385. Confide
385. Confide
That day, my mother and Xiaoqi came to visit Meng Qingqing and Dudu at home. Pen & Fun & Pavilion www.biquge.info
Xiaoqi is now a sophomore in Beijing, because of the National Day, so he comes back for the holiday, every time he comes back, he has to run to see Dudu, this little cutie. When Dudu saw his uncle, he also stuck to him and ignored the others.
No, grandma said to change his clothes, the clothes on his body got wet when he drank water just now, and he twisted his chubby little body to ask his uncle to change it. Xiaoqi is also a young master who is not diligent at home, and he is all dressed to reach out for food to open his mouth, but in front of Dudu, he is still clumsy but patient to change Dudu's clothes, feed him food, and patiently peel bananas for him.
Yu Xiaofei looked at Dudu and Xiaoqi and said, "Don't say it, Dudu looks very much like Xiaoqi when he was a child, and his appearance when he eats is very similar."
Lu Shuangping on the side said: "Like Hao Nan when he was a child, his facial features and expression are similar."
Yu Xiaofei glanced at Meng Qingqing, smiled and didn't say anything more. This Lu Shuangping is competitive and competitive, and she has the upper hand in everything, but she has to be more serious when she chats. is much more difficult to get along with than his mother-in-law, but fortunately, Qin Haonan can balance the relationship between his mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, otherwise his daughter's life will not be easy.
Lu Shuangping took advantage of Meng Qingqing's upstairs to get something, and said to Xiaofei: "Mother-in-law, you are Qingqing's mother, Qingqing may listen to what you say, everyone in our family likes children, but there is only one child, not only does Dudu feel lonely, but we also feel that children don't love children enough, you see, if there are two children, Dudu has company, sometimes when you bring one of the children to play at home, our side will not be lonely, don't you say?" Mother-in-law. ”
Yu Xiaofei said with a smile: "For us, of course this is good!" But we can't just think about what we like, we have to ask Qingqing and Haonan what they mean, one more child is more work. ”
"Hao Nan is no problem, of course he is willing to have one more child, and our family can't afford to raise it, don't you say? It's mainly Qingqing, she said that she was busy with her studio, I don't understand, our family is not short of money, why does she have to work? Other women wish they had the conditions to stay at home, but Qingqing, she is completely qualified to stay at home with her children, and she doesn't even have to do housework, how many people envy her for this kind of life, but she just doesn't like to stay at home. ”
"Mother-in-law, people are different, some people like to be content with the status quo, some people like to grow constantly, do not like the same life, our family is not short of money, but can not be idle because there is no shortage of money to get by! This has a bad impact on Dudu's growth, Qingqing likes to work, so let her do it, which is better than those women who are addicted to the mahjong table every day! People must have a little life sustenance in life, and when we are older, we put our spirit on our children, and our children on our work. ”
"I don't object to her work, but she should also fulfill the obligation of a daughter-in-law, she has to have another child, I just want her to give birth, and I don't need her to take it, I will help bring it, I can't be busy, I will ask someone to take it."
"You have told me many times before about this problem, and I have also told Qingqing that she also wants to have another child, but when Dudu is a little older, her studio is now the best time to develop, and she is afraid that she will not be able to keep up with the energy to have children at this time."
Lu Shuangping was a little angry, "It's still such an excuse to say for a long time, alas, ......"
Lu Shuangping suddenly remembered something, she looked upstairs, and said to Xiao Fei: "In the past few days, Hao Nan and Qingqing seem to be making trouble, and Qingqing accompanies Dudu to sleep in Dudu's room every night."
"The sky has changed in the past two days, maybe Qingqing is afraid that the child will catch a cold, so she sleeps with the child."
"No, I see that Qingqing also ignores Haonan, I asked Haonan, and he said that there is nothing wrong, but I just look wrong."
Yu Xiaofei said gently: "Mother-in-law, you are a cheerful person, so I will say some things to you bluntly, as elders, it is best not to interfere too much in the affairs of the children, they have already started a family, how their lives will be lived by themselves!" Even if there is any conflict between them, I believe they will solve it themselves, let's plug in, maybe it will make things more complicated. ”
Lu Shuangping was speechless, this Yu Xiaofei has never taken care of this daughter since she was a child, so now she doesn't worry about her daughter's affairs, it's just useless to say anything to her.
Lu Shuangping said sarcastically: "Mother-in-law, no wonder you look so young, it turns out that you live so easily!" Daughter's affairs, don't worry about it, that's with her. I don't have a good life like you, my heart is not as wide as you, it's not right to look at the child, don't say it doesn't matter, how can I get by? ”
Yu Xiaofei felt that she couldn't say anything to this Lu Shuangping, so she shook her head and didn't say anything anymore.
"I'll go upstairs and see what Qingqing is doing!" Yu Xiaofei said and hurriedly walked away and went upstairs.
Entering her daughter's room, Yu Xiaofei said, "Qingqing, have you had an awkward relationship with Hao Nan these days?"
"My mother-in-law told you that, right? I knew that every time you came, she wouldn't be able to mumble a few words to me in front of you. ”
"Although she nags, she also cares about you, what is going on between you and Haonan? You've been sleeping in the Doodoo room these days? Qingqing, there is something between husband and wife that must be communicated well, you can't sulk, the Cold War can't solve the problem, and it hurts your feelings, you and Haonan have always had a good relationship, there are few contradictions, why this time? Can you tell me about it? ”
Meng Qingqing has been really aggrieved these days, Qin Haonan's attitude towards Bang Shasha's incident made her feel very bad, but if she wanted to accuse him of something, she couldn't say how much fault he was, and if she wanted to say that he was right, she felt very uncomfortable.
So Meng Qingqing told her mother all these things between her, Bang Sha and Qin Haonan.
Yu Xiaofei was full of emotion when she heard this, "How can you have such a friend?" Haonan too, how can he sympathize with such a person? At this point, he is just like your father, he is easy to be soft-hearted, but he doesn't look at anyone, whether he deserves sympathy, not to mention that Bang Sasha has always harbored ill intentions towards Hao Nan, and he is too uncaring about your feelings in doing so. ”
"So! It's not a matter of communicating with him. ”
"But, Qingqing, although Haonan's approach is a little inappropriate, but his heart for you is true, I can guarantee this, men are not thoughtful in doing things, so they often hurt others unintentionally, and he himself is not aware of it. Their way of doing things is different from that of women, but in their hearts, they are unwilling to hurt others, and Haonan is the same, he usually loves you so much, we can all see it, how can he do things that hurt you. (To be continued.) )