Lu Hao'er crossed her hands in front of her and said, "Besides, getting married means that there is another person who is completely involved in my life and controls my whereabouts, and I finally get rid of the control of my elders, so why bother to find myself another shackle?" Marriage is a legal and ethical relationship to be responsible. I'm a person who is afraid of being responsible, or rather a freedom-loving person, and doesn't want to be bound by marriage. Marriage is too complicated, the factors of happiness are not as easy to control as single life, since marriage is not necessarily happy, and their current state is as happy as flowers, it is better to have more than one thing. Especially after watching a few classmates and colleagues stage the 'toss' of marriage, divorce and remarriage, I have strengthened my determination not to get married. I am currently doing well, writing takes up most of my time, and the rest of the time I can eat and drink tea, play cards and watch movies with friends, and I can also enjoy the precious single space, and I no longer have the desire, motivation and purpose to meet new strangers. Just be selfish for me! I don't want to take any responsibility. ”

Lu Zhongfu listened to what she said, the more outrageous he became, he got up and said, "Your age is not too young, think about it, and quickly find a man to marry!" Our family does not accept your fallacies! ”

"I'm sorry, grandpa, I've made up my mind, if you really can't accept it, then?"

Moving out? Don't even think about it, Gu Yaluo grabbed Lu Hao'er and said, "Grandpa, marriage can't be forced!" Sooner or later, such a marriage will hit the rocks. ”

Lucifer chimed in, "Grandpa, we must fully respect her personal intentions!" ”

"Don't get married, and don't interfere with other people's lives. If you don't tie it, you won't end it! Gu Yaluo's gaze turned to Jiang Huifen and glanced at her.

Jiang Huifen looked at the situation in front of him and said, I want to say the top. The old man's temper is twisted up, but it's terrible.

So he got up and said, "It's not early, let's go back and rest!" This marriage also has to let Hao'er have a boyfriend first! This is not urgent. ”

"Let's go!" Jiang Huifen pulled Lu Zhongfu's sleeve and said.

As soon as the two old men left, the others patted Lu Hao'er on the shoulder and left one after another.

"Alas...... You say you're such a good girl, how can you have such thoughts. ”

Although the elders sighed. But he didn't blame too much or order Lu Haoer to get married immediately.

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After the old couple came in, Jiang Huifen sat in front of the rattan coffee table with the family account book and the computer. Reconciliation.

Since moving here, the family accounts have been handed over to Jiang Huifen.

Lu Zhongfu sat on the bed with his hands on his chest, leaning on the head of the bed, bowing his eyebrows and pondering.

What did this girl stimulate? How could there be such an idea.

"How can't I do it. More than a hundred dollars less. Jiang Huifen rubbed the pen in her hand against the tip of her nose and muttered, then turned her head to look at Lu Zhongfu and said, "Wife, why is there more than a hundred yuan missing?" Looking at Lu Zhongfu, who was stunned, he asked, "I said, what are you thinking so intently?" ”

"Huifen! How uncertain I am. Lu Zhongfu rarely called her name and said, "It seems that our family has a bad year this year!" ”

"Phew...... What are you talking about? Jiang Huifen hurriedly said, "I'm still worried about Hao'er's affairs!" ”

"It's not a good sign!" Lu Zhongfu said worriedly, "What a heavy blow!" And then he said. In the past, I was always worried about our children. Thinking that marriage is like us, we have too many illusions about marriage, which leads to emotional vulnerability. ”

"Isn't that great!" Jiang Huifen turned around and looked at him.

"Don't mention fantasies, Hao'er is clamoring about unmarriage." Lu Zhongfu put his hands on his cheeks and said, "Could it be that our education has failed." ”

Jiang Huifen turned her head and turned her back to him and said, "If I do it all over again, I will also shout a few times about unmarriage, and the little girls now flaunt themselves and listen to their nonsense." Don't worry, huh! How can't I be! ”

"But I think she's very resolute!" Lu Zhongfu said worriedly.

"Is that deliberately for us to see? Maybe it's for the sake of writing, getting into character, deliberately tempting us? Don't worry about her. Jiang Huifen said without raising her head.

"Can you really think that this heart is so wide?" Lu Zhongfu shook his head and smiled.

"It's that you're thinking too much, it's that you haven't met the true destiny yet. Maybe it's going to happen? Jiang Huifen suddenly remembered and said, "Aha, the accounts are right." ”

"Sleep!" Jiang Huifen closed the ledger and put it in the drawer, then went into the bathroom, and after solving her physiological needs, she washed up and went to bed.

"Old man, you're still thinking about Hao'er!" Jiang Huifen looked at him and smiled, still frowning.

"Can you not want to? Such a big thing happened at home. Lu Zhongfu sighed, "I always feel that something is wrong?" What's wrong? ”

"What are you thinking?" Jiang Huifen waved his hand in front of him.

"My wife, Hao'er announced that she would not marry tonight, and everyone persuaded her." Lu Zhongfu suddenly clapped his hands and said, "I finally thought that something was wrong, Hao'er's parents, Jiang Zhou and Cuiyun didn't react at all, don't you think it's strange?" ”

"Really? It's really strange, unless they already knew Hao'er's thoughts, but how could they agree. Jiang Huifen fell into deep thought.

"Yes! When did Jiang Zhou become so enlightened, he has my true inheritance! Lu Zhongfu unceremoniously boasted to himself.

The old couple scratched their ears and cheeks and thought hard, thinking about breaking their heads, and finally Jiang Huifen patted Lu Zhongfu's arm excitedly and said, "Wife, wife, did you say that it was because of us that Hao'er had the idea of not getting married." ”

"What do you mean by that? What does Hao'er have to do with us not getting married. Lu Zhongfu said with a frown.

"Because I saw my mother's married life like this, I was so scared that I didn't dare to get married! Listen to what the girl said, she is afraid of being responsible, or she is a freedom-loving person who doesn't want to be bound by marriage. Marriage is too complicated, the factors of happiness are not as easy to control as single life, since marriage is not necessarily happy, and their current state is as happy as flowers, it is better to have more than one thing. Especially after watching a few classmates and colleagues stage the 'toss' of marriage, divorce and remarriage, she became even more determined in her decision not to marry. The more Jiang Huifen thought about it, the more likely she became, "So Jiang Zhou and Hao'er's mother were silent, acquiescing to Hao'er's rebellion." ”

Jiang Huifen sighed, "I just said that we have to reduce the burden on our daughter-in-law!" She's working so hard. Even Hao'er can't see it, so why protest to us like this? The more he talked, the sadder he became.

Lu Zhongfu lightly touched his forehead, lowered his eyelids and said, "We will solve it by asking for a part-time worker, we will be kind to our daughter-in-law." ”

Jiang Huifen waved her hand and shook her head, "She doesn't like to hire people, don't you know?" ”

Lu Zhongfu patted the quilt and frowned lightly, "Then what should I do?" ”

Jiang Huifen twisted the corner of the quilt with her fingers and said, "They are not young, let's just divide them." We only think about our own ideas, and we are reluctant to let the children leave us, and you can think about it yourself, how many roles she has to play! Jiang Zhou's wife, the child's mother, and our daughter-in-law, sisters-in-law, aunts, aunts, and mothers-in-law and mothers-in-law who have to come back are adults...... Not to mention Hao'er's anxiety, I don't think it's easy to deal with. I think that when the two of us came out, there were no elders, so it was much easier to take care of ourselves and our future children. She burns a candle at both ends, and no one can stand it. ”

Lu Zhongfu said in a deep voice, "How can there be a woman in the world who is not like this?" It's not all like this. ”

Jiang Huifen immediately said, "That's not like us, who have been living together since we got married!" People are talkative, and it can also make people tired. ”

Lu Zhongfu looked at her with a bitter face and said, "Then what do you say?" Divide it out like you said. ”

Jiang Huifen waved her hand and refused, "How can you let them move out?" It's not a big mess in the world. Then he sighed, "Well, I think it's better for each to go to each house for a while." ”

Lu Zhongfu said irritably, "I'm not here to see them often, but mainly to let their brothers and sisters unite and live in harmony with each other." ”

Jiang Huifen echoed, "Your original intention is very good. It's just that the eldest daughter-in-law is too tired. ”

Lu Zhongfu said suddenly, "How about canceling the dinner on Saturday?" ”

Jiang Huifen waved his hand and said, "Oops! It's not good to cancel them all, but it might be better to reduce them all times. ”

Lu Zhongfu nodded and said, "Then once a month." ”

Jiang Huifen raised her eyebrows and looked at him and said, "Don't you have any opinions?" Don't you feel lonely? ”

Lu Zhongfu said kindly, "Aren't you afraid that Haoyi's mother will be tired?" ”

Jiang Huifen took a light breath and said, "She is not too young, and she should live a few years at ease." ”

Lu Zhongfu suddenly thought: "Why don't we move out and live alone." ”

"Ahh Jiang Huifen looked at him in surprise and said.

Lu Zhongfu said with great interest, "Anyway, there are a lot of houses under our names, just pick a house in the city center." Why don't you move back to Fu Ji Tea Restaurant, what do you think? I really miss those old neighborhoods. ”

Jiang Huifen said angrily, "Where are you going to do this?" We are now discussing how to make Haoyi's mother live a more relaxed life, and how to put it aside. It's not reliable at all. ”

Lu Zhongfu finally said: "If you want to make the eldest daughter-in-law have an easy life, there is no other way than for us to die early." I don't want to die early, I want to live a long life. ”

Jiang Huifen couldn't help but laugh and said, "No one let you die early." ”

Lu Zhongfu said more and more energetically: "So the only way to let her die early and make it easy for her is for us to move back, to be honest, I really want to go back, I have lived in the middle of the mountain for a long time, and there is no one to talk to." ”

Jiang Huifen glanced at him and said, "I actually said something that didn't look for the margin, let's move back, they will say okay!" Let's go back! Would they say that? "I can't think of it.

Lu Zhongfu said confidently: "Well, as long as we want to go, we can go." ”

Jiang Huifen waved his hand and said, "Okay, don't talk about it, what are you talking nonsense?" Don't be cranky. ”

Lu Zhongfu recalled, "When was the last time we were alone. (To be continued.) )

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