Chapter 228: Take your time
Ji Anning returned to Tian Baizhen's side, and everyone's topic had changed to home life. Tian Baizhen stretched out her hand to shake Ji Anning's hand, she stepped back and whispered, "Sister Zhen, my hands are cold." Tian Baizhen retracted her hand, looked at her and said, "Okay, I know your thoughtfulness, then I can sit next to you." ”
Ji Anning sat down next to Tian Baizhen with a smile, and when she saw the Tian family's eldest aunt and the other three aunts talking, she asked Tian Baizhen in a low voice, "Sister Zhen, didn't my brother-in-law come with you today?" Tian Baizhen had a happy look on her face, and she whispered: "Your brother-in-law sent me here, he is going to go out of the city today, and his family has prepared some things for us on the mountain."
You go later, you take some home and eat. Ji Anning looked at Tian Baizhen's belly, she shook her head lightly and said, "Sister Zhen, you have a child in your belly, you have to eat more." You don't have to think about me, if there is something delicious, my aunt and sister-in-law will think about me. ”
Tian Baizhen looked at Ji Anning's ruddy complexion, and she said with a smile: "Your aunt and your sister-in-law are both good people. Ji Anning nodded with a smile and said, "Mother wrote to say that she was convinced of the behavior of her aunt and sister-in-law, so she dared to put our three young children at home." ”
Ji Anning didn't know whether Ji Shou's family originally planned to wait until his youngest son turned one year old, or send him to be raised by Ji Shouye and his wife. But this time, Ji Shouye directly said that they would not be willing to accept the child to come to the school to study until they were at least five years old.
Tian is happy that her youngest son can accompany her for a few more years, and she knows in her heart that the children she gave birth to have her in their hearts, but their behavior is close to their uncles, aunts, brothers and sisters-in-law. Tian is even more of a smart person, and she knows that her children can only be more productive if they follow the long house.
Ji Shoujia's vision and vision are not as good as his eldest brother Ji Shouye, and his actions are also not as bold as his eldest brother, and he is obviously dragging his feet in some things. Tian has already understood that Ji Shoujia's official career can only be a deputy, and he can't be a full-time official.
Living in a small town, Tian felt that it was a good life, and Ji Shoujia would no longer meet amorous women from time to time. He treated her and her newborn son with obvious care more about the days at home. Ji Shoujia himself also said that after the birth of his youngest son, he felt that he was like a real father.
Ji Anning saw the life of a happy little woman through Tian's letters. Naturally, she also felt that she had hidden worries in her heart. Tian is worried that Ji Shoujia's heart is unstable, and he doesn't know when he will relapse from his old illness. Similarly, Ji Shouye is pleased that Ji Shoujia is now willing to settle down and live, but he is also worried that if he changes places. Will he not be able to resist the temptation of the woman outside?
Ji Shoujia's three-year term is approaching, and he wants Ji Shouye to help him think of an idea before returning to Shuzhou City. Ji Shouye was quite in a dilemma, he discussed with Ji Shoucheng, and Ji Shoucheng also agreed to let Ji Shou's family try to transfer back after three years of stability. Ji Shoucheng also robbed Ji Shouye of the reply, and he said bluntly: "Brother, you have always been kind to the third child, so you have developed the appearance that he can't take on big things now."
You have to be as strict as you are to raise him, and now he needs you to worry about it. You see, Zheng'er can discipline the children at a young age, and now the children like to talk to their eldest brother when they encounter big and small things. Ji Shouye actually reflected on such a thing, but he just taught his son and younger brother how to be the same?
The look on his face was revealed. asked Ji Shoucheng to retort: "I see that Zheng'er has done a better job than you in this regard, and he treats his younger brothers and nephews as his own sons. He acted justly and reasonably, and everyone naturally believed in him. Ji Shouye smiled with relief and said, "Sure enough, my son is more capable than Lao Tzu." ”
Ji Shouye and Ji Shoucheng both knew in their hearts that Ji Shuzheng was putting too much effort into his family, and he was engaged in academic and political affairs, and that road looked relaxed, but the requirements for knowledge were very high. Although the eldest master of the Tian family had the heart to support him, he couldn't go too far on that road.
Ji Shouye looked at the regretful look on Ji Shoucheng's face, he smiled and said with relief: "Zheng'er understood very early on that there must always be someone in a family who is willing to put their heart into restraining and disciplining the people below. Neither you nor I have so much to spare. The third child can't bear the kind of temperament, and he is the only one who can talk about identity.
The prosperity of the Ji family is now the time to lay the foundation, and the results can be seen after two or three generations. Dick. I look at the children's table at home, and our old age can be better than my father's. Ji Shoucheng laughed and said: "Brother, don't compare with your father, he is a blessed person in this life."
When his grandfather and grandmother were alive, there were elders who took care of him. Those years in between. After his absurd behavior, if he changed to an ordinary family, he was afraid that he would live a lonely life in his old age. But in his old age, he can still be cared for by his eldest brother and sister-in-law, and sometimes he will act with him according to his temperament. ”
Compared with Ji Shouye's letting go, Ji Shoucheng couldn't let go of his heart knot when facing his father. He has been ridiculous for half his life, and now when he sees that the two sisters-in-law are behaving inappropriately, he can't give a stern instruction to some words of discipline. Ji Shoucheng also recognized that he was also a blessed elder, with a big nephew who acted solemnly and could help him discipline the words and deeds of his two sons.
Ji Shoucheng didn't feel that he owed the Ning family, their couple lived their lives like they are today, or did they both realize that if they continued to let go like that, their little family would be scattered. The two of them worked together to give up all the knots in their previous hearts and live their lives again for the sake of their children.
Ji Shoucheng felt that he owed his children to his relatives, and he set a bad example for the children like his father. And he and Ning can have such a peaceful life, both of them understand in their hearts that no matter how they live, the two of them will not be able to live back to the life of a loving couple.
The Ning clan no longer raised the thorns on his body to deal with him as before, and Ji Shoucheng naturally treated her with an extremely peaceful attitude. On the contrary, the two discussed the affairs of their children, and Ji Shoucheng sometimes politely persuaded the Ning family to believe in the younger generations of the first and third gardens, they are the brothers and sisters of the children, and they will not calculate their own people like the people of the Ning family.
It's just that Ning still doesn't dare to believe in people's hearts, she once believed in her brothers-in-law, but in her daughter's family affairs, they also made her deeply disappointed. Ji Shoucheng couldn't convince her, and she couldn't convince Ji Shoucheng, she just said in the end: "Time is still long, let's take a look." (To be continued.) )