Chapter 757: Finally marrying his mother
Ji's year has been in a bit of a trance, as Qijing said, she is indeed interested in the bookstore owner. Pen, fun, and www.biquge.info
In Qijing's view, this world, the so-called love, is very rare. For those boudoir ladies, at most, at various banquets, I heard about some people, or watched from afar. And at most, while the elders are watching, meet with some people.
This is the boldest thing they can do before marriage.
Like or love something, that's impossible. Maybe there will be a little hazy good feelings, but the impression is weak.
Therefore, women in ancient times were always easily seduced. The sweet words of men can easily attract some young ladies to be moved by their hearts, and they think that they love to death. Some of the little daughters-in-law Hongxing went out of the wall, and the ladies eloped and absconded. At the end of the day, it's just because there's too little to see. In modern times, who would ask for a phoenix for a song and run away with a poor scholar? Which country's prime minister's daughter is willing to marry a little hooligan?
This is not the point, the point is that the Ji family has not been in contact with most men before. The only one is a scumbag, and the result is injured and heartbroken. When she sees similar people again, she is actually afraid. Just like the caravan leader she met on the road, she just wanted to be far away, and she didn't know each other.
The owner of the bookstore was a completely different person, he was a painter and a businessman. is still a father, a qualified father, clean and self-conscious. Keep your distance from all women.
I met Ji because of the right door. is that the two do not deliberately make friends, and occasionally raise their heads and bow their heads, and their eyes will collide. What's more, Qijing learned the four arts with the other party's daughter, and the Ji family would never be cold to the other party. So, you come and go, and you also have a friendship. And then, every day, there are a few times to look at each other, and occasionally a few words to talk...... From one or two sentences, to three or four sentences, to being able to speak freely. Then I found out that it was not easy for everyone, and they still had a common language. Habits, just little by little.
Then, in this era when both men and women are emotional, it is natural for two lonely men and widows who are familiar with this job to get married.
As a man, the owner of the bookstore always has to take responsibility, so on the first day of the Lunar New Year, he let his daughter come to explore the situation, and on the sixteenth day of the first month, he found a matchmaker to come up and propose marriage.
What Ji has to consider is to disagree. Of course, what really needs to be nodded in this matter is actually the seven scenes.
Ji Shi was willing in her heart, she was only worried that her daughter would be unhappy. If her daughter doesn't want a stepfather and stepsister to press on it, she can only refuse. A woman who remarries has no better reputation than a widow. And for her, her daughter is more important than herself.
Qijing is naturally willing, as long as she likes it and marries willingly, Qijing agrees with both hands. No one wants her to marry soon, so as not to have anything to do with that scumbag in the future.
Although Ji was full of shame, after the seven points of view, he also gave the bookstore owner a positive answer. It's just that during the engagement period, there was a problem again.
Ji has no opinion on arriving sooner or later, she only hopes that she can wait for her brother to come back and marry her.
The bookstore owner hopes that he can marry his daughter before she gets married. There is a housewife who manages her daughter's marriage, and her reputation is better. It's all for her daughter, and it's reasonable.
His daughter's wedding is scheduled for August next year.
It was only February, and it stands to reason that this time was not near, and they had plenty of time to arrange their marriage. But Uncle Ji is now from the army, and he will not come back for one or two years, three or four years, and there are also some people.
So, here it is.
How many scenes have you seen, when you are in love, you and I are nong, and love is dead and alive. As a result, a marriage can be broken up directly, and even become enemies of men and women. At this time, she was a little worried that the two would not be able to get along.
In the end, it was Qijing who came out to speak: "My mother wrote to my uncle, I think he will find a way." "There's just no way, I have to think of one for him to come out.
Both agreed that Ji couldn't think of any other way. The owner of the bookstore knows that this young lady has a relationship with the fourth highness of his family, and he has to agree if he disagrees.
Uncle Ji's letter came quickly, saying that he would come back in September today, and specially indicated that he would stay in Beijing for two months.
So everyone was happy, and the wedding date was set for September 28.
Seven scenes began to prepare a dowry for her mother. Of course, the real main force in this matter is Mama Xu, and Qijing is only studying on the side.
Qijing himself has been married and married to a daughter-in-law. But for the dowry of ordinary people, she is preparing for the first time.
She didn't know what to prepare or how much to prepare.
Mama Xu said, "For women, the more dowry, the better." That is the confidence of a woman after marriage, and she uses the man's for everything, although it should be, but it is inevitable that there will be times when you don't take advantage of it. But there are many of them, and they are also exquisite. There has always been a rule for everything, and there are rules for how much the queen marries and how much the princess marries. Looking at the status of the husband's family, if it is low, it is looked down upon, and if it is high, it makes people say that it is frivolous.
The people also have their own rules. Mrs. is a second marriage, and the other party is a merchant, it shouldn't be too high, and it is enough to have a thirty-six lift. I just want to inquire about the situation of the old man's previous wife. It stands to reason that it is better for the lady to be lower, and it is also a courtesy. And the other party is a well-known painter, so these thirty-six sets can be done in Yali. ”
How to get to Yali?
It is to turn gold, silver and jade into antique calligraphy and painting. The price has gone up, and it seems to be in extraordinary taste.
But in fact, what real antiques and famous calligraphy and paintings can folk people get? But it's just pretty. In general, there are many gold, silver and jade objects.
But there are seven scenes, and there is really no shortage of these. Not two months later, Uncle Ji sent two big carts of things over, saying that it was to add makeup to my sister.
Those things are not elegant enough, but they are expensive enough.
Qijing pondered, left some particularly good ones, and sold the rest for a Zhuangzi shop for her. No matter what age it is, it is still the most secure field shop.
Ji was reluctant to leave most of them behind. was directly rejected by Qijing: "Mother, don't worry, uncle will definitely have good things to send home in the future, are you still afraid that there will be no good things?" ”
Ji Shi is always easily persuaded, but this time, she is not so easy to relax: "Your uncle's things are not raining in the sky, it has only been a few years, how many things can he save?" Perhaps, this is the family foundation he has saved over the years. Go back to these things, and keep them. The arrival of those Zhuangzi shops is to make it, but I can't take it away. You have to keep it, half for you, and half for your uncle. ”
"But my uncle said it was for you."
"I don't need that much." Ji didn't know what to think of, and sighed: "It's not good, it's not here." ”
Qijing discussed it with Mama Xu, and Mama Xu also agreed with Ji.
The thing is in the hands of the Ji family, or in the hands of Qijing, in fact, it is not bad. However, Mama Xu picked out a few good pieces of jewelry, all of which were in Seji's jewelry box.
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Time passed little by little, spring went to summer.
It's hot day by day, and they, who are inexperienced, don't prepare any ice at home, and at this time, it is very difficult. Fortunately, the bookstore and Lechen sent ice over from time to time.
Especially Lechen, every day before dawn, he first sent them the ice they needed for a day. From what you use to what you eat...... Every time he got these things, Ji's expression was complicated. Some are honestly afraid, and more are helpless.
The extreme heat was just after that, followed by heavy rain for half a month. The great drought and the flood caused disasters and chaos in the world, and the whole Dayan was not able to survive for a while.
In August, Uncle Ji sent an urgent letter that the people in a certain place were in turmoil, and he wanted to follow the general to send troops to suppress the civil unrest. In other words, my sister can't come back from her marriage. However, the letter also earnestly instructed him not to delay the marriage because of him, otherwise, it will affect his sister's happiness and he will not be able to sleep peacefully for the rest of his life. It's just that the matter of giving marriage is not possible. Fortunately, he has a righteous brother in Beijing, Quan is the elder brother, and he came to see off his relatives, which is barely suitable.
After reading the letter, Ji Shi cried and laughed, and after a long time, he finally sighed, but he didn't say anything.
It's seven scenes, and it's a little inexplicable.
Taking advantage of the opportunity to meet Lechen, he asked curiously: "Won't my uncle's letters before all be fake?" "Although there are traces of this, it is hard to believe that it happened to be like this.
Lechen refused to admit it, "What nonsense, it's this one, it's true." ”
Seven Scenes is a little unbelievable this time, it's really not real.
Le Chen smiled: "The letter is indeed true, and your mother will not misunderstand her brother's handwriting." It's true that he wants to suppress the civil unrest, but that brother is fake. It can't be considered fake, and once this is over, it will become true. In this capital, it is more convenient than your uncle to be your mother's backer. ”
That person was arranged by him to be the righteous brother of the Ji family, originally for the purpose of raising the identity of Qijing, and the family was born in Hanlin and was a real clear stream.
Qijing glared at him, and acquiesced in the matter.
By the end of August, the righteous brother finally appeared. He brought his wife and young lady over, and he could barely talk with Ji's family, so he was polite and crossed the bright road.
Finally, on the day of the wedding, the righteous brother gave the marriage, and the righteous sister-in-law was in charge. It is beautiful, lively, and not frivolous and exaggerated.
As a daughter, Qijing didn't go with her this time.
Regarding the future of Qijing, Qijing has discussed with Ji many times. In the end, under the persuasion of Qijing and Mama Xu, the Ji family finally relented, and her household registration was to enter the Fang family, the owner of the bookstore. However, she did not live in Fang's house and still lived in Xiuzhuang.
The two sides are already close, door to door. But with such a separation, it is much freer.
Although Ji is a good mother, Qijing prefers to be free by herself. Especially she has a Lechen who meets her at midnight from time to time and stays on her bed by the way.
And, on the other hand, the seven scenes are really not good with the past. From Boss Fang's point of view, there is no clarity between her and his master. Is this a father and daughter, or a master and servant? Besides, Miss Fang, Miss Fang is about to get married, she always has a private meeting with men, and her reputation is always in the way.
In the future, these people will be regarded as her family, and she can't harm them, right?
Ji didn't understand the ingenuity in this, but Boss Fang and Miss Fang did.
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