Ruyan sat in the café and sipped coffee slowly, and after half an hour, Zhao Yumei came over with a big belly, and there was a girl who came with her, but her face looked a little melancholy.

When Ruyan was wondering who this was, Zhao Yumei had already reached out and pulled the beauty: "Come, Ruyan, let me introduce, this is Yu Lanlan, an alumnus of our M University, Yu Lanlan, this is my good friend Liu Ruyan, we are one session, I think you should also know each other." ”

"It's a pleasure to meet you, I've always heard about you before, but I didn't have a chance to meet you, and today I finally have the opportunity to meet you." Yu Lanlan took a polite step forward and said.

"I'm glad to meet you, please." Ruyan said politely, she really has no impression of this girl, but since Zhao Yumei brought it over, she should have a very good relationship with Zhao Yumei, otherwise Zhao Yumei would not have brought her over.

Ruyan stretched out his hand and beckoned the waiter: "Another glass of hot milk, by the way, what does Lan Lan like to drink?" Coffee? Milk? ”

"A glass of milk, thank you!"

"Ruyan, I remember you said that you know a very powerful Chinese medicine doctor, is this true?" Zhao Yumei sat down and began to ask like smoke.

"What, why did you suddenly inquire about this?" Ruyan was a little puzzled.

"I brought Yu Lanlan here today just to ask you about Chinese medicine. Yu Lanlan's situation, I can introduce it to you, her husband and Zhuo Ran are good friends, otherwise I wouldn't have known her, let alone brought her to introduce her to you today. To be honest, after getting married, Lan Lan's husband treated her very well. The two are very affectionate, but it's a pity that they lack a baby. Lan Lan, you've been married for three years, right? Zhao Yumei turned her head and asked Yu Lanlan.

"Yes. It's been three years. ”

Ruyan looked at Yu Lanlan, looking at her tangled expression, and probably guessed that it might be because she had not conceived a baby after three years of marriage, and probably her in-laws had complaints, so she was unhappy, and Zhao Yumei's following words also proved her guess.

"Like smoke. You have studied medicine before, and I heard that your mother-in-law is also because of the Chinese medicine doctor you know. I'm already sober, so I brought Lan Lan here today, and I also want you to help Lan Lan and see if you can let the famous doctor you know show Lan Lan. See where the crux of the problem is. Why are there no problems with the two of them, but they just don't have a baby.

Because of this reason, Lan Lan's in-laws have tossed Lan Lan a lot, Lan Lan has been running to various hospitals every day, checking and taking medicine, and she has been tossing for three years, but it has not worked, and she has also seen a lot of Chinese medicine. But it didn't work at all. I wonder if the doctors don't have the skills at home. Otherwise, even such a small problem will not be cured. Before, I didn't seem to have heard of infertility, why did we encounter such a beautiful and gentle Lan Lan? It's heartbreaking! Ruyan, you need to help. ”

Yu Lanlan also raised her eyes and looked at Ruyan with a wistful face, she had heard Zhao Yumei talk a few times about Ruyan knowing a famous doctor, and when she was in M University, she also knew this talented woman, but unfortunately she was usually too obscure, so she was destined to have no way to make friends with Ruyan, if it weren't for her husband Zhang Jun and Zhuo Ran knowing each other today, she would not have been able to make friends with such a person in M City.

"No problem, by the way, Lan Lan, have you and your husband ever checked for antigens? Are all other tests normal? Ruyan looked at Yu Lanlan.

"Antigens? I don't think I've heard of this, but our other tests are normal. Is antigen testing important? The doctor didn't seem to mention it to us. Yu Lanlan was a little surprised, but she didn't expect Ruyan to really understand this aspect very well.

"It's a bit important, otherwise, you go to S City, it seems that you are more professional in this area, when they check for infertility, they will find this item, it just so happens that the Chinese medicine doctor I know is also in S City, I can take you directly to find him after you check it." Ruyan thought of the things in the previous life, and remembered that the S city in the previous life had studied this aspect more extensively, and there were relatively more items to be examined in infertility, but I don't know if the S city in this life has also studied in advance in this regard.

"Really? Thank you so much! Like smoke! Yu Lanlan's excited tears flowed down, seeing Yu Lanlan's appearance, like smoke, a little emotional, women, not having children is really a fatal injury, even if the husband doesn't care, but the in-laws won't care, even if they don't say it, they will mutter in their hearts, most infertile people may embark on a path of divorce, if Yu Lanlan has not been pregnant, it will be difficult to guarantee a long time, and her husband will not be entangled slowly under the muttering of her in-laws, and after a long time, the love between the two will change its taste. Whether it will eventually lead to the road to divorce, only God knows.

Think about it, women are really pitiful, grow up, think that they have found their own Prince Charming, a happy life, from a pampered beautiful girl at home, slowly become a woman who is entangled with firewood, oil and salt all day long, do not give birth to children become chickens that do not lay eggs, in-laws can not tolerate it, the body of giving birth to children is completely changed, men can not tolerate it.

But will the Prince Charming he found at the beginning really treat himself as always? The answer is, of course, no, in this world, how many men and women who have been in love will consistently keep that love all their lives, and after a long time, love has become a dispensable chicken rib, it is better to have money, and it will not be entangled in firewood, rice, oil and salt, without money, it is really busy all day for three meals a day.

A responsible man will try his best to make his small family better, work hard to earn money, and irresponsibly, get married just to find a free nanny, wait for him to eat and wear, and complete the task of passing on the seeds.

"Lan Lan, you're welcome, since you are Yumei's friend, then you are also my friend, I will definitely find a way to help you, don't worry, you are so young, and your body is normal, and conceiving a baby is just a very small thing, maybe you will naturally get pregnant if you don't care." Sometimes, psychological reasons are also very important, and the matter of having a child is not like other things, and it is not rushed. ”

"Yes, Lan Lan, Ruyan is right. The matter of having a child is really not in a hurry, and the wider the heart, the better. As for your in-laws, you just have to listen to what they say, and you don't need to take it to heart. As long as Zhang Jun loves you, why do you bother with so much, and there is more, Zhang Jun was still talking to Zhuo Ran last time. I'm going to be a Dink, so I don't think you need to be too nervous. Maybe your lack of pregnancy is really related to psychological stress? Zhao Yumei said.

"Is that so? Actually, I don't want to be mentally stressed, but think about it. I've been married to Zhang Jun for three years, he loves me so much, I can't give birth to a baby for him, it's really sad! Yu Lanlan was still very entangled.

"You want to learn from people abroad. There are many couples who don't want children. No, we Chinese just like to pass on the seeds, and we never thought that the happiness of marriage was actually more important. I don't think far, Ruyan is also here today, she is also studying medicine, and she knows more about this aspect, since she said that you are fine, I think you should put your heart in your stomach. Why do you make yourself like a resentful woman every day? What's the use of struggling with you, it's better to relax. Go with the flow, by the way, haven't you heard that you can also do test tubes now? Otherwise, if you can't do it then, you can go and do a test tube, and you'll be done. Zhao Yumei looked at Ruyan as she spoke, "Is that so, Ruyan?" ”

"Test tubes?" Ruyan smiled, "Do you know what a test tube is, and now propose Lan Lan to do a test tube?" Seeing Zhao Yumei shaking her head, Ruyan didn't feel a little wry smile, this girl is completely a bad idea, didn't she have the pain of trying to manage it in her last life? If you don't do a test tube, where to use it to die so early, where to use it and be reborn again, people who have never done a test tube will never understand how much harm the test tube does to the human body, and raising the test tube with others is completely abolishing the normal reproductive function of the person.

"Since I don't understand, I'm still messing around there, don't mention the test tube in the future, Lan Lan is so young, and her body is fine, why do you want to do that broken test tube, do you know how much it hurts the body?" Zhao Yumei glanced at Zhao Yumei.

"Test tube hurts the body? I don't understand! Why does it hurt your body, haven't you heard that you can put embryos in a test tube? Zhao Yumei asked suspiciously, she just heard others mention it, and she really didn't understand.

"Let's tell you like this, to do a test tube is to play hormones, a good normal person, take hormones and think about what it feels like, and don't say that you have to play hormones, you have to take eggs, and you have to match the eggs, if the match is not good, the most hurt is the woman, you really take it for granted, if the test tube is so easy to do, all the people who can't get pregnant all over the world will do test tubes, where can I use it to adjust the Chinese medicine." Ruyan took a sip of coffee and said slowly.

"Yikes! It turns out that the test tube is like this, so scared! Zhao Yumei patted her chest and said.

"But how do you know so well?" Zhao Yumei was a little puzzled, she didn't know anything about this.

"Have you forgotten what I studied?" Ruyan said slowly, it is no problem for this thing to fool Zhao Yumei, after all, she has not studied medicine, and it is impossible for her to say that she can understand so much because of the experience in her previous life.

"That's right, you're an all-rounder, we can't compare, it's normal for you to understand this, and it's normal for a talented woman like you to know more!" Zhao Yumei smiled heartlessly.

"It turns out that the test tube is like this! I only understood when I heard you say this today, in fact, Zhang Jun and his family also mentioned the matter of test tubes, but because I don't know much about them, so I am still hesitating, after all, test tubes are new things, we haven't understood them yet, and I probably understand a little bit when I hear you say this today. Yu Lanlan suddenly realized.

"Then I advise you to dispel it as soon as possible to understand the matter of IVF, now the technology of IVF in China is not mature, it is still in the exploration stage, you go, at most it is a new experiment, why bother? You're all in good health, there's no need to do that, and even if you did, the doctor wouldn't have advised you to do this. After all, there are still conditions for doing test tubes? Ruyan looked at Yu Lanlan seriously.

"Do you still need conditions for test tubes? What are the conditions? Like smoke, let's listen to it? Zhao Yumei hurriedly asked.

"What conditions? Why are you asking so clearly? Aren't you exactly a protected animal? Do research? Ruyan looked at Zhao Yumei's big belly teasingly.

"Say what? Actually, I also have a friend who seems to be infertility, which means this, since you know this, let's talk about it in detail, it's better than her eyes are dark!"

"Isn't it?" Ruyan looked at Zhao Yumei suspiciously, why did she meet so many infertile friends. It seems that the domestic factories are not so flooded now, and the pollution is not too serious, how can there be so many infertility.

I was infertile. It's because the atmosphere is too polluted, the body has become sub-healthy, and I can't conceive it, and now I'm reborn, and the industry doesn't seem to be prosperous to that extent, and the pollution hasn't reached that level, so how can there be so many infertility.

It's still more than nine years old. Boys and girls are not too open, and sexual behavior is not as complex and changeable as it was 2,000 years later, so there shouldn't be so many cases of infertility, right? Don't. Many things in this life are in advance, and if you are not pregnant in advance, you really can't imagine it.

"Yes, what Yumei said is true. I know that friend of hers, too! Yu Lanlan testified.

"Okay. Since you want to understand, I'll talk to you again, to do a test tube, you must first take hormones to mature the follicles, usually we women release an egg a month, but to do the test tube, in order to obtain more eggs, will use medicine to urge more eggs to mature. In this way, a few to dozens of mature eggs can be retrieved at a time. If you think about it, a woman can mature more than 400 eggs in her lifetime. But he matured so much at one time, which is equivalent to expelling all our eggs in advance. The more you row, the more serious the injury, maybe the younger ones don't feel anything after taking it, but when you get older, you will feel it, and the body will still be much worse, and if it's serious, you'll age early, don't listen to those doctors who say that egg retrieval doesn't hurt a woman's body much, that's a lie.

At present, this technology is not mature in China, and the dose of drugs can not be better controlled. Give you half a month of hormones, and in the end, the money is spent and the body is injured, but there is no egg, what is this like, I believe you can also imagine it.

After the egg is retrieved, it must be matched with the sperm, and all the matched eggs can be OK, or dozens of eggs may not be matched successfully, which is equivalent to giving up all the work. The money is spent and people are injured, and they have to start all over again, it's not terrible to start over, but the terrible thing is that if it still doesn't work, it's really disappointing and thorough, think about it, if you let you spend a hundred thousand at one time and buy a hurt body, which of you is willing, Yumei, are you willing? Ruyan looked at Zhao Yumei.

"If you don't want to, spend hundreds of thousands of dollars to buy an injury, whoever wants to be a fool! What women are most afraid of is aging, egg retrieval hurts the body so much, Lan Lan, I don't think you need to think about IVF, I am a little scared when you say this. Zhao Yumei said.

"Are you afraid? The terrible is still to come, some of the successful matching is very happy, but after the successful matching, the transfer is to put the matched embryo into the woman's uterus, if the embryo can implant in the uterus, of course, it is a good thing, but if the embryo dies after two or three months after implantation, then it will be aborted, and it is still the woman who is hurt.

The terrible nature of abortion is also a fight with giving birth to a child, not to mention that giving birth to a child is ripe, and abortion is completely to terminate pregnancy, which is more harmful to the body. Ruyan continued.

"Ruyan, don't talk about it, it makes my stomach hurt! It's terrible, I decided to persuade my friends, don't do anything that breaks the test tube and hurts the body, only fools are willing to do it! Zhao Yumei stopped Ruyan's next talk.

Is it scary? Ruyan doesn't think that if Zhao Yumei feels terrible about what she said, then if she tells her that many women who have completed IVF have been mistreated by their in-laws because they did not succeed in conceiving later, I am afraid she will be even more surprised and terrible.

"Actually, none of this is scary!" Ruyan glanced at the surprised Zhao Yumei lightly and said.

"Isn't that scary? You mean there's something even more terrible! Zhao Yumei was really surprised.

"These are just physical injuries, many women who have spent money to buy the sin, and then did not get pregnant, have been tortured by illness and in-laws, I don't think you can guess." Ruyan said in a flat tone as much as possible, think about it, wasn't she one of them in the first place? Who can understand the sin in the middle? Anyone who hasn't personally experienced the pain of illness has no voice. Don't say that the test tube is not harmful to the body, if it really does not hurt, when those doctors are doing transplants, why do people sign the statement that any sequelae in the body after the test tube have nothing to do with the hospital, is there no silver three hundred taels here?

There may be some people who are fortunate to have no sequelae, or it may be mild sequelae, but if there are really no sequelae, I don't believe that I don't believe that a woman who has done IVF will age so fast without sequelae? Without sequelae, will a woman's body deteriorate after having a post-tube? None of this can be justified.

"Why did the in-laws break their daughter-in-law? Doesn't make sense? Zhao Yumei said in surprise, she couldn't figure it out, a woman pays so much, and her in-laws will torture her daughter-in-law.

"Of course you don't understand that you live a pampered life, and you don't have money and want to pass on the seeds, so you finally spend money to do a test tube, but the money is spent, but the woman is not pregnant, do you think about the in-laws will be comfortable? Although women have suffered, but the person who has suffered is not their in-law's family, what do they feel, what do they feel the most, that is, the daughter-in-law spent their family's money, and spent so much money but did not pass on the seeds to their family, I think you can understand this if you think about it. (To be continued......)