727 Man can only change himself
It's a pity, I have a phobia of flying, and it's not convenient to go anywhere now.
"Mom and Dad are at home, we can swim in the pool at home to cool off!" Zhu Cuiyun hurriedly smiled.
"Seriously, I haven't seen you in a swimsuit, grandma." Lu Lu smiled, "Mom doesn't either!" Do you have a swimsuit? ”
"Hehe......" Everyone laughed, and the smile diluted the unhappiness just now.
"Grandma, have you ever worn a swimsuit in your life?" Lu Haoyi asked curiously.
"No, how's that, laughing at what?" Jiang Huifen glanced at them and said, "When life is relatively comfortable, I have long passed the age when I can wear swimsuits. When you were young, you took you to play in the water, and I was only busy preparing food and taking care of luggage, so how could I have a chance to wear a swimsuit! ”
"Is it that serious?" Lu Zhongfu smiled, "Why don't I remember." "Now that you've had the opportunity to wear a swimsuit, what's so embarrassing." Besides, in my own home, the children are not there. ”
"Mom Haoyi, where's your swimsuit?" Jiang Huifen looked at Zhu Cuiyun and said.
"My swimsuit is at the bottom of the box, I don't know if I can wear it anymore." Zhu Cuiyun shook her head and said.
"Laughing at what?" Lu Zhongfu looked at Gu Yaluo and said with a snicker.
"I really want to see my grandmother and aunt in swimsuits, it must be fun." Gu Yaluo said with a smile.
"Hehe......" Jiang Huifen also laughed, "It's a pity you can't see it." ”
"Alright, it's almost time, let's all go home!" Lu Zhongfu spoke.
Everyone went back to their homes and rested.
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The next day, Saturday, the morning exercise was completed. After breakfast, while the weather was not too hot, Lu Jiangdan and Gu Yaluo drove two cars to the Fanling Golf Course in the New Territories together.
Commonly known as Fanling Course, it was established in 1889 in the 15th year of Guangxu in the Qing Dynasty. At that time, it was called the Royal Hong Kong Golf Club. The club was initially located in Happy Valley and later moved to Deep Water Bay, where it settled in Fanling in 1911 with the construction of an 18-hole course.
The golf course has maintained a strong British style for more than 120 years, from the clubhouse building to the club's management, and the course design is typical of the park type. The Fanling Course is mainly in English, and the club's notices are all in English. In the early days, those who could play at the Xiangjiang Golf Club were either rich or expensive. As a result, the club is also full of opulence, with a helipad on the course. It can be seen.
The club is a private club, with an elegant environment, full of greenery, and the temperature feels a few degrees lower than in the city center. The mountain breeze is coming. Very cool.
There are more than 10 high-end restaurants, specialty stores, table tennis rooms, first-class swimming pools and various innovative entertainment and fitness facilities to provide customers with thoughtful services.
Playing in Fanling, a real escape from the hustle and bustle, today is another good weather. It's a Saturday again, and there are a lot of people who come here to play.
As a member of the club. There is still preferential treatment, Gu Yaluo watched them play, while he and Lucifer stepped on the green grass, breathed fresh air, bathed in the bright sunshine, and walked leisurely in the beautiful natural scenery.
"Hey! Come to play, how did you two break away from the big army! Lu Jiangchuan looked at Gu Yaluo and Lucifer.
"It's not that Lu Lu and the second brother are with you." Gu Yaluo said.
"But they won't fight?" Lujiang Boat Track.
"Who said that?" Lucifer looked at Gu Zhanyan and the two of them and said, "Show your hand to your little uncle." ”
"Okay!" Lu Lu stood in front of the ball, waved the pole with his hand, held the handle of the pole, took a deep breath and swung it out in a standard posture.
Lu Lu put his hand in front of his eyes and looked into the distance, "Huh! Why didn't I see the ball? ”
"The ball is still in place!" Gu Yaluo couldn't cry or laugh.
"Look at your posture is standard, I thought it was better than me? Unexpectedly, the ball didn't hit. Lu Jiangchuan smiled and pointed to the ball that was not moving.
"Mistake! Mistakes, this time I will definitely be able to hit. Lu Lu said embarrassedly.
"You twist your waist carefully." Lu Jiangdan looked at the amplitude of his side and said.
"I'll be careful." Lu Lu smiled, put on a small face, and solemnly hit the ball out with a standard swing posture.
"Yay!" Lu Lu raised her hand and watched the ball roll on the grass to a position very close to the entrance of the hole, and said happily, "How about it, I played well!" ”
"When did you learn to play golf?" Lu Jiangchuan looked at Lu Lu in surprise and said, "It's better than me!" ”
"On the rooftop of our house and on the training ground on holidays!" Lu Lu smiled and walked towards the ball, "Uncle Xiao was busy taking care of Haoqi and Haobai in the past few years!" ”
"Oh!" Lu Jiangchuan said suddenly, "So, Zhan Yan will too?" ”
"Hmmm! I just don't know if it's good or not. Gu Zhanyan smiled and said, "After all, I haven't fought in actual combat." ”
"In this way, our children will be fine." Lu Jiangchuan was surprised.
"Hmmm! It's good to play or not, anyway, this posture is absolutely okay! Lu Lu playfully stuck out her tongue and said.
Lucifer and Gu Yaluo walked in the shade of the trees, and Lucifer smiled lightly and said, "You taught them." ”
"Yes! Detached from the busyness of the second brother's barbecue stall, he had more time to spare, so he naturally taught them. Gu Yaluo said in a lazy voice, it was her lazy attitude towards life that exuded a fatal charm.
"You taught them well!" Lucifer said nonchalantly.
"It doesn't matter if you don't use it, broaden your horizons, don't be too shallow." Gu Yaluo groaned for a moment and said softly, "This world is already harsh on women. It's not fair! But what can you do? You can't change the world, you can only change yourself. ”
"So you teach them how to play golf, how to appreciate wine; learned to treat people and things, and people are sophisticated; learned to express one's opinion; learned photography; learned to dance; Learn to make yourself noble and beautiful; Learning how to be a good gentleman is, of course, the most important thing. How do women find themselves and know what they need? Find yourself and run your own business. Lucifer said slowly.
"I want them all to be happy." Gu Yaluo said sincerely, "I once saw a text on the back of a T-shirt that I will never forget for the rest of my life: occupy the lack of my wife." Be a mistress. Helpless humanity, smart women, happiness! It depends on careful management so that it will not disappear. Women have to learn to manage themselves and love themselves,"
Lucifer hugged Gu Yaluo and said, "It's better to read ten thousand books than to travel ten thousand miles!" So I always take them out for a walk during the winter and summer vacations. ”
"Turn? Wrong! It is an inspection industry. Gu Yaluo chuckled.
"Huh...... Is this an excuse for my grandfather? White lies? Lucifer smiled and said. I don't know when Luo'er became a little liar. ”
"Want to get beaten?" Gu Yaluo's eyes widened, and she looked at him with a sparkling voice.
"Hehe......" Lucifer raised her eyebrows and chuckled, her index finger gently brushing the shredded hair around her ear. Under the shade of the tree is the slender and elegant neck, which is matched by the pale pink casual clothes, faintly outlining a calm and elegant temperament.
"Or they themselves are highly savvy, otherwise. Rotten wood cannot be carved! Gu Yaluo smiled peacefully.
"It's better to travel thousands of miles than to read countless people. Reading countless people is not as good as a famous teacher to guide the way, and a famous teacher is not as good as to understand it yourself. Lucifer echoed in a crisp voice.
"Your head determines your pocket, and the freedom in your pocket determines the happiness of a person's life, and also determines the smile on a person's face." Gu Yaluo laughed lightly and pouted, "In the modern society where growing old together is about to become a myth, the probability of a woman having a long-term meal ticket is getting lower and lower, when the marriage is broken. Money disputes can easily lead to bad words between men and women, and the victim is often a woman.
Even a woman who is happily married. There is also the opportunity to face the reality of life alone, because women generally live eight to ten years longer than men, and it is not uncommon to hear of young widows.
In the workplace, women are generally at a disadvantage compared to men, women's income is generally lower than men's, even if the same work is not paid, women change jobs more frequently than men, and most of the company's layoffs first lay off female employees. ”
"Having said so much, it's because the men are not good enough, there are too many scumbags, and they don't take responsibility or responsibility." Lucifer's words.
"Hey! This sentence won my heart. Gu Yaluo smiled slightly, the smile that had always turned everyone upside down instantly became much brighter again, and the curvature of the corners of her lips became more and more charming.
When they were young, women felt that this day would never come, and they were always optimistic that the boat would naturally go straight to the bridge. Women always escape from reality, lack of the concept of being prepared for danger in times of peace, unwilling to think about unlucky things, and wait until the problem occurs to burn incense and worship the Buddha, pray for God's favor, help to bring blessings and change luck, in fact, if women learn to manage money as soon as possible and prepare for the days without dependence, their fate can be in their own hands.
Smart women are looking for a warm and caring companion, not a long-term meal ticket. Women must realize that Prince Charming was extinct back in the 50s, and that the workplace is not a place of fair play, and that if a woman is completely dependent on others, it can lead to the loss of personal health and wealth.
As the saying goes: Rely on the mountains to fall, rely on everyone to run!
Women should start investing and saving as early as possible, the earlier they start, the greater the chance of success, the younger they are, the more advantageous it is to start enriching their common sense in this area, sacrifice material comforts within their means, learn to be budget-conscious, prepare for the future, and do not settle for poverty in order to have true freedom, of course, absolutely not unscrupulous for money.
Women want to be rich, not to pursue pleasure, but the dignity of life. If a woman knows how to manage money and knows how to be independent, life is yours, and women can't ask for independence in the kitchen, and economic independence is the basis for pursuing independence.
"Yay! Hole-in-one, hole-in-one! Lu Jiangchuan shouted happily.
Lu Jiangzhou, who was hit by Gu Zhanyan and Lu Lu's self-esteem, was angry and unwilling, and struck hard, wow...... God has eyes!
The shouts of Lu Jiangchuan came from not far away, which also interrupted Gu Yaluo and Lucifer's chat. (To be continued.) )
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