Chapter 74: Reflection
readx; After many days of rain, it finally cleared up on Sunday, and Xia Wei went to the vegetable market to buy sweet potatoes after getting up, which was also a week's breakfast. As soon as www.biquge.info Pen & Fun & Pavilion arrived home, they received a message from Ah Le: "I wish you a happy Sunday!" If you have a salary increase, remember to treat yourself and don't be too bitter about yourself. ”
Xia Wei replied with a smile after reading the message: "Okay, thank you for your concern!" You too. ”
Ah Le said: "Don't lend money to Wang Tao, don't tell him about back wages." ”
Xia Wei replied helplessly: "Don't worry, I know." Xia Wei thought that Ah Le should be very hard after working all night, so she said: "You should rest early, rest well, nourish your spirit, and then work hard." ”
Ah Le said, "I know, you have to take care of yourself. ”
Xia Wei replied while eating the boiled sweet potato: "Okay, thank you for your concern!" ”
After breakfast, Xia Wei began to clean up the house, find out the clothes to be washed, soak the clothes in hot water, add laundry detergent, put them aside, pick up the mop and start mopping the floor. There was some long hair falling on the ground, and Xia Wei remembered that she hadn't mopped the floor for several days. Xia Wei first mopped the ground with soapy water, then washed the mop with clean water, and then dried the ground.
Xia Wei came to the balcony again, cleaned up the debris on the balcony, and then admired a pot of leafy rubber trees on the balcony, only to see that the rubber trees were full of flower pots, thick poles, and lush leaves, Xia Wei smiled. She knew that this rubber tree was originally a fallen leaf that fell in a flower pot, Xia Wei picked it up and buried it in the soil, never thinking that this small leaf has now grown into a strong little tree, which is the result of her careful care.
I remember that day at my parents' house, Xia Wei helped her parents wash the dust on the leaves of the flowers and plants in the flower pot on the balcony, and when she was cleaning the rubber tree, she found that at the root of the rubber tree, there was a fallen leaf, and under the leaf, there were already some roots.
Xia Wei knew that this rubber tree was easy to survive, but what she didn't expect was that such a fallen leaf could also grow roots, so if she took good care of it, it would also grow into a tree. So, Xia Wei took the fallen leaves home, filled them with soil in a flower pot, buried half of the leaves in the soil, and watered the leaves every once in a while. The leaves continued to grow under Xia Wei's care, but now they have grown into trees. Xia Wei could have plucked a branch and buried it in the soil, and it wouldn't take long for it to grow into a tree. It's just because this fallen leaf aroused Xia Wei's curiosity, and she would rather give up the idea of picking a branch and take care of this fallen leaf. Watching the fallen leaves grow day by day, Xia Wei suddenly felt a sense of accomplishment.
Xia Wei looked at the rubber tree, and kept thinking in her heart, people should be the same as this fallen leaves, how can there be useless people? It's just that everyone has a place for him.
She remembered that when she was young, it was supposed to be in elementary school, and there was a boy in the class, and he was the last in the class every time he took the exam. I remember the boy being at a loss after the teacher's question, and some classmates shouted in unison after class: "Big fool, big fool!" ”
When this boy was ridiculed by his classmates, how many people could understand his state of mind at the moment, how uncomfortable should he be? Perhaps, everyone thinks that this boy is a waste, his grades are countdown, and his classmates don't reply when they scold. But on the contrary, many years later, he has become an enviable small boss, and he also has several houses in the county and his own storefront.
Xia Wei later learned that the reason why his grades were poor was that he had to get up early and go to herd cattle every day, and he didn't get enough sleep every day.
Thinking that when there are many classmates who are judged to be invalids, what a big blow it will be, some people will sink into the ranks of the wasted people as soon as they fall down, and only a few people will cross out of the ranks of the wasted people. Xia Wei has been thinking about this problem, if every child can be respected by others and suitable for his learning style, perhaps, every child will be a pillar of the country, but everyone's shining point is different. Perhaps, our education needs to be improved.
Children need to grow up happily, nowadays, most of the children regard learning as a torture, and even some children with good academic performance say to their parents: "I help you study, and you should take care of me if your grades are so good." "The children who are educated in this way will become very selfish, and some of the children with poor grades will go directly to the online world for comfort. The smash-and-kill game, the weird game music, can make people go crazy.
Xia Wei still remembers when her nephew was young, that day, Xia Wei and Qinqin led their five-year-old nephew to walk on the road, suddenly, the nephew wanted to break free of Xia Wei's hand and go to the car in front of him, Xia Wei grabbed him and asked him what he was going to do, at this time, the nephew replied: "Auntie, I want to roll over from the car like someone on TV." ”
Xia Wei looked at him in surprise and asked, "You will be hit by a car like that, how can you have such an idea?" ”
The nephew said, "It's fine to watch people on TV flip over in cars, I want to be like them." ”
Xia Wei was stunned and told her nephew: "It's all acted, it's fake, it's impossible for real people to do it." I don't know if the child understood, but he was silent.
Xia Wei and Qinqin led their nephew to a relative's house, and from the window on the sixth floor of the relative's house, the nephew saw the roof of a flat-roofed hut, and argued with Xia Wei and said, "Auntie, I'm going to play on that house." ”
Xia Wei looked at her nephew puzzled and asked, "What are you doing up there?" ”
"I'm going to jump off there, that's how people on TV are jumping around, it's fun."
Xia Wei looked at her nephew in even more surprise and said, "You can't have such an idea, you will fall to your death if you jump from the roof of the house, you can't jump." ”
"People on TV don't die when they jump, I want to try it."
Xia Wei tightened her nephew's hand for fear that he would jump off, hugged him to the side and said, "You can't learn from the people on TV, those are fake." You fall to your death by jumping like this. ”
The nephew asked puzzledly, "Why do you want to shoot a fake?" Aren't those people real, jumping around? ”
Xia Wei was stopped by the child's question, yes, why do you want to shoot fake, this will be misleading to the children! He said to his nephew, "That's a game played by adults, and the games are all fake, you can't learn them, and if you learn them, you'll die." ”
The nephew looked at Xia Wei and asked curiously, "Adults also play games?" Why do you have to play fake games? ”
Xia Wei said to her nephew: "In the future, when you grow up, you will make the game as you like." ”
"I also like the game of overturning, but I don't understand why it's fake."
Xia Wei said: "You can make the game real, even real people can do it." ”
The nephew said happily, "Well, I like it that way." ”
Although a child's words cannot be taken seriously, it is enough for us adults to reflect on what the game should be. Or, do those stunt shots in the TV series have any good effect on people? Xia Wei thinks that real things are always the best, and they are also what people pursue.