Chapter 703: Great Wisdom
During this year, Gu Shinuo did not stay at home every day, he had to go to the station almost every other day to take a shift. Pen, fun, pavilion www. biquge。 info And General Wang's house is still noisy and has never stopped, and the content of the noise is the same.
General Wang was unwilling to give the answer that Mrs. Wang wanted, so he dragged it out like this. And the infatuated woman, I heard that she has been living in the inn, anyway, General Wang pays for the accommodation in the inn.
This bowl of chicken blood, I'm afraid that it can only be held at this time. Mrs. Jiang came over to find Ji Anning to speak, her brows furrowed deeply and said: "Sister Wang family will only be bad to herself if she continues to make trouble like this, we have to think of persuasion." ”
After Ji Anning heard Gu Yangjing mention what the little brother of the Jiang family had done, she didn't dare to underestimate this middle-aged woman who always smiled deeply, who knew when she would dig a pit and jump down voluntarily.
Her brows furrowed slightly, and she said, "Our mother's family is too far away, otherwise, the sister of the Wang family can also find her brother to come to the door to persuade General Wang to make peace, and in front of the children, the house can't be messed up." ”
Mrs. Jiang looked at Ji Anning's expression, she was clearly someone who would not take the initiative to take care of things. She sighed lightly and said, "Let's find an opportunity when General Wang is not at home, and go together to persuade the sister of the Wang family?" ”
She had a sincere and worried look on her face, and Ji Anning saw it in her eyes. It's just that she has always felt that it is better for outsiders to interfere less in the affairs between husband and wife, which is the best way to comfort this couple.
However, if she said it to Mrs. Jiang so bluntly, she would immediately become a cold-hearted person. After she groaned, she said to Mrs. Jiang very honestly: "Sister Jiang, I am too young and have not experienced much.
I can only watch this kind of thing from the sidelines, hoping that their husband and wife will reconcile as soon as possible. I don't dare to use my shallow experience to persuade the Wang family sister to do anything. I'm afraid that it's too much to say too much, so I can't say it's good. ”
Ji Anning made up her mind not to act with Mrs. Jiang, they have been neighbors for many years, they know each other, even if one of them says something radical out of concern, they can understand each other later.
As for her, the friendship with them is too shallow, the time spent with them is too short, and everyone has not had the opportunity to establish a deep and unscrupulous affection for each other. No matter what, even if she doesn't speak, as long as she stands there, she will have a chance to be the target of anger.
She never wanted to be a person who shines on the ditch with a bright moon, she just wanted to be a person who exchanged sincerity for sincerity. Mrs. Jiang looked at Ji Anning, who was young and delicate as if she was not yet twenty years old, and she also felt that such a woman was afraid that she would touch Mrs. Wang's pain.
Mrs. Jiang and Ji Anning said a few more words, she looked at the two Gu Yangjing brothers who were staying at home, sighed and said: "The children in my family, when they were young, none of them were as obedient and obedient as Sunshine and Xue'er, as long as they were free, they had to go out to play. ”
Ji Anning looked at her with a smile and said: "When the children are young, they can play outside together, and my sunshine is the best brother, because I take care that my younger brother is unaccompanied at home, so I can only wait until Xue'er is asleep before going out to find someone to play." ”
Ji Anning praised his son's behavior in front of others, Gu Shinuo pointed out several times, and said: "Ning'er, the child is still young, just praise others for it, you are a mother, you can't praise the child anytime and anywhere, so it is easy to cultivate the child into a proud temperament." ”
But Ji Anning felt that to tell the truth, Gu Yangjing did act much more sensible than ordinary children. What's more, when Mrs. Jiang mentioned that in front of her, it was actually derogatory and complimentary.
Ji Anning complied with her meaning, and praised the two little brothers of the Jiang family who loved to lie on the wall of the courtyard from beginning to end, only to praise Mrs. Jiang that Ji Anning was really a neighbor who was too discerning and caring.
After Mrs. Jiang left happily, Ji Anning breathed a sigh of relief. After Mrs. Jiang got along with her, she talked about her experience of teaching her son, and Ji Anning said that she was deeply benefited.
In fact, to put it bluntly, don't step on your own children in front of people, and when anyone's children are unsatisfactory, take into account the child's face and tell the truth.
The idea of the two teaching children is not much different, and the deep gap between the two of them immediately crossed the age gap, and discussed all aspects of the thoughts in their hearts.
Mrs. Jiang finally confessed to Ji Anning and said: "My uncle said that I was too indulgent to the children, and now I will talk to you, I think I persevered, and the result is quite good." ”
Ji Anning gave her a thumbs up directly, she was strong for her mother, but how many mothers were obviously teaching their children in the right way, but in the end they were defeated by the man's insistence on his own opinion.
In terms of age, almost two generations of people have found a confidant in this regard. Ji Anning smiled and said to her: "The most difficult road, you have already walked." If my grandfather wants to talk about my indulgence in my child, I can take your family's affairs as an example and ask him to learn from General Chiang. ”
In fact, if Gu Shinuo's temperament was not so cold in teaching children, Ji Anning might be willing to be a strict mother. Mrs. Jiang said to Ji Anning with deep feelings: "My uncle doesn't love children, he thinks that strict requirements are the best way for children." ”
Ji Anning thought deeply that Aiko naturally wanted to reach out and straighten the little tree when the child was young. Ji Anning nodded lightly and said, "Lord Jiang pays more to children, but everyone likes friendly elders.
One day, when the children get married and have their own children, they will naturally be able to understand the intentions of their parents. Madame Chiang turned to Mrs. Wang, and she whispered, "General Wang is not very concerned with the affairs of the family, and he is a little indulgent with children."
The sister of the Wang family disciplines the children more strictly, and the children are actually close to their fathers. I heard from my boys that this time the children knew that their father was out there causing trouble.
Tell me, General Wang is quite old, and in a few years, he will retire. Even if several of his boys are in the army, if they want to be promoted in the army, they need to have a certain amount of luck.
There is only a little bit of silver in the family every month, and a man like us is not as good as General Xiao Gu's family background. When the men in our family came out, they all chose such a desperate path because they couldn't live at home.
And our mother's family background is not good, I can recognize two words, or follow the family to learn, at that time, I was afraid that after the man in the family had a chance, he would have other thoughts and not want us, so he was ruthless to learn to read. ”
Ji Anning silently gave Mrs. Jiang a thumbs up, and she said to her appreciatively: "Sister-in-law of the Jiang family, you are a person of great wisdom. I want to learn from you in many aspects, and I would like you to mention more in the future. ”
Mrs. Jiang hurriedly waved her hand and said, "Don't, a literate woman like you, I'm already very happy that you're willing to listen to someone like me." I can't stand that wise man. (To be continued.) )