383. Persuasion

"Yes, she is to blame, but Qingqing, when she made the wrong first step, it was because she wanted to help us! I always thought you were a kind person, but why don't you have any sympathy for Bangsar Shah? ”

Meng Qingqing was angry, but she didn't want to quarrel with Qin Haonan because of someone like Bang Shasha, she said patiently: "It's not to help us, it's to help you, she is not so kind to me, she loves you, and the blind can see it, so for you, she sacrificed herself tragically, why did she do this?" If she is really very selfless and does everything for you and doesn't need your reciprocation at all, why does she tell me and tell you again, not to get your sympathy and your attention. Pen, fun, pavilion www. biquge。 infoShe's just ill-intentioned. ”

Qin Haonan was very excited when he saw that Meng Qingqing was angry, and his words had never been more intense, he wanted to say something, but in the end he didn't say anything.

Meng Qingqing knew that if he didn't say anything, it didn't mean that he had turned a corner.

"Haonan, if we compensate Bang Sasa, we will admit that her current ending is our fault, what is wrong with us?"

"I didn't say we were wrong, I admit that Bang Saa brought it all on himself, I just think she is pitiful, the child is small, and her health is not good, give her a little money to help her, it's not a difficult thing for us."

"Yes, money is not a problem, it is a very simple thing for us to give her a little money, I don't care about that money, I sympathize with her, but I just can't give her any help, even if it's the simplest thing like giving money, because I don't want to have anything to do with her, once I have a relationship with her, it's endless troubles. There are people you meet, it is your blessing, he will bring you happiness, but there are people you meet, it is your disaster, he will bring you endless troubles and troubles, and even destroy you. So for this kind of person, the best thing to do is to stay away from him, the farther away the better, Bang Sasa is such a person, so you'd better stay away from her. The poor must have something to hate, and although she is pitiful, she is not worth helping. ”

"Alright! Wife, I don't pay attention to her anymore, okay! Why do I feel a strong vinegar smell! In order to ease the atmosphere, Qin Haonan gave in and pretended to be relaxed.

Meng Qingqing disagreed, "She, Bang Shasha? Am I going to be jealous because of her? You can't be so tasteless, right? ”

"So! I just want to help her, you won't have such a big reaction, you know, I only have you in my heart, and I can't tolerate any other woman, let alone someone like Bangsar, so you can rest assured! ”

"Haonan, you completely misunderstood what I meant, I am against you helping Bang Sasha, not because she likes you, it's not that I don't worry about you, I don't need to be jealous for her, I just think that she doesn't deserve your help, when you were going to sponsor her to go to school, I told you that you provoked her, maybe she will become a trouble for you in the future, what did you say at the time, remember?"

"I said that I was just sponsoring her to go to school, and I would never have anything to do with her in the future, and we might never see each other again."

"What about the facts? Not only did you meet her, but you also brought her home as a girlfriend......"

"Qingqing, didn't you say that you won't mention this matter again? This thing is in the past, we are now together, and there is Dudu. ”

"Why can't you mention this? This incident has really existed, and it has seriously hurt my feelings, and I bring it up again to remind you not to repeat the mistakes of the past. Bang Sasa is a girl who grew up in a remote mountainous area, in a lonely life, your appearance is like a heavenly saint coming down to save her, so it is understandable that she admires you, if you don't take her home as a girlfriend that time, she may just admire you, but you give her hope, make her feel that you are not so far away from her, or can be reached, you give her such hope, don't you think this is harming her? So when she fell from hope to despair, she made that sacrifice without hesitation, she wanted to use that way of destroying herself to prove how much she loved you, the purpose was to arouse your sympathy, and now, if you help her again, and give her the opportunity to fantasize about you, I don't know what shocking things she will do next time to make you pay attention to her again. ”

Qin Haonan stretched out his hand and took Meng Qingqing into his arms.

"Qingqing, I just wanted to help her, but I didn't expect it to be like this, maybe, I was really self-defeating, from the beginning, I shouldn't have funded her, let her live in her hometown, find an ordinary man to live an ordinary life, it may not be bad. Qingqing, I listen to you, don't worry about it anymore, let her go! What she has become and how she is doing has nothing to do with us, a person still has to rely on himself, and no one's help can solve all his own problems. ”

Meng Qingqing sighed, "Hao Nan, don't just rely on your own enthusiasm to do things in the future, okay?" You are kind to help others, but you have to pay attention to the ways and means, otherwise you will do bad things with good intentions. When you first funded Bangsar Shah, if you were anonymous, it might be a simple good thing for you and her, but she knows the real situation of the person who is sponsoring, and this matter is not so simple. ”

"Qingqing, how can you see this matter so thoroughly and analyze it so rationally and calmly? You see that people are always in the wood, which makes me sigh to myself. ”

"Because my dad is a living example! You know, my dad sacrificed himself for his brothers and sisters and fulfilled others, but what did he get? Of course, you don't need to be rewarded for helping others, but they are ungrateful, and it makes matters worse, which is a trampling on your kindness, if it were you, would you still think that helping others is a good thing? I, as his daughter, as a sober bystander, no one can relate that feeling better than I do. ”

Qin Haonan nodded, "I understand." ”

"You don't understand, because you must think that my father's situation is different from the situation of your sponsorship of Bang Saa, Bang Saa Shah will not be ungrateful to you, will not make matters worse, and even, she wants to repay you. But if you continue to help her, and she does some extreme things to come out, if you don't get your wife to break up, then you will know, help people who shouldn't be helped, the final result is almost the same, are regrets, scratch the coupon, scratch out a thank you word on it, you must scratch out the thank you patronage to know the disappointment? (To be continued.) )