298. Take care
298. Take care
Lu Shuangping saw that her son looked worried that Meng Qingqing would be wronged, and the trace of shame just now was lost, she just couldn't see her son's careful care of Meng Qingqing, as if she was a porcelain doll that would break when touched. On the contrary, because of this Meng Qingqing, her mother has become a wicked person in the eyes of her son, is he afraid that he will do something to hurt this Meng Qingqing?
But before Lu Shuangping had a seizure, Meng Qingqing rushed to say: "It's nothing, Auntie is chatting with me casually, we are chatting happily!"
"What are you talking about?" Seeing that Meng Qingqing did not have the slightest displeasure on his face, Qin Haonan breathed a sigh of relief.
"I was about to ask Auntie what happened to you when you were a child! You came in, were you afraid that I would know what happened to you when you were a child, so you came in and disturbed us? Meng Qingqing said with a relaxed smile.
Lu Shuangping thought that Meng Qingqing would definitely tell the truth about it, and his son would definitely not give himself a good face in order to protect Meng Qingqing, because she had already asked her son about Meng Qingqing's parents, and her son immediately guessed that Ling Yunlu had said Meng Qingqing's family situation in front of her, so her son was too angry about this matter, and if her son knew that she had been holding on to this matter, he would definitely be very angry. But Meng Qingqing didn't mention it again, she understated the matter perfunctory. At this time, she suddenly felt that Meng Qingqing was not so annoying.
Lu Shuangping's face showed a smile, "Okay, I'll tell Qingqing in the future, Hao Nan had a lot of troubles when he was a child!" ”
Since Ling Yunlu said those words to Lu Shuangping, Lu Shuangping's heart was like a thorn in it, which made her unable to be at peace all the time, after she asked her son, her son also had a lot of opinions about her, and Qin Guoliang also scolded him well. But the thorn in her heart was still there.
It wasn't until now that Lu Shuangping said these honest words to Meng Qingqing, and the thorn in Lu Shuangping's heart was finally pulled out.
But her son's maintenance made Lu Shuangping dislike Meng Qingqing, fortunately, Meng Qingqing was not too stupid and didn't have any eyes, she didn't tell herself in front of her son to ask about her family situation, but perfunctory in this way, which made Lu Shuangping have a little good impression of her.
After this incident, Lu Shuangping also stopped temporarily, she could only take advantage of the situation for the matter between her son and Meng Qingqing, although she had to wait a few years for her son to get married, but she couldn't stand her son and really liked this Meng Qingqing, her own opposition was not only useless, but also annoyed her son, and after contact, this Meng Qingqing was not very unacceptable. So I can only follow my son's wishes.
This summer vacation ended soon, and the relationship between Qin Haonan and Meng Qingqing heated up rapidly during this holiday, and people who are in love are most afraid of separation.
When booking a ticket, Qin Haonan said, "Just book two tickets!" , I'll send you there. Then stay there with you for two days. ”
Meng Qingqing disagreed, "Sending you a thousand miles must be goodbye in the end, how can you be like a child?" What do you have to let others think, not to mention anything else, your mother will definitely think that I instigated you to do this, it seems that I am very incompetent, and I even have to send you to school, this is not a few kilometers away, it is such a long distance from Nanshi to Beijing. ”
"Qingqing, did my mother say anything to you?" Qin Haonan knew that his mother had listened to Ling Yunlu's provocation, and he had some opinions about Meng Qingqing in his heart.
"Your mom won't say anything to me, but I can feel that she's a little upset with me, and it's because you're so nice to me."
"This ...... I'm too good to you, so she's unhappy with you? Qingqing, are you thinking too much? ”
"I didn't think much about it, it's really like this, do you know why the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has been incompatible since ancient times?"
"It's because of the generation gap, two women of different ages and eras, there must be communication problems."
"That's one reason, but not the main one."
"What is the main reason?"
"The main reason is that they are not balanced. You see, they love a man together, one is her son who was raised with hard work, she must have poured all her love into it, and her son also loves her, but one day, she found that her son who had worked hard to raise gave love to another woman, so this woman's heart was unbalanced, she felt that another woman easily took her results, if she was a little more sensible, she would control her own thoughts, and not let it burst out, irrational, she would look at the other woman everywhere unpleasant, So all kinds of contradictions between the two women came out. ”
Qin Haonan always felt that his mother's dissatisfaction with Meng Qingqing was completely because of Ling Yunlu's words, but he never thought that there was her mother's own reason in it.
Now listening to Meng Qingqing's analysis, I feel that it makes sense, so I asked: "What is the psychological state of the other woman?"
"Another woman, as a future daughter-in-law, I believe that most people face their future mother-in-law with gratitude and respect at the beginning, but in the process of getting along later, either because of the mother-in-law's attitude, or because of the man's attitude towards his mother and wife, this woman has to change her original intention. If the mother-in-law always looks down on her horizontally and vertically, and this man is only the mother of the word, then you can imagine how difficult this woman's life will be, she will either swallow her anger and accept it, or she will rebel angrily. ”
"I'm not such a man."
"Who knows, it is said that men are different before and after marriage, they are slaves before marriage, and they are emperors after marriage."
"Do you have so little faith in me? I'm so good to you that my mom is jealous, and that's what you said. ”
"Yes, I have faith in you, otherwise there is something wrong with my vision."
"Qingqing, in the matter of getting along with my mother, I hope you can take care of it more, she is an elder after all."
"I know, as long as you're not partial, I'll take care of it."
"Really? Are you so confident? ”
"Of course, she loves you, and I love you, as long as she does everything for your good, I can't guarantee that I have a good relationship with her, but I can guarantee peace with her. Minimize conflicts. Don't worry you. ”
"Okay, I'll see."
"But you have to listen to me, in the future, in front of your mother, don't care about me so much, for example, if I go to school by myself, you don't send it, for example, eat together, I will clip my favorite dishes by myself, I don't need you to fill my bowls, and I can also pick ...... fish bones by myself" (To be continued.) )