A few days ago, Fu Jin got angry with Yan'er, and the next day he felt unwell. Someone was sent to Ling Juan to ask Ling Juan to come and take her pulse once, and Ling Juan told Fu Jin very clearly that she had entered menopause. People in this era do not live as long as people in later generations, so menopause should be as early as that few years. If Fujin can be in a happy mood and does not suffer from gains and losses, even when it reaches menopause, there will not be so many symptoms, and the psychological state is very important.

Yun'er's mother, Mrs. Chen, is the same as Fujin, and she is also in the menopausal stage. But Mrs. Chen has always been open-minded and optimistic, but her standard of living is not as good as that of Fujin, and she does not have these reactions from Fujin. For example, they are short-tempered and easily angered.

In fact, there are many uncomfortable places in Fujin, such as the inaccurate monthly letter, abdominal pain, heavy menstrual flow during the monthly letter, and symptoms of palpitations, dreams, and night sweats. Although it is not a fatal symptom, it is also very torturous.

Fu Jin didn't want the prince to know, after all, the prince was a big man, and if he knew, it wasn't that the doctor wouldn't be able to cure, and he would be in a hurry, and it would affect his business. She didn't know how she got it, the three of them hadn't been so serious before they returned home, and they felt a lot more uncomfortable after a few days of hard work.

People's physical health has a lot to do with their mood. Many people in foreign lands have a fear of cancer. He was originally a very healthy person, but he caught a cold by chance, and went to the hospital to see a doctor, and the doctor said that he had cancer, and the person's body might collapse immediately. It's that his mind is in extreme fear, thinking a lot, emotionally, and profitably, and the more he thinks about it, the more he has no way, maybe his life will be in danger. But there is another situation, there is a person who really has cancer, and the doctor tells him that he has cancer, but he doesn't take it seriously, what he should do every day, what to eat, travel everywhere, and have a lot of fun. When I go to the hospital for examination, the cancer is gone, and the hospital may say that it is a misdiagnosis. Fu Jin's body was also affected by external things, she was already worried that the prince was not in the house, as well as the arrogance of Nafeng, the queen mother's multiple temptations, missing her daughter, and then the nonsense of the beard and the dragon and phoenix fetus brought back by Yun'er, all of which affected her mood, anyway, she has been very uncomfortable in recent days. Wang Ye and Yun'er both saw it, and persuaded them in many ways, but the effect was not great, and even Medical Officer Zhu was helpless.

"I feel that Fujin is watching you bring back a pair of dragon and phoenix fetuses, and I have an inferiority complex, and my mood has become depressed." Ling Juan later said to Yun'er, "I have seen this on TV, women in ancient times attached great importance to children, and Fujin herself was the lady of the main family, and it may be very inferior if she did not give birth to a son to the prince." ”

"But who can decide when it comes to having children? I also hope that Fujin can have a few children, and the life in the house will be more prosperous. But ......"

"Don't think too much about it. Be optimistic and don't let the unhappiness in life affect your health. If you are unhappy about many things, it will not change if you are unhappy, so you will simply be happy. The body is too important to a person, don't trouble yourself. ”

"Yun'er knows that you didn't dare to say that Po Fujin is menopause at the beginning, I'm afraid that if you say it, she will ask what menopause is, after you tell her, she will have a lot of ideas, at least she will think that she is old and pessimistic. Fortunately, you said that Fujin didn't seem to care, maybe she didn't understand the word menopause, and it was best that she didn't care. ”

"Fortunately, there is no menopausal here, Yunyun I sometimes really feel sorry for you, so young, beautiful, talented, but it is a side room."

"What kind of talent am I? A talented woman must be proficient in piano, chess, calligraphy and painting, and she must be excellent in needlework and cutting, so that she can go to the hall and the kitchen. However, her fate is not necessarily because of her outstanding talent. It depends on who you marry, if you marry a flowery radish, accept a concubine today, and accept a room tomorrow, or you will linger in the Qinglou woman or attract bees and butterflies outside. Although the palace fights and house fights played in movies and TV are a bit exaggerated, this phenomenon is not absent, and some are even very serious. Many people in those concubines are staring at the position of the lady of the main room, not to mention anything else, it must be the lady of the main room who holds the middle feed of the house, that is, the economic power, and all the income of the house is in the hands of the lady of the main room. Not to mention that in the economically underdeveloped Qing Dynasty, how many people in your hometown don't want to firmly grasp the economic power in their hands? This is a favorable condition for the welfare of the children born to oneself. Therefore, some concubines racked their brains to calculate the wife of the main room, not only her money, but also her people and her children. In fact, it is difficult to be the lady of the main room, and she is too worried. Of course, there are also the ladies of the main room who calculate the concubines, and it is this polygamy that makes trouble. Yun'er sighed, "Many young ladies have been learning piano, chess, calligraphy and painting, learning needlework, and cooking since they were three or four years old, because their parents were afraid that their daughters would be looked down upon by their in-laws and husbands if they did not have any skills, so they worked hard to cultivate them. After studying for more than ten years, getting married, and becoming the wife of the main room, the lady of the main room has no time to go through the wind and snow, and must master the middle feed of the house, so that she will immediately fall into the firewood, rice, oil and salt, and the things that have taken so much time and energy to learn may not be used. And the relationship with her husband is also very difficult, if her husband had a concubine and aunt before her, and there was a personal maid who served her husband since she was a child, is that kind of feeling comparable to her newcomer? It's normal to get the cold shoulder. How do you think she's feeling? That's also a clean and good girl, her husband had a woman with deep feelings when he was a teenager, what is she? Isn't it picking up what is left of others? I also have to pretend to be virtuous and generous to arrange the lives of these women, and if I am not satisfied, I will make it bad behind my back, this kind of life is really difficult! If the husband is not good, he should lament his fate, and if the husband is good, he will have to worry about his future and fate, and he will be confused by other women. I'm already content, even though the prince is much older than me, I'm still a side room. But the prince's character is good, Fujin's heart is very kind, no one in the house bullied me, I just eat food and don't care about wearing, except for asking Fujin for peace is a hard work, the rest of the time is at his own disposal, if you want to read, you can read, if you want to paint, you can paint, which side of Fujin has peace of mind? I'm really content, and I don't take it very seriously when things don't go well. ”

"Yunyun, you really can, you think so clearly. People should be content, and a lack of heart is a curse. ”

"So I hope you can think of some good ways to minimize the symptoms of Fujin, it is best not to use medicine, I don't know how to cure diseases, but I know that medicine is poisonous. Just use those herbal teas of yours to condition her, or I will be suspicious if she gets sick. ”

"I know, I know what you mean. You belong to the absolute monarchy here, women have no right to speak, you are still a side room. Rest assured, I will do my best to improve the situation of Fujin. In fact, Fujin is a very good person, but her status can't be too casual. Menopausal syndrome is also not absolutely impossible to solve. The herbal tea you mentioned is one thing, but the medicine still has to be eaten. I heard that Yu'er girl say that Dr. Zhu is the husband of Mama Zheng in Fujin's room, this is easy to do, at least Fujin will believe in Dr. Zhu and be willing to take the medicine he prescribed. Then I want to think of ways to make Fujin's mood better, it is always very depressed and has low self-esteem, so it is difficult to do. If you can trust her, you often take the baby Beibei to her to play, I think she likes the baby Beibei very much, it is the kind of like from the heart, it doesn't seem to hurt the child, right? ”

"Definitely not. But I can't trust someone in her room, she is so hostile to me, and she is just as hostile to children. Not to mention giving poison or touching it, but giving a jelly bean to eat and squeaking him will get stuck. ”

"Then you can't let Baby Beibei go to Fujin, even if you go, you have to have a few people watching. If you look too closely, it's not good for Fu Jin to find out...... It's hard to do. ”

"If Fu Jin always goes to my mother to see the child, she can't guarantee that the people in the room won't do anything to the child, and the blame will be hers! Don't look at the baby Beibei is not the emperor's child, but also a royal family member who is very close to the emperor's blood relationship. If something goes wrong, don't look at how high Fujin's position is, he will also be slapped to hell. Otherwise, how could she be so inferior? If she was born by herself, there would never be anything wrong with her, who in her room didn't work hard to protect her? Can it harm her children? Other people's children are the descendants of the eight classics, and in your words, the roots are red. But it's a big regret that she didn't give birth to a son, she can't be straight and angry. In fact, it's still caused by this social system, don't you still have a Dink family over there? I don't want children at all, but not having children here is a lifelong regret. In Fujin's grandfather's generation, there was an aunt and grandmother of the Tong family who was the original wife of Taizu ** Hachi, or Fujin's grandfather would not be able to hand over most of the family assets to Taizu. Taizu married her clan sister Xu to Fujin's grandfather as the first generation of the commander's wife, and the roots of their Tong family are rooted in the roots of the Jianzhou Jurchen, and they are inseparable. If it weren't for the fact that Emperor Taizong had a deep apology for my prince, sent him to the temple to become a monk since he was a child, and had already prepared to give him a gentle and virtuous wife after he was still a layman, Fujin might be a concubine in Taizong's harem now. ”

"It's so complicated."

"If it weren't for Fujin's infertility, I wouldn't be qualified to marry the prince, and now it is likely to be the little daughter-in-law of a certain scholar, who eats tea and light meals every day and takes care of housework, maybe this is fate. By the way, do you have any other ideas to alleviate Fu Jin's symptoms as soon as possible? ”

"This seems a bit ridiculous, I mean can you often tell Fu Jin some jokes about our there, so that she can be happy, people's emotions are quite important, I'm afraid you have ideas."

"You think too much, as long as Fujin can be happy and happy, it's okay to tell a joke, but not too often."

"I see what you mean. In fact, whether Fujin is happy or not, she has to persuade herself, women in this era are really sad, in fact, having children is not a complete solution. Children may deviate from the control of their parents in the process of growing up, such as bad schooling, injury, early death, illness, etc., which are not avoidable by manpower. Who has no twists and turns in his life? ”

"It's not easy to be alive. In fact, children are debt collectors of their parents, and they repay what they owe them all their lives, but the form of expression is different from that of creditors and debtors in reality. Parents have to give him food and clothing, provide him with education, and give him a wife. If he is sick, he will find a doctor for him without saying anything himself, which is still good and obedient. If there is a bastard and a loser, then you have to be angry and sad. ”

"Yunyun, you see everything so thoroughly."

"Is this thorough?"