Chapter 112: Child
readx; It was a little cold in the morning, so Xia Wei put on the long white down jacket given by her brother and daughter-in-law, with a red silk scarf wrapped around it, and hurriedly walked to the bus stop. Pen, fun, and www.biquge.info
In the morning, Chen Xue came to Xia Wei's office: "Xia Wei, you can help me cut shredded radish at noon." ”
Xia Wei said, "Okay. ”
When they came to Chen Xue's home, Xia Wei and Chen Xue were busy, and Dr. Xiao was chatting on the side.
A woman came to find Chen Xue, and when she entered the door, she said: "Doctor Chen, can you help me see if anyone wants to have a child, my daughter-in-law was pregnant for several months before she found out that she was pregnant, and she didn't have time to induce labor, so she gave birth, and there are two children in the family, help me see if anyone needs to raise a child." ”
Chen Xue said: "Where is someone in such a hurry to have a child, let me wait and see, and contact you when there is a situation." ”
Dr. Xiao said, "Hey, some people can't have a baby if they want to, it's better for you to have a baby, but you don't want to have a baby." ”
Xia Wei said: "Yes, there is no perfect thing in the world." ”
Chen Xue reminded: "Are you sure you don't want to?" ”
The woman said: "Yes, there is a boy and a woman in the family, how can I afford to raise so much, how much does it cost for children to study now, I must not want it." ”
Xia Wei also reminded: "If you want to consult, don't be charged with abandoning the baby, then you will break the law and you will be held accountable." You must go to the civil affairs department to go through the relevant formalities, and you must not trade privately, otherwise you will be investigated for legal responsibility for the crime of buying and selling human beings. ”
The woman looked at Xia Wei suspiciously and said, "Is it so complicated?" ”
Dr. Xiao also said, "Yes, you have to go for a consultation and then send it to see what procedures are required." ”
The woman said gratefully, "Okay, thank you, I'm going to ask if anyone needs to adopt a child." ”
Chen Xue said: "Yes, there is no such person on my side for the time being. ”
The woman said, "Then I'm leaving, you help me take it to heart, and if anyone wants it, let me know." With that, he closed the door and left.
Chen Xue said: "People who can't have children now have no worries, and the state will give pensions to the elderly." ”
Dr. Xiao said, "When you are old and can't move, it's better to have your own people to take care of you. ”
Chen Xue said: "It doesn't have to be born by herself, let's just say me, just a daughter, and I have to work, when I get old, when my father and I need someone to take care of her, where will she have time to take care of it?" I'm a little better to my little brother now, he doesn't have the ability to support the family, I will give the front room of the family to their husband and wife to do some small business, I can't watch him suffer, now that he has a child, I will carry the family money to him, the little niece is basically I raise them, relatives help relatives, neighbors help neighbors, and when I am old, my brother will not ignore me. ”
Dr. Xiao said: "Yes, people's hearts change people's hearts, and good people will definitely be rewarded." ”
Going to the civic square to dance at night, my mother has been running with my father these days, and a dancer who rarely dances together came over and invited Xia Wei to dance with her, and Xia Wei danced with her.
The dancer asked, "Is your child older?" Where do you work? ”
Xia Wei said: "Yes, I work in the city. ”
"Boy, or girl? Married? ”
Xia Wei said: "It's a daughter, married." ”
The dancer continued to laugh and say, "Oh, there's a baby, right? ”
Xia Wei smiled and said, "I'm pregnant, but I haven't given birth yet." ”
"Oh, you're about to be a grandmother, unlike me, my son has been married for more than ten years, and he hasn't had a child."
Xia Wei comforted her and said: "Now that technology is so advanced, you can do artificial conception." ”
The dancer looked unhappy and said, "I have done it, but it has not succeeded, and my daughter-in-law has no confidence to do it again." ”
Xia Wei continued to comfort: "There's nothing, if you really can't adopt one, as long as you treat it sincerely, there should be no difference from what you gave birth to." ”
The dancer was happy: "Yes, my son is also adopted, my son and daughter-in-law are very filial to us, I want to take advantage of my good health now, I can bring them a child, but I want to adopt one, and there is no child to adopt, where to find a child?" ”
Xia Wei said: "Don't worry, when there is a suitable one, adopt one." Xia Wei originally wanted to tell the dancer that there was a child who wanted to find someone to adopt, but I don't know if the child had found someone to adopt, and she didn't tell the dancer, so let's talk about it after asking.
The next day, Xia Wei asked Chen Xue: "The person yesterday said that there was a child looking for someone to adopt, did he find the master?" ”
Chen Xue said: "Her daughter-in-law is still living in the hospital and has not been discharged, a doctor in the hospital heard that she was looking for someone to adopt, so he helped her contact a person who needed a child, and now the adopter has paid all the hospitalization fees, and the child is basically implemented." ”
Xia Wei still didn't say what she wanted to say, so she shouldn't be nosy.
Chen Xue saw that something was wrong with Xia Wei, so she asked, "Why are you asking this?" ”
Xia Wei said hesitantly: "I want to ask if I have found someone, if I don't find the master, there is a dancer who wants to adopt a child for his son, and if someone adopts it, I won't say it." ”
Chen Xue asked, "Her son doesn't have children?" ”
"Yes, her son himself is adopted, he has been married for more than ten years and has not had children, her son and daughter-in-law are very filial, she wants to help her son adopt a child, she knows that adopted children can also be filial to the elderly."
Chen Xue looked at Xia Wei in surprise and said, "There is such a good mother-in-law?" ”
Xia Wei said: "Yes, my mother-in-law and father-in-law are good, and my son and daughter-in-law are good, she said that when the old man was sick and hospitalized, her son served there, and he was more thoughtful than his own care." ”
Chen Xue said: "I also think so, as long as you treat others sincerely, there will be people who treat yourself sincerely, if everyone is selfish, even if they are born by themselves, what will happen." ”
Xia Wei said: "Yes, education is also very important, every parent treats their children with sincerity and sincerity, but sometimes parents ignore education, blindly spoil their children, and the selfish thinking of educating their children is very serious, which will harm the children and themselves." ”
Chen Xue said: "Yes, it is really a bit of a problem for young people to educate their children nowadays, let's talk about Xiao Tai of the nursing group, she went to work on Sunday, and brought her daughter Jiajia who was at home during the kindergarten holiday." Seeing that she is so small, she is very jealous, when Jiajia saw the flower hairpin on the head of Xiao Li's daughter, Jiajia stepped forward and pulled off the hairpin on Xiao Li's daughter's head, and said: "Whoever wants you to look better than me, won't let you wear it." You see this kid is so jealous, it's terrible to grow up. ”
Xia Wei said: "Yes, what Jiajia said is also what her mother often says, this is the consequence of words and deeds, if parents don't pay attention to their words and deeds, they will also bring bad children." Xiao Tai often jokes with his colleagues: 'Whoever made you look better than me, put some lipstick on me.' Regardless of whether people are willing or not, they just snatch it and paint it, although many times it is a joke, but the children do not know what a joke is, what is the truth, they even think that no one can be better than themselves, so it is right. ”
Chen Xue said; "Yes, parents must pay attention to their words and deeds in front of their children."