Chapter 518: Pride
At the age of two and a half years, it is the most curious time, the desire for all knowledge, are particularly desired, when I don't understand something, I break the casserole and ask in the end, just like now, the water on the lotus leaf, why is it rolled into beads and does not stick to the leaves. The pen "Fun" Pavilion www.biquge.info this aspect, it is really a question that is not too easy to answer, but fortunately, Fang Nian still knows a little and told Brother An, "This is because the surface of the lotus leaf is very special!" ”
When asking questions about children outside, Fang Nian is not like some parents, either they don't give answers, or they can't avoid them. She has always been seeking truth from facts, knowing is knowing, trying her best to inform An Ge'er in a language that An Ge'er can understand, on the one hand, when Fang Nian doesn't know much, she will tell An Ge'er to let him grow up and explore by himself, and his mother doesn't know much. In this case, An Ge'er naturally won't ask any more questions, she doesn't aim to save face as a mother, everything is fundamental, nothing more than wanting An Ge'er to master more things.
It can be said that as a parent, Fang Nian does his best to make himself the best, always wants to teach him more things, and always wants the little guy to master more skills to arm himself fundamentally and effectively. I always feel that there is something I have not done enough, and I always feel that she should take better care of Brother An.
The contradictory heart cannot be described in words, and everything in Fang Nian is solved through the most fundamental actions. Ah Zhen attaches great importance to and cares about her, and can't bear that she is suffering from pregnancy, but she really controls herself from the root and does not let her bear the toss of pregnancy, which means that she has embarked on the road of family planning in advance, and in the future, there will only be one child under An'er. is such a child, Fang Nian always can't help but want to give him the best of everything, but he is afraid that he will spoil An Ge'er and affect Ah Zhen's overall plan... That contradiction cannot be described in words.
Sometimes, I really feel that language is too scarce, and sometimes, Fang Nian really feels that language is pale and powerless. However, at the same time, words can also express her truest heart, and it is equally important to present her completely in front of the two most important men in her life, one big and one small, and win their intuitive love and pity.
This family of three is free to enjoy in the lotus bushes, the light cool breeze is cool and invasive, the days of early summer, it is the most comfortable time, the little lotus shows its sharp corners, and there are dragonflies standing on its head, this is not an ancient poem, but a true portrayal of today. It is also a beautiful verse that best describes today. Fang Nian smiled and taught Brother An to memorize this popular verse, comparing a beautiful scene in front of him, deepening Brother An'er's memory. That feeling, that beautiful fusion of love and scenery, I feel that it is different, completely different.
The easy-to-understand poems are exactly the right time, and Ange'er's memory is very smooth and happy. After he learned it, he couldn't help but start showing it to his parents. "Father, mother, lotus leaves, dragonflies. The little lotus has only shown its sharp corners, and there are dragonflies standing on its head! He smiled and pointed to the gently flying dragonfly, and pointed to the lotus bud with sharp horns of the little lotus, and couldn't help but laugh very happily.
Children are really willing to learn, they are willing to learn everything they don't understand, and their desire for knowledge is really very strong. Because he knows that An Ge'er will have to assume responsibilities in the future and there are too many things to learn, Fang Nian has been cultivating An Ge'er's curiosity, which makes him more willing to learn in this regard. In this way, the incremental courses in the future will not make Brother An bored of learning.
For this little guy, Fang Nian can be said to be completely exhausted, all kinds of ideas, all kinds of maintenance, all for the little guy to be better in the future. It seems that motherhood is strong, if you meet someone who is not firm before you have this child, you may see this problem, and you don't even dare to think about the foundation of raising a child. But when I personally integrated into it, Fang Nian had the joy and joy of An'er's growth, every point of effort was expected, and every point of harvest was infinitely joyful.
It can be said that for the sake of this child, I have done my best, but Fang Nian has a kind of spring silkworm to the end of the silkworm, and the wax torch has no regrets when the wax torch turns into ashes and tears begin to dry. That's a kind of thing, no matter how much you pay, it's worth it, it's definitely not regretful, and it's every point of gain, it's all joy, recorded in your heart.
"Brother An'er is awesome!" Encouragement is the best teacher, Fang Nian gently slapped his palms, singing a war song of honor for Brother An, between the noses, a faint lotus fragrance lingered, invading the heart, but also bringing, absolutely extraordinary harvest. Xiao Zhen was on the side, looking at this mother and son who were coming and going and having a happy time, and her heart was also full of emotion.
In this life, such satisfaction is something he never imagined before he met Nian'er that one day he would be so complete. The loneliness and boredom of his previous life made him disgusted by the woman's contact, and he had reached the point where the psychological impact on the body was not known. But there is only Nian'er, maybe it was the first time he was contacted, Nian'er was still young, so he was not wary of new life, maybe Nian'er itself was destined to belong to his special, he was special from the first sight, remembered to the present, deeply in his heart, unless it was to wear his heart into powder, otherwise, it is absolutely impossible to forget the attachment.
And on this basis, Nian'er endured the pain of pregnancy in October, and the danger of resurrection after several births, gave birth to An'er, and personally took care of An'er from that small lump to a fresh little life that can speak and run and jump now, the joy and satisfaction of growth, his same honor and disgrace, immersed in it, and rejoicing and proud of his every bit of growth, Nian'er taught this child very well. Therefore, for the sake of this child, Nian'er unconsciously ignored him and diverted some of his attention, Xiao Zhen was only slightly jealous, but he would not add too much pressure to Nian'er.