Chapter 21: The Best Grandmother
But that's all for later, and now this child is still a crying baby.
"This child is so good-looking, I finally have a son, he is our baby, and his name will be Chen Bao in the future." Chen Tiezhu said.
"Bao, Daddy gave you a name, do you like it?" Chen Yu's mother also hugged Chen Bao happily and said.
Chen Yu heard a knock on the door outside, went over to open the door, and found that it was his grandparents, as well as the eldest aunt and the second aunt, so he immediately invited everyone in.
"The third daughter-in-law gave birth to a son, the third finally has a queen, I and your father were still very worried before, don't worry about it now, let me see my baby grandson." Grandma said.
The little Chen Bao was taken out, and everyone looked at this little baby, because it was the first son of Sanfang, so everyone still attached great importance to it.
At this time, the difference between a son and a daughter is obvious, when Chen Yu was born before, Chen Yu remembered that no one came to see him, but he didn't expect that as soon as his younger brother was born, so many people came to see him.
People here attach importance to their sons, after all, daughters are going to marry after all, sons are the ones who inherit the family business, no son is a big deal, the ancients were very superstitious, feudal, Chen Yu could not change the concept formed for so many years, so he silently returned to his room.
The grandparents didn't go back until noon, because they were a family, and their parents didn't let them stay for dinner.
Two days later, a middle-aged woman and a young woman came to the house, Chen Yu opened the door and didn't know him, although he was a little puzzled, but he still let people in.
"Mother-in-law is here, come in and sit, and the girl will cook two bowls of sugar eggs." Chen Yu's father said.
At this time, Chen Yu knew that this was his grandmother, and the other was his aunt. They came to visit their mother, but Chen Yu is two years old, and she has never seen her grandmother's family, and the connection between the two families is not deep, so why is her grandmother here today?
Could it be that it was really because my mother gave birth to a younger brother. But soon Chen Yu knew that he had guessed wrong, or that his family and his grandmother's family were obviously not so harmonious.
Grandma and aunt were not kind to Chen Yu and her four sisters, losing money and goods, and making several people very unhappy after hearing it.
"Osmanthus, after so many years, you got married, and finally gave birth to a son, you can really stand firm, your family has broken up, and you have built a new house, it looks really good, all of them are full of red light, which is like our yellow face and thin muscles, and it is difficult to live. Look at those money-losing goods are all fleshy, but your nephew is hungry and skinny, you didn't have a firm foothold here before, my mother understands you, and I didn't talk to you, now that you're having a better life, you have to pull your brother, don't you say that's the truth? Grandma said.
"Sister-in-law, now my father and mother live with us, we separated two years ago, there is not much land, and now it is difficult to even have basic food and clothing, pity your nephews and nieces, and you have to dig wild vegetables to live, this day is hard. The house is also an old house, there is no money to repair a new one, and the whole family is crowded together, and I didn't come to complain, but to let you pull our family for the sake of your eldest brother's hard work. The eldest aunt said.
Chen Yu was dumbfounded when he heard it outside, it turned out that he was here to fight the autumn breeze, his family was already very poor, and he still came to fight the autumn breeze, wouldn't he? Could it be that it is really so difficult in my grandmother's house?
In fact, Chen Yu's grandmother's family didn't come to fight the autumn breeze once or twice, after Chen Yu's mother got married, especially when she was pregnant with Chen Daniu, her grandmother often came to fight the autumn wind, and everyone endured it once or twice, and then the grandmother and aunt got angry and stopped giving things, of course, because the mother was pregnant with a child, and she didn't do too much.
But then the mother gave birth to two daughters one after another, and there was no son, and when the grandmother came again, she tore her face, and the grandmother threatened that the grandmother was still like this, so she would take the mother home, and they couldn't afford such a daughter-in-law. In this way, the mother also hated the grandmother, and the grandmother did this, so that the mother had a very difficult time at home for a while, but fortunately, the father was considerate of the mother and said good things in front of the grandmother, plus this matter really had little to do with the mother, and the mother was a little better.
Of course, he didn't have a son, and he was still disliked. Because of this incident, my mother basically didn't go back to my parents' house, and my grandmother didn't come to see my mother anymore, probably because she knew that she couldn't take advantage of it, so she didn't come, but now that my mother has split up and given birth to a son, my mother has the money herself, and now she can take advantage of it, so it's not coming.
Obviously, the grandmother doesn't mind the suffering she brings to her mother at all, anyway, as long as she can get the benefits, the water spilled by the married daughter, the son is more important, but how can the daughter not subsidize her mother's family, and she doesn't know how to honor her parents when she separates the family, she really raised this daughter in vain.
Grandma was actually very unhappy, she felt that her mother should have consciously come to honor her a long time ago, instead of now that she came in person. However, she thought that it might be because her daughter was pregnant, so she didn't come back to give her money, and now that she is here, she should say a few words about her difficulties, and her daughter should not obediently take the money out.
It's all those four girls, if the daughter gave birth to a son earlier, how much benefit can she get from her daughter, but because she lost so much money and goods, the relationship with her in-laws was stiffened, so when she saw Chen Yu and them, her grandmother's face was very ugly.
"Mother, we just split up, and then we built the house, and now we have Ah Bao, there is really no money in the family, we are also in difficulty, the family is also eating miscellaneous grains, and the children are still not full, it's really not that I don't want to help my brother, I really can't do anything." Chen Yu's mother said.
Chen Yu's mother has long known what kind of person her mother is, how many times has she been involved over the years, if the other party was not her mother, Wang Guihua would have slapped her in the face, it was too much, her daughters were married, and she wanted her daughter to subsidize her mother's family, which was really unprecedented, and it was a shame to say it.
"Don't tell me this, now that your wings are stiff, I won't be able to control you when you get married, will you? You don't have money, you don't have money to build a new house, you can look oily and delicate without money, who are you fooling. Your father and mother are all suffering now, and they are already enjoying happiness here, so what's wrong with supporting your mother's family. Grandma said loudly.
Chen Yu's mother was so angry that tears were about to fall out, she was not treated at home since she was a child, everything in the family belonged to her brother, she couldn't eat enough when she worked since she was a child, and she would be beaten many times, I thought that it would be much better after getting married, but I didn't expect my mother to come to her husband's house to make trouble.