readx; It's almost the end of the year, but there are a lot of things to do, there is no medical examination in the countryside on Saturday, in the morning, Xia Wei has been busy collecting, statistical, and improving various work, and before I know it, a morning has passed. Pen, fun, pavilion www. biquge。 info

At noon, Ah Le sent a message, and he said: "People are nothing but family and friends. ”

Xia Wei felt a little wrong and comforted: "There can be a lot of friends, the first time you meet you can be strangers, and when you meet again, you are acquaintances or friends, what's wrong with you, so emotional." ”

Ah Le said: "Here, people seem to be nothing between people, selfish, domineering, you look at those people in the dormitory, I don't want to sleep, so noisy that others can't sleep, I was woken up by them and can't sleep anymore, just a little sleep time, I have to continue to work night shifts at night." ”

Xia Wei said: "You can use wisdom to tell them not to quarrel, don't force it, maybe people in private companies have such commonalities, but there is no such situation in our place." ”

Ah Le said, "Yes." ”

Xia Wei said: "To have a good boss and a good leader, employees will be at ease, a good atmosphere will naturally develop, bad leaders I have also encountered, in those days, employees intrigue with each other, like a plate of loose sand." The leader is lustful, the women are all in danger, and the men will be scared when they see such a leader. ”

Ah Le said: "Could it be so serious? ”

Xia Wei said: "How important is a good leader. ”

Ah Le said: "That's caused by **." ”

Xia Wei said: "Yes, there are several leaders in our county who have been investigated, and the secretary who has been investigated has many lovers. ”

Ah Le said: "Well, if you do too much injustice, you will kill yourself." ”

Xia Wei said, "Well, yes. You can sleep, or you'll not get enough sleep. ”

Ah Le said, "Okay. ”

Then, Xia Wei turned on the audio book and listened to the lecture of Dream of Red Mansions, and the interpretation was very good, when she heard that the young Baoyu had been homosexual, she felt that the person who said it did not play a good guiding role. Xia Wei felt that Baoyu was influenced by others and stimulated people's instincts, and he was unladylike when he met people. A person's words and actions are influenced by society, family, and education received. When people are teenagers, they are like a blank piece of paper, what you paint on it, then it is what it is, when people have not received sex education, they are confused and ignorant about sex, and even some people don't know what sex is after they get married.

Xia Wei remembered that when she was working in the obstetrics and gynecology department, she had met several couples who did not have sex after marriage because they did not understand sex.

This is not difficult for obstetricians and gynecologists who have been married, but it is still a bit difficult for obstetricians and gynecologists who are not yet married, but for the sake of work, they will still do their best to explain the relationship between sex and life to those young couples who do not know how to have sex.

Xia Wei remembers reading such a report, a couple are college students with higher education, one is studying physics, the other is studying chemistry, they have been married for several years, and they have no children, so they thought of going to the obstetrics and gynecology department for a check-up, and the doctor found that this woman was still a virgin when examining the woman, so he asked them about their sex life, and the woman said: "Yes, we sleep together every day." ”

The doctor hurriedly asked again, "Did you have sexual contact?" ”

The woman looked at the doctor puzzled and said, "We sleep together every night." ”

The doctor had no choice but to say bluntly, "Did the man's genitals get into your genitals?" ”

The woman suddenly realized: "This is not true, our relationship has always been very good, I thought that as long as the husband and wife are in contact, just like a chemical reaction, they can get pregnant." ”

The obstetrician and gynecologist suggested that women buy some books on sexual knowledge and hygiene, and recommended a few.

Soon, the woman came to the obstetrics and gynecology department for a pregnancy check-up, and the obstetrician and gynecologist smiled heartily.

People should be influenced by the outside world, and they must stay away from bad people and things, especially during their teenage years.

Xia Wei also clearly remembers that she had encountered such a thing in her class.

It was a year after she came to the Huhu Health Center, that day, Xia Wei was on the day shift in the nursing team, and a young couple came to the obstetrics and gynecology department, accompanied by two mothers-in-law, who brought the bride and groom to the obstetrics and gynecology department for consultation.

Xia Wei happened to be helping in the obstetrics and gynecology department, and when she heard the two mothers complain, the obstetrician and gynecologist Xiaoyun immediately called the two mothers aside and said, "You can tell them yourself, I'm not married yet, how can I tell them about this, isn't this embarrassing for me?" ”

The two mothers took Xiaoyun's hand and said, "Please help, tell them that it is necessary, they will listen to the doctor's words, anyway, you can make it clear to them." ”

Embarrassed, the pony approaches the couple and asks, "Have you ever had sex?" The bride was embarrassed and said, "We both slept together." ”

The bridegroom also bowed his head shyly. Pony continued, "Let's say he pee on your lower body?" Have you ever had one? ”

The bride blushed and said, "That's not a shame to death, no, no!" ”

Xiaoma and Xia Wei on the side knew what was going on, so Xiaoma said patiently: "After getting married, you can have that kind of thing, that's a must, how can you get pregnant and have a child if you don't get together?" ”

The groom and bride seemed to understand, and hurriedly looked at Xiaoyun and asked, "Really, we thought we could get pregnant by taking off our clothes and sleeping together." ”

Everyone laughed at the moment.

Xia Wei thought, why not, she had worries when she was at the same table with a male classmate, and she was afraid of what to do if she was pregnant while sitting on a bench? What a ridiculous idea, but I really don't understand it if I haven't received sex education.

I remember that when I was in junior high school, Xia Wei and Wang Tao were at the same table, and sometimes they would accidentally bump into each other, especially in the summer, when they were wearing short clothes, they would accidentally bump into each other, and it happened that Xia Wei heard her classmates privately talk about a young girl who was ** pregnant by a young person in society, and Xia Wei was worried about whether she would also be pregnant? I told my classmates Meihua, who went to school every day, about her confusion, Meihua said: "I heard my sister say that I would get pregnant with a man, but I don't know what happened, and I heard my mother say that I was born from her squeaky nest." It may have nothing to do with the arms of a male classmate, but my sister said that it seemed that the thighs couldn't be leaned together, and I didn't understand. ”

Xia Wei was even more confused by what Meihua said, sitting at a table with Wang Tao would definitely have a time when she bumped into her legs, anyway, she didn't do anything wrong, whatever.

Xia Wei feels how confused she is when she thinks of this now, how could she have such an idea in the first place?