Chapter 258, tired

Acceptance is an important step, especially for the woman. The man should send the letter of appointment and the letter of gift to the woman's house, and also invite two or four female relatives, who must be fully blessed people, to make an appointment with the matchmaker to bring the bride money, gift money and dowry to the other party's house. When the woman returns the gift, it is regarded as a levy. After this ceremony, the marriage contract was fully established.

Tan Tu unfolded the book of rites, and his calm expression gradually became surprised. In his consciousness, most of the martial arts industries belong to the fourth room, and the big house and the second room are basically hard work for Wu Nuandong. I didn't expect it to be such a heavy gift list, it seems that the girl's elementary school students did not treat her relatives badly. Tan Tu is not a person who clings to the powerful, otherwise he would not have come to this inconspicuous town with his sister to open a private school, but as an elder brother, he still hopes that his sister can live a good life with peace of mind and effort in the future, and he is more and more satisfied with Wu Xingyi at the moment.

The heavier the dowry, the more important the husband's family attaches to the woman, although this reason alone is a bit superficial, but his sister can get the attention of the husband's family, Tan Tu is still happy. He didn't leave anything for these dowries, and added them all to the dowry for his sister-in-law. As long as they are happy and happy, it is enough.

The woman's return gift is relatively simple and simple, such as pairs of tea, fruits, lotus roots, etc., taking the word auspicious.

Both parties were satisfied, and Qian struck while the iron was hot and took out the auspicious day, and negotiated with Tan Tu on the date of welcoming the family.

Tan Tu understood the mentality of the sister who hated to marry, and picked out the favorite one from the five days, and couldn't let the man misunderstand the girl's hatred of marrying, and explained: "A month is too short, I'm afraid it's not enough preparation." The end of the year and New Year's Day are too close, I'm afraid I can't be busy, I look at it in four months, not far away, or the time of farming. ”

"Yes, that's the day!" Wu Tianxin finally made a decision.

Because there are still four months left in the marriage, the Qian family is not in a hurry, the man's family has done everything they should do, and now they are sending their relatives to hold a wedding banquet.

Now what she wants to solve most is Xiaoshan's problem, and she can't let her second son's new daughter-in-law just enter the door, and what she sees is the dispute between her mother-in-law and sister-in-law, and she is upset with her family.

Wu Xingxia also didn't want to affect his younger brother's marriage, and after the marriage was agreed, he spontaneously came to the town to prepare to pick up Xiaoshan.

Half a day has passed, how did the martial arts go and how did he come back.

Fortunately, Qian didn't have much hope, so he naturally didn't feel disappointed.

"I'll go back tomorrow!" Wu Xingxia sighed and promised to the Qian family.

Qian glanced at him, put down the embroidery work in his hand, and asked with a smile: "Son, do you feel embarrassed, do you think that your mother forced you, do you think that you want to take Xiaoshan back for your mother?" ”

To be honest, in addition to being angry that Tian's doting on children made Xiaoshan a little crooked, in fact, he did think as Qian asked. Xiaoshan was close to his mother, and he rushed to take it back, maybe he would make the baby rebel. It's not that he's afraid that being a grandmother will be bad for his grandson, but if Xiaoshan meets Nuan Nuan, it will definitely be a contradiction, and when the time comes, it's not them who will be embarrassed.

Even so, he can't say it directly without filial piety, he owes his family enough, but he can't even do a little bit of his mother's request, and he is a son of man in vain, and his mother is still for the good of Xiaoshan.

Wu Xingxia was very tired, but he had to smile and say: "How can you do it, mother, I know that you are for the good of Xiaoshan!" ”

"Humph! You were born and raised by me, and I don't know your careful thoughts! Qian snorted coldly and pointed out mercilessly: "Your daughter-in-law is crying again, hugging the hill and hitting the wall?" ”

"I didn't ...... No! Wu Xingxia didn't dare to tell the truth, seeing Hui Lan's haggard and delicate appearance, he immediately softened, and Xiaoshan timidly hid behind his mother, and asked him with puzzled eyes, when he didn't want him, Wu Xingxia was even more guilty. The son is also his, he has not been raised well, he is also responsible, how can he blame his wife alone.

As the eldest son in the family, Wu Xingxia's education direction is obviously different from that of other younger brothers, because he is the first child of the martial arts generation, and the old man in the first two years of birth is also very rare. It's just that Xingyi and Xinghai were born next, and Wu Xingxia is often told by adults to be humble and care for his younger brother, and he is instilled that it doesn't matter if he is a little wronged as an elder brother, that's because he is older than his younger brother and knows more than them, so he should love and take care of his brother who is not more ignorant than him, Wu Xingxia is not a small person, and he is also looking forward to the two younger brothers, and naturally there is harmony and friendship between brothers, even if he has suffered a few losses from naughty ghosts when he was young, he feels that it is not a big deal. This kind of temperament is still maintained today, especially for the woman he loves, and it has intensified. The daughter-in-law doesn't look down on him, he is incompetent, and his mother-in-law squeezes him, he should also tolerate it, even if he is angry for a while, when he calms down, he actually reflects on himself a lot.

Marrying such a man is undoubtedly happy, provided that the daughter-in-law must be a person who knows how to cherish and know righteousness, otherwise, just like a martial artist, it is just a dilemma to exhaust himself to death and die hard.

The Qian family was reluctant to give up his son, and after a few words, seeing that Wu Xingxia's eyebrows were tired, he turned around and left, and went directly to Wu Nuandong's house to chatter.

"Auntie, what do you say you can do if you leave Xiaoshan alone?" Wu Nuandong tilted his head and asked. In fact, she had long expected that the eldest aunt would not succeed in plotting against the hero, the eldest aunt was a woman who seemed to be very strong and refused to admit defeat, and she herself would not cry and cry with a little baby who was not very old, on the other hand, Tian and Wu Shanhe would make a grief-stricken appearance when they encountered something, which made people feel distressed to watch, not to mention the man who really loved them. Why are the tricks of crying, making trouble and hanging three times vulgar but will be circulated for a long time, maybe men are dismissive when they mention it, but they work. In Brother Xingxia's heart, although he feels guilty about his parents and family, his weak wife and children are the ones who really need his protection.

Qian smiled bitterly, "Xiaoshan, I'm afraid I don't have anything to do with our martial arts!" ”

Wu Nuandong was shocked, could it be that the eldest aunt had already given up on this grandson?

"Our martial arts family has a rule, those who commit adultery and criminals will be expelled from the family."

"The hill is still small!" It's not that Wu Nuandong's mother intercedes for Wu Shanhe, but she sincerely thinks that Wu Shanhe is a child, and if she comes back from education before she is formed, there is still hope, even if she can't become a big thing, she must not go down the wrong path.

"He's young, but his mother and grandmother are not young. If they are willing to teach, there is still hope for the hill. But you didn't listen to your Xingxia brother, and he didn't even want to discipline those two women, so how could Xiaoshan realize his mistake in the past!" The Qian family was worried, after all, it was his own grandson, and he didn't want to end up with the consequences of being expelled from the family. "Your grandfather is extremely principled and respectful of his ancestors in educating the baby, and our family has not had this incident......" She paused, took Wu Nuandong over and hugged her in her arms, rubbed her long hair and said slowly: "Nuan Nuan, you are also old, the old man originally hid it from you, but now your brothers have known some things in the family, and the eldest aunt will not hide it from you!" (To be continued.) )