Lu Jiangzhou smiled bitterly, "Hao'er, this is the blow to my father." ”

"I'm sorry." Lu Hao'er said in prostration.

"How does the eldest uncle feel when he holds the second sister's hand?" Gu Yaluo asked.

"Feelings?" Lu Jiangzhou thought carefully, "I felt that her hands were stiff, and her little hands were cold and cold." ”

"It's extreme fear, blood regurgitating all over the body." Gu Yaluo's dark eyes flowed with a trace of worry and vagueness, a faint distress, "Why didn't you say it earlier?" ”

"What's the use of saying that? I think it's good to be single. Lu Hao'er smiled lightly, "I have checked the relevant information, at least I should be glad that I don't have a phobia of social disorders." It's not serious enough to interfere with my normal life, as long as I don't have physical contact with strange men, or are in the same enclosed space, I'm fine. Grinned.

The smile was more ugly than crying, and the couple who watched it throbbed for a while.

Lu Jiangzhou looked at Gu Yaluo and said, "What does this fear of social impairment mean?" ”

Gu Yaluo explained, "Psychosocial factors are the predisposing factors that constitute social phobia, such as entering a big scene for the first time, meeting the opposite sex for the first time, being ugly in front of others, unexpected body exposure, being suddenly promoted to the stage, and unexpected shock. Social phobia is often accompanied by other types of psychiatric disorders. It has a higher incidence of comorbidity than other mental illnesses, such as depression, hypochondriasis, physical distortion, personality disorders or atypical schizophrenia. ”

When Zhu Cuiyun heard this, she hugged Lu Hao'er and hurriedly said, "My daughter is not mentally ill. ”

"Thank you, Mom!" Lu Hao'er said in a low voice.

Lu Jiangzhou watched their mother and daughter hug each other. Suddenly, his body stiffened, and he swallowed his saliva when he thought of a possibility. He shuddered and asked, "That Hao'er, you don't like men's touches, uh...... Will you find that you prefer women's touch to men's? ”

"Poof...... Ahem! Gu Yaluo coughed in fright by his astonishing words.

Zhu Cuiyun looked at Lu Jiangzhou ignorantly, "Husband, what do you mean by this?" What do you mean: Do you prefer a woman's touch? ”

Lu Hao'er was stunned when she heard this, and pondered after the smell came. Stomping his feet and crying, he said, "Dad, what are you thinking about?" I have no homosexual tendencies. ”

"Ahh Zhu Cuiyun looked at Lu Hao'er in a daze. "What about your dad, your dad?"

Lu Hao'er hurriedly waved her hand and said, "It's nothing, Mom, don't listen to Dad's nonsense?" The conversation changed the subject. Father. How do you know about homosexuality? ”

"This ...... Uh, aren't you good? Lu Jiangzhou looked at Gu Yaluo and hurriedly said, "Luo'er, look at how Hao'er's disease is treated." ”

Gu Yaluo looked at Lu Jiangzhou's embarrassment when he was questioned, and said, "First of all, treat your current mentality correctly. Everyone has a mentality that troubles them, and whoever can be calm with each other will be able to overcome it more easily. You first learn to live with your current state of mind. Don't deliberately fight against fear, and don't deliberately forget the memories of horror. The mental activity of man is so strange. The more you try to extinguish a thought, the more stubborn it becomes; If you go with the flow, it will easily resolve itself. ”

"Hmmm! Although we are not you, we can't replace you, and some of us don't even have back pain when we stand and talk. But Luo'er is right, that bastard is dead, you can't let him haunt your life, it's not your fault, understand? Hao'er. Lu Jiangzhou hurriedly agreed.

Zhu Cuiyun held her hands and said gently, "Hao'er, your father is right, we can't punish ourselves for other people's mistakes." "I know that you may be afraid, because you are afraid of having a boyfriend and giving affection, and the other party will know your past and will look down on you and think you are ...... Rather than feeling distressed at that time, it is better not to touch it. Zhu Cuiyun couldn't go on, and tears came out of her eyes.

"If that's the case, that guy doesn't deserve your liking." Lu Jiangzhou hurriedly said.

Zhu Cuiyun's emotions recovered, grabbed her hands and said, "Hao'er, we don't want to have a boyfriend or get married." Shall we only strive for a normal life? ”

"Hmm!" Lu Hao'er said with tears in her eyes.

"What's next for Luo'er?" Zhu Cuiyun looked at Gu Yaluo and said.

Gu Yaluo smiled faintly, the curvature of the corners of her lips was very soft, and her deep eyes were filled with a faint brilliance, "After having a clear understanding of this, we can also take systematic desensitization therapy to overcome your heterophobia." For example, your close father and brother→ older male teacher→ ordinary man→ familiar man→ average male classmate→ male classmate who has a good feeling. The exact order depends on your specific situation. Then, from light to heavy, they actively and repeatedly contact the object of fear, and when the fear is generated, the muscles are relaxed until the tension of fear is removed. Subjects of the lighter level are adapted to the next level, and so on. A grade takes about a week or more. This kind of behavior adjustment should not be rushed, and it must be adapted to the situation of the previous level before proceeding to the next level of training.

As long as you can regulate your cognition and behavior well, you will no longer be bothered by 'androphobia', you will be able to interact with boys naturally, and you will have a normal and beautiful life. ”

Gu Yaluo's crisp and gentle voice was accompanied by shallow warmth, and she smiled, "Then let's start with Uncle Yi and Brother Yi." ”

"Hmm!" Lu Hao'er wiped her eyes with the back of her hand and pretended to be relaxed, "Actually, it's okay not to get married?" It's not bad for me to live like this, and I won't be able to collapse this day if I don't get married. What's so good about getting married, revolving around your husband and her family, and children all your life. There is no room for freedom, and I don't dare to say a word against my husband and my husband's family. ”

"You girl, have you been affected by Lucifer?" Lu Jiangzhou hurriedly said, "I'm a man, I know, he's sweet talk, coaxing people, don't believe him, it's nonsense." That kid looks like an emotional liar. How can there be a man in this world who only obeys his wife! That's incompetence in your grandfather's eyes! ”

Zhu Cuiyun tugged at Lu Jiangzhou's arm, "Dad, what are you talking about?" ”

Lu Jiangzhou suddenly got stuck, and he couldn't get up or down, "That...... Luo'er, this of me? ”

Gu Yaluo smiled slightly, "I know, if a man's words can be believed, sows can go up the tree." ”

"Then you still believe it." Lu Hao'er asked curiously.

"I just want to expose his lies to marry him, if he dares to lie to me...... Hum? Gu Yaluo waved her arms and was held by the man behind her, Lucifer's low and gentle voice was accompanied by shallow warmth, "How about Luo'er?" ”

"Divorce!"

"You're not going to have that chance." Lucifer took her hand and sat next to Gu Yaluo.

"Uncle, aunt, Hao'er." Lucifer exclaimed one by one.

"Why are you back again?" Gu Yaluo raised her eyebrows and asked.

"I'm afraid you'll regret it! I didn't expect you to live up to my expectations! Lucifer clenched her hand tightly and said, "I wonder if I should be glad I'm back, or applaud my ingenuity?" ”

"Where are you going to stay so late?" Lu Jiangzhou said worriedly.

"What are you afraid of in the summer? The sky is the quilt, and the earth is the bed! Lucifer said freely.

"Then let's go down, don't talk too late!" Lu Jiangzhou admonished.

"Yes!" Gu Yaluo nodded and got up.

Lucifer and the two of them stood at the entrance of the building, watched Lu Jiangzhou and the three of them go down, and made sure that the people were far away.

Gu Yaluo turned around and sat on the circle chair, how could the hot eyes beside him turn a blind eye, so he looked sideways at him and said, "You are not allowed to mess around!" ”

Her words actually caused a low laugh from the man, "Luo'er is also scared sometimes?" ”

"Scared?" Gu Yaluo raised her chin slightly and said, "I'm serious." If you ......"

Before Gu Yaluo finished speaking, he ushered in a gloomy stare from the man, and his deep voice carried a hint of irresistibility, "Come here!" Do here? patted his leg and said, "Don't worry, I'm not that **, let's talk." As soon as he spoke, he pulled Gu Yaluo and sat in his arms.

"Don't move! Let's talk? Lucifer rested his chin on her shoulder and said, "Do you have an opinion on getting married in such a hurry!" With a faint smile, the curvature of the corners of his lips was very soft, and his deep eyes were filled with a faint brilliance.

Gu Yaluo smiled, "The domineering Lucifer will also respect other people's opinions. ”

"Then now give you five minutes to think about it and make up your mind quickly, but I only accept yes, not no." Lucifer raised his wrist and looked at his watch, and said seriously.

"Puff...... Gu Yaluo pillowed his chest and smiled, grabbing his thick big hand and comparing it, "This determination is really difficult." To tell you the truth, I'm only eighteen! Are you still young? ”

"Small? Why haven't you had enough fun? Or learn from those rebellious youths, dance halls, drag racing...... We're all old, life isn't long, it's not short, and I don't want to waste time. Lucifer whispered in her ear that it was almost to death.

"Yes! I look at you, you want to get married so much, I just think, he likes me so much, just marry him, isn't that what marriage is all about? Even if you don't get married, it's all clear. What happens to a married woman, and why do she jump into the fire pit? It's fragrant from afar, it's smelly close, and after getting married, you will find that Ah Jiu is like that? It has also changed from pearls to dead fish eyes. Gu Yaluo played with his slender fingers and said indifferently.

Lucifer's deep voice rang in his ears, "I can't say it's absolutely like this. Women change for men, and when they become better, they love this man, and when they become bad, they don't fulfill their responsibilities. The woman does not change, which proves that this woman is very real and does not deliberately hide herself when she is in love. In short, the reason why pearls become dead fish eyes is more than half of the responsibility of men. (To be continued.) )

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