorce soon; And some couples, all their lives do not quarrel or quarrel, they all endure in their hearts, live for the sake of face and reputation, from the surface it seems that others still think that their relationship is very good, and they also issue a five-good family, model couples and the like, endure until they are sixty or seventy years old, both parties do not want to continue to endure before death, and the two decided to divorce, which surprised outsiders. This is a typical example of Chinese people who are not good at communication, as soon as they communicate, they will quarrel, or they will endure him as a psychopath, and they will endure being a wronged enemy in their hearts for decades, two extremes. There is a lack of that kind of rational communication that is genuine and heart-to-heart.

Patience is a virtue, one party needs to be patient under the affection, after the two sides of the relationship subside, we need to communicate regularly, we must regularly clean up the spiritual garbage, not day after day or day at least week after week, otherwise, long-term patience will cause psychological shadows, European and American Westerners communicate like this: dear, I feel that I don't love you now, what should I do? Then the two parties sit down and discuss what the reason is, whether it is aesthetic fatigue and falling in love with others, or too close, or personality reasons, etc., and talk about it honestly, and then discuss how to solve the problem. But if we Chinese couples hear that the other party actually says that they don't love themselves, they either jump up immediately: Which vixen or little white face fascinates you? Either heartbroken and don't want to live anymore. Either you are unkind and I am unjust. or slap the table and stool every day, sneer at each other coldly, and don't give a good look. In the end, both parties dare not and do not want to tell each other what they have to say, or hide what they say, or ponder whether they should say this sentence for a long time, and what the consequences of saying it will be, and as a result, they become studying people instead of studying things all day long, and the psychological shadows are becoming more and more, and people are becoming more and more hypocritical. There is only a lack of sincere communication, negotiation and resolution.

When they are in love, they have a very good relationship, they only see each other's strengths, and even their shortcomings are regarded as advantages; After getting married, they only see 20% of each other's shortcomings, ignore 80% of each other's advantages, and only see each other's shortcomings even if the other party continues to improve. As a result, if the other party is opposed, if you change your perspective and think differently, be comprehensive, see the advantages of the other party, tolerate 20% of the shortcomings of the other party, and remind them in good faith at the right time, the other party corrects it, and it is not dangerous to the marriage. If you only pick thorns and blindly find each other's shortcomings, then you will not be happy if you marry anyone in the world, because no one in this world is perfect, and the other party will not tolerate without limits, tolerance has a certain limit, and the occasional pickiness is not a big problem, but picking and picking into a habit will inevitably be born.

I listened fascinated, marriage, love, pros, cons...... At that time, when I fell in love with a witch, I felt that her charm was not the result of her hard work and hard work in the company? Now, how did it become an intolerable busyness? Pressure. When I married a witch, I should have known that two people from different worlds, I should have been ready to deal with these pressures. In any case, if you can turn stress into motivation, that's a good thing...... It's just that if the pressure is too much, will it crush the person?

Zihan talked about the case of Wang Xingguo, the processing supervisor, and Zhang Dongmei, the PMC supervisor, from this example:

In the first three months, our output value increased at a rate of 300,000 per month. Is it made by Wang Xingguo, the head of the processing department, and other people from the production department with the cooperation of other departments, is it made by PMC? No, if you ask someone from PMC to do it, can you guarantee that it will be done? Not necessarily! This shows that the production department has made great progress in the past few months.

Similarly, why couldn't Wang Xingguo and other supervisors of the production department do so much output value in the past? It's only 1.5 million to work hard? Is your current growth rate your own? Can you do so much without the planning and coordination of the PMC department in these two or three months? Moreover, the PMC department has been able to do this in two or three months, from scratch, can you Wang Xingguo ensure that you can do so well when you go to the PMC department? Not necessarily!

Therefore, today I praise the two of you, and I will criticize you two fiercely when I am done, and praise you for working hard in the past few months and making great progress in this part of yourself. The criticism is that you never empathize, and will only blindly find fault with each other 20%. You forget, you are grasshoppers tied to the same rope, the output value is low, not one is scolded, both of you have to be scolded.

Why don't you think differently, if I am Wang Xingguo, the processing supervisor, I have worked here for several years, I have rich experience, I understand the reality better, if I feel that the PMC production plan is unreasonable, I take the initiative to find PMC, point out the unreasonable points of the other party, and take out the plan that I think is more appropriate, and the two sides will comprehensively evaluate and reach an agreed goal, rather than blindly blaming afterwards.

If I am PMC supervisor Zhang Dongmei, the other party said that my production plan is not done, I will learn from him, although I am more professional in production planning, but after all, the product is not familiar with them, they put forward reasonable opinions, which is conducive to the increase of output value, I will accept, unreasonable reasoning, rather than blindly blaming the production department how bad.

Originally, your interests are the same, the plan is done, the production will be smoother, the production will be smoother, the production will be smoother, and it will be more conducive to the plan, this is a virtuous circle, but you are always staring at each other's 20% faults, lack of empathy, only vertical thinking, poor communication skills, if you continue like this, the output value will fall again in a few months in the future, do you believe it or not? Talk about whether you need to do some self-examination and self-reflection.

After such a review of the criticism after the praise, the two of them were convinced, and afterwards Zihan and I asked them to put down their hair and sincerely invite each other to dinner, as a result, the PMC department and the production department cooperated better, and they understood that their interests were the same, although the contradiction has always existed, but it is no longer the contradiction of irrational personal attacks.

Luo Yuanchao is the boss's cousin, in his 50s, as a soldier, in the company to do procurement, responsible for the purchase of a qiฤ“ item outside the association, this person has an advantage, does not take kickbacks, but there are many small shortcomings: the heart of the trivial things love to be careful, a little cold contribution to love in front of the boss Xiร n, belittling others to elevate themselves, every time I sign there always to show how much money I have saved the company, so that I often have to praise him like a child, and he complains a lot, Extremely emotional.

Zhang Dongmei of the PMC department is also an acute child, with a fiery character, and is very anxious to chase any materials, one day, Zhang Dongmei chased Luo Yuanchao a material, chased a few times, Luo Yuanchao was chased, and kept slapping the table and yelling at Zhang Dongmei, I quickly ran out to stop Luo Yuanchao.

Zhang Dongmei didn't say a word, tears kept flowing down, and after a few days, I criticized Luo Yuanchao, and Luo Yuanchao said that he would correct it. Zhang Dongmei said: Because I introduced me, I didn't dare to go against Luo Yuanchao, otherwise others would think that I was fighting against Yin's power. That's why I appreciate her, she can take care of the overall situation, so I don't dare to take it lightly to a new company if she is not a very good and self-disciplined subordinate.

After renting a new plant, the PMC department moved to a new plant, and once, the PMC people called me, and Luo Yuanchao yelled at his boss Manager Liu again. Manager Liu is a strong person, when I criticized her in the office before, she got angry all her life, dared to slam the door and left, Luo Yuanchao can yell at her and cry, it seems extraordinary. I understand the situation, it turns out that Manager Liu arranged a task for Luo Yuanchao a few days ago, Luo Yuanchao is old, and the computer does not understand, there is no plan for miscellaneous things, and he forgets to lose three and four old men, Manager Liu asked the clerk to arrange a plan for Luo Yuanchao's affairs every day, but his old habits are still the same, that day Manager Liu said a few words about Luo Yuanchao, maybe Luo Yuanchao was upset that day, and he also yelled at Manager Liu, and he yelled at Manager Liu at that time, and he couldn't stop his tears when he went to my office.

On the surface, Luo Yuanchao yelled at Manager Liu because of this trivial matter, in fact, although Luo Yuanchao served as the purchasing supervisor, but because he was more than 50 years older, and he didn't even understand the computer, he didn't plan to lose the matter of purchasing parts, and the outsourcing thing was tracked by Manager Liu himself, making Manager Liu become a merchandiser, I decided to recruit a procurement outsourcing supervisor, who was fully responsible for procurement and outsourcing, so that Manager Liu could get out, Luo Yuanchao came down, the work content remained the same, and the bargaining matter continued to be discussed by him. However, the clerk was arranged to chase the material, and Luo Yuanchao continued to enjoy the treatment of the deputy director. But Luo Yuanchao was very angry when he found out, and this incident was just a fuse.

Luo Yuanchao also handed me a letter of resignation afterwards, I ignored it, it happened that the boss also went to the field to investigate, after a few days, I estimate that everyone's anger has disappeared, after the boss came back, I told the boss about the situation, the boss is an acute son, I heard the anger, to fire Luo Yuanchao, I know that the boss is impulsive again, do not agree with the boss's decision, because if the next person to replace Luo Yuanchao takes a kickback, the boss will regret it, so complain about Manager Liu.