The long-distance train in the morning was very crowded, after Jiafeng and Fei Fei got on the train, they found the carriage where they were, the seat was not leaning, so they switched it with a young man, Fei Fei sat by the window, Jiafeng and she sat next to each other, it was a two-seater, put the items.

As soon as Fei Fei got in the car, she was in good spirits, so she introduced her family's family history to Jiang Lang, otherwise when the sleep addiction came, Jia Feng would go to Fei Fei's house, and she would be full of foreign appearances.

All the way to the gallop and gallop through.

The K811 train is a train from South China to the west, and it takes about 18 hours from Donghai to Bashi, which is a passing station; Ba City is a county-level city along the Yangtze River in a central province.

Fei Fei's family lives in the city, her father is a teacher in a primary school, and her mother used to work in a state-owned enterprise. Fei Fei's grandfather's house is in good condition, he is a famous boss, and he has a shopping mall, but Fei Fei's father's stubborn character does not like to run to his father-in-law's house; Therefore, the family is also a scholarly family, a typical intellectual family of that generation.

The only fly in the ointment is that his 8-year-old brother is in poor health and has become the concern of the whole family.

There is no flower for a hundred days, the moon is profitable, there is no perfect, there is still a difficult scripture for the Jiafu family in "Dream of Red Mansions"?

For Jiafeng, a child from the countryside, it is already a well-off family, what more can the husband ask for? Everyone's thoughts are different.

The question that Jiafeng is thinking about is the first time to visit, what can I do?

Last time Tingting's birthday, I sent a bag; Ah Mei's birthday, giving books and scarves; What hasn't Fei Fei sent yet? There is a hint of guilt, but Fei Fei said first, she must "buy some gifts and bribe"; Fortunately, well-wishers have their own good news, and the magazine bought by the little girl in the railway station square has a tofu block article about the taboo of gift-giving.

When Fei Fei was drowsy, Jiafeng took out the magazine and studied it.

What you can send according to his (her) preferences, hobbies, or what is lacking, send plants, flowers, paintings, tobacco, alcohol, tea, jewelry, cross-stitch, ceramics, shopping cards, local souvenirs can be.

What not to send:

If you can't send a clock, some people say you can't send a clock, because the clock is the end of the homonym, and giving people a bell is equivalent to looking forward to death, and the watch also belongs to the clock, how many corrupt officials are because they wear a bribe-giver's brand-name watch and fall off the horse, or even lose their lives?

Second, you can't give shoes, shoes are the homonym of evil, therefore, anyone who gives shoes to people (excluding the situation of giving them to relatives) is equivalent to sending evil spirits to people, so it is very likely that they will soon lose contact or friendship with the other party.

Three can not send an umbrella, the umbrella is the homonym of scattering, therefore, the umbrella can not be given as a gift (excluding the case of sending an umbrella in the rain), if good friends will give the umbrella as a gift, it will mean that they will break up or be separated in the future.

Fourth, you can't send pears and plums, pears and plums are the homonym of separation, and giving away these two fruits will mean that there is a danger of separation in the future!

Fifth, candles cannot be given, because candles are used to sacrifice the dead, so they cannot be given as gifts.

Sixth, you can't send rag dolls, rag dolls belong to villains, and it is easy to attract evil spirits at home for a long time, bringing uneasiness to the family.

Seven can not give people unknown origin of the stone, the stone is also easy to attract evil spirits attached to the thing, some seem to be ornamental stones, but there may be evil spirits attached to it, to give to friends is unlucky.

It seems that it's not just a matter of money, but also a lot of knowledge! It depends on whether you are careful or not! How many people are worried about giving gifts or stammering, and how many people are sleeping in the open and running for three meals a day...... It's not easy!

The letter is better than no book, and there is still no answer from it, and the bell must be tied to the bell, so I can only ask Fei Fei.

Send your dad good wine, and send mom real gold.

Vulgar and elegant, worthy of being the descendants of merchants and scholars, wise!

Jiafeng couldn't help but re-examine the process of interacting with Fei Fei.

Whether it is psychological or physiological, a woman's progress of emotional changes is a relatively long process, that is, a woman will not make arbitrary conclusions about a man in a short period of time, especially positive conclusions; You can ruin your emotional future with a failed offer, but rarely use a successful offer to completely conquer a girl.

There have been many pen and ink and text descriptions of Fei Fei's many difficult and tortuous interactions, and I will not repeat them.

The emotional order of a woman is exactly the opposite of that of a man. Women are rational before emotional, while men are emotional before rational.

Specifically, it can be said that women do not characterize each other's emotions in the early stage of the relationship, and women are more about examining and observing to see if each other's interactions are harmonious and whether their ambitions are the same. But once women confirm a man's place in their minds, that is, they have completed the stage of transformation from reason to sensibility, and this stage is often achieved on the basis of the girl's sufficient understanding of the boy.

On the contrary, men are visual creatures, and they will say "I like you" at every turn, but in fact, these four words are so irresponsible that they should be changed to "I like you (appearance)"; When chatting with a man, he talked about how the man was really "shocked" when he saw a girl for the first time, so his heart was full of joy and flowers and praises flew all over the sky (of course, it is not denied here that his intentions are real, not to play with the girl's feelings); After understanding each other for a while, I suddenly found that there are actually big differences between each other, such as personalities, hobbies, living habits, etc., and finally gave up halfway or died young.

I remember that every time Jiafeng's eyes fell on other beauties, Fei Fei hated it, not just jealous, but already cared about the man next to her, but she was still not sure, could she be entrusted for life? In testing and testing each other again and again, if you ignore them and give a space to see each other's choices, Ah Mei, a beauty who broke into the world of the two, became the last straw that crushed the camel; Fei Fei threw herself into Jiafeng's arms without hesitation.

She commented that "I like Jiafeng's talent, but I think he is vulgar and ......" In fact, Jiafeng is not an ideal object; vulgar, similar to the "three nos", can deceive Fei Fei, but can't hide it from her family; It's not for nothing, and there are some aspects of him that Fei Fei admires, and I won't go into detail here.

The trip to Bashi was full of longing and longing all the way.