Zhang Xiaoshuai thought that he could probably understand Liao Fan's pain, in fact, since he started working in psychiatric nursing, he has become more and more deeply aware that mental patients are actually a group of poor people, they are not so mysterious, not so terrible, they are suffering from unimaginable pain, but no one can tell about it.

And the saddest thing is that even if they tell it, no one wants to believe it at all, people will only think they are crazy, avoid them more and more, and even treat them as terrible devils.

This may be a bit offensive, but the reality is sometimes so cruel, when the change is abrupt, the lover is often the most unreliable one, many long-term hospitalization patients have this situation, even if there is legal protection (if one of the spouses suffers from mental illness, divorce will have absolute priority in the division of property), still can not prevent the other half of the absolute departure, what's more, while receiving the patient's salary, while not delaying to start anew, looking for the family again, anyway, the patient is locked up in a mental hospital, It is enough to visit him once a year.

Of course, there are not no couples who have love and righteousness and never give up, but there are really too few, so few that colleagues occasionally talk about it, and they can listen to it as a legendary story.

Aside from lovers, brothers and sisters may not be really kind, many mentally ill patients have not yet started a family when they are sick, and naturally have no wife and no children can drag them down, Zhang Xiaoshuai has seen it with his own eyes, a person obviously holds his brother's disability certificate to do business tax-free, but he refuses to pay the food fee in arrears to the hospital, every time he sees him with a big gold chain and a big gold watch, with a big belly and a handful of snot and tears crying with the head nurse, Zhang Xiaoshuai feels particularly disgusting.

Perhaps, the brotherhood is not so indestructible, so what about the flesh and blood love? Do your parents have to love you forever? Actually, that's not necessarily.

It's not that Zhang Xiaoshuai is alarmist, not all parents in this world love their children as much as they imagined, they can give birth if they want to, and leave if they want to. There are many parents who throw them at will to their parents and don't come to see them for three or five years, and they don't care about good children, let alone mental problems.

Leave your child in the hospital. Have you ever seen your parents who lied about going out to the toilet and then never found them again? Because it costs money to be hospitalized, the child was locked at home for more than ten years, and the village cadres couldn't stand it, so when they were sent to the hospital. Have you ever seen ruthless parents whose chains grow into the flesh, and if they are torn off, they will have to be even fleshed with belts?

Although the above is just an example, but because I have seen more, the mood is naturally different, Zhang Xiaoshuai's fear and ridicule of mental disorders has gradually changed to full of sympathy now, this is a painful process of body abuse and heart abuse, and people who have not seen it with their own eyes will never understand.

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At the morning meeting the next morning, after listening to Cai Hong's introduction to the new patient's condition, the old director slowly asked:

"I've seen this patient's medical history. Your diagnosis of him was bipolar disorder, can you explain why you made this diagnosis? ”

Cai Hong's stinky fart is a stinky fart, but he does have some skills, theoretical knowledge is his strength, and even Ye Jinghong has to bow down to this.

"Patients have a sense of self-blame and guilt, loss of interest, apathy, mania and depression alternately, and after each episode, they will enter a period of intermittent remission with a normal mental state, which is a typical manifestation of bipolar disorder."

The old director nodded with satisfaction. At the same time, he took off his reading glasses and put them in his breast pocket, and said:

"Very well, you're about to take the exam, right? Let's use this patient as a practical case for the discharge exam! Let's go see this patient. ”

The old director is highly respected. After listening to the old director's words, Cai Hong immediately nodded yes, and everyone followed them into the ward, and the day's work officially started from this moment.

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Liao Fan's personal su zhì is really very good. Even though Sister Liao repeatedly emphasized that her precious nephew has been pampered since she was a child, and everyone must take care of her more, Liao Fan did not cause any trouble to the staff, he ate and slept at the same time, and he was so obedient that he was a little unusual.

Because Liao Fan has not yet made a clear diagnosis, he can't use medicine systematically, and he only took two tablets of alprazolam last night, but after a night of recuperation, he looks more energetic, and his feelings are not as irritable as yesterday, and the whole person is calm, handsome and upright, and his demeanor is elegant, which is really pleasing to the eye when he looks at it from a distance.

No wonder he can make so many girlfriends, Zhang Xiaoshuai asked himself, if he is a woman, with Liao Fan's face, he will admit to being a madman, but it's a pity that such a handsome man, why did he get such a bad disease?

"Liao Fan, this is our director, who came to see you."

"Hello Director, I'm sorry for your trouble."

Liao Fan got up to greet him, and politely shook hands with the old director, and a few little nurses around him who had never seen him couldn't help but widen their eyes when they saw this, this man is too handsome, right? What long-legged Oba and short-legged mule, standing in front of him, were instantly turned into scum in seconds? Anyway, how could such a handsome man get mentally ill? And also hit women? It's just a bolt from the blue?

"Sit down, I'll talk to you."

The old director motioned for Liao Fan to sit down, and he also sat down opposite him, and the two chatted with questions and answers, and everyone around them stared at each other, really a little bit puzzled, listening to Liao Fan's words, the logic is clear, the thinking is rigorous, the wording is appropriate, humble and polite, to be honest, they may not have anyone to deal with it calmly, where does this look like they are sick, it is more credible to say that they are sick!

They were chatting here, and the rest of the staff were also busy, Zhang Xiaoshuai was a heavy guard post today, and after receiving the items of the heavy guard, he also stood aside and listened honestly.

After listening for a while, Zhang Xiaoshuai found that they were also chatting, and the old director was much more skilled, he was not like Cai Hong who specifically asked some more pointed questions, the content of their chat seemed to be boundless, but in fact, as long as they pondered a little, they often reflected the patient's true thoughts better than asking directly.

Therefore, communication is a very technical thing, the same sentence, from different mouths have different effects, so far Zhang Xiaoshuai finally sadly found that he has lived for more than 20 years, and it turns out that he can't even speak. (To be continued.) )