readx; In the slightly refreshing afternoon, Monday sat in the ecological park and recorded the mate selection conditions dictated by Qin Haiyun with his pen. Pen fun and pavilion www.biquge.info

"First of all, it should look good." Qin Haiyun smiled slightly: "Although my aunt has reached this age, I still like handsome guys very much because of my own reasons, and my aunt will not wronged herself in this regard." ”

Monday Yi silently wrote it down, and nodded understandingly, in this era of looking at faces, it is really advantageous to look good, it is easy to find a job, and there are many opportunities, the worst is to find a rich woman**, this life can basically ensure that food and clothing are worry-free, but I don't know if the guy who eats can still use it when he is forty years old?

"Secondly, he must have enough strength." Qin Haiyun took a sip of tea elegantly, put down the teacup, and said: "Even if he is not invincible in the world, at least he must have the strength to protect himself, otherwise I, a woman, will protect a man in turn, even if he can accept it, I can't accept it." ”

"......" After Zhou Yiyi silently wrote it down, he said with a little complaint: "Aunt Qin, you will get 99.99999% of the objects down with this one." ”

"Do you think your aunt is asking too much?" Qin Haiyun held his hair and smiled lightly. Under the sun, it is exceptionally fresh and healing.

Monday's heart pounded, coughed dryly, and said, "It's not high, I just don't know where to find such a person." ”

"Huh." Qin Haiyun smiled: "Just because I can't find it, my aunt has been single!" ”

"But there will be." Monday Yi comforted: "You went on to say, apart from these two, is there anything else?" ”

"Well...... Qin Haiyun thought for a while and said, "In addition, you can't be too short, at least more than one meter eight." ”

"One meter and eight ......" Zhou Yiyi looked at Qin Haiyun and asked, "Aunt Qin, how much are you one meter and six?" ”

"One meter six six." Qin Haiyun said with a smile.

"Oh, that's about 1.8 meters." On Monday, I nodded and always left some richness for high heels.

"Anything else?"

"Also, as my aunt said, you must be talented." Qin Haiyun said: "I don't require him to export chapters, but at least he must be knowledgeable, I like men with cultural cultivation." Talking to them gives me a sense of adoration. ”

Noting this, Monday smiled and said, "Aunt Qin, I didn't expect you to be a young woman in literature and art." ”

Qin Haiyun chuckled: "It's a little bit." After all, my aunt is also a college graduate, and if she doesn't have a certain cultural accomplishment, I'm afraid that she doesn't have a common language with the other party. ”

"Understood." Monday nodded with a smile, and the two of them lived together, in addition to the importance of complementary personalities. It is also very important to have a common topic when you are together, if you have a common topic, your husband will not be bored, and your wife will not mistakenly think that her husband doesn't care about her. It is necessary to understand a little here, the husband does not talk to his wife, not because he doesn't care about the other party, but because there is no common topic to make trouble, if there is a common topic between the husband and wife, then the life will be much more interesting.

For example, if the husband and wife are both fans, then it will be the day of the game. It's a lot of fun for two people to sit together and watch the game, or to support each other's favorite teams and quarrel. Isn't it?

On the contrary, those wives always complain that their husbands always play with computers and mobile phones, but they ignore her situation, just because the two really have nothing to talk about. Right.

But if there really is no common topic. Then it is important to take the initiative to find a topic, talk about something that the other person is interested in, and then get answers to certain questions from the other person, and then show some adoring expressions. Ensure that your husband loves you more and more, because your husband will have a psychology at this time: My daughter-in-law is really good, so she admires me. This kind of daughter-in-law is not easy to find, I have to be kind to my daughter-in-law, if such a good daughter-in-law runs away, where can I find it!

So a woman who has a bad life. Either you've really met scum or someone who doesn't fit right, or it's another case where you're not running your family well.

After all, the family needs to be managed, and it is mainly women who run the family, because compared to men, women are the pillars of a family.

Isn't it a strange statement? When did a woman become the breadwinner of the family? Hasn't the breadwinner of the family always been a man!

In fact, this is a wrong perception, the so-called man is the pillar of the family, that is only because men shoulder the responsibility of making money to support the family, so for traditional Chinese, as long as a man can make money to support the family, then he will complete the task, but what about the rest? Laundry and cooking, giving birth to children and taking care of children, and serving the family, all these things are done by women, which is very hard.

Therefore, the real pillar of a family is actually a woman, and women have occupied a dominant position in all aspects from ancient times to the present, such as the sentence we often hear, 'the mother of the child travels thousands of miles is worried', is there a child who travels thousands of miles and the 'father' is worried?

For example, the schools we went to were all called 'alma mater', is there one called 'paternal school'?

Another example is when we all say: O motherland! 'Mother'! , it is said: O motherland! 'Father's'?

Therefore, in the Chinese tradition, the woman is the dominant person, and the man does not matter, the man's only responsibility is to provide for the financial needs of the family.

To make a simple comparison, if the husband and wife are a computer, then the husband is the computer hardware, and the wife is the computer software. If the hardware configuration is low, only the lowest level of software can be used. If the hardware configuration is high, then the good software can be used casually.

But if the hardware configuration is high, you must also find good software, if the software strikes, you have good hardware in vain.

So good hardware meets good software, and the choice is not in the hardware, but in the software. Good software will be more compatible with good hardware, so as to create colorful and wonderful; And bad software, incompatible with good hardware every day, what will happen in the end? Then there is only one end, to be unloaded.

Got it! A smart woman is a good software and can run her husband and family; And stupid women are rotten software, and when they meet a good husband, they don't know how to cherish it, and they will only be uninstalled, and then they can only grieve themselves to find a low-configuration hardware, and make do with it for a lifetime, of course, it is also possible to dislike even low-configuration hardware, and finally can only be put on the shelf, and after the software expires, it will be thrown directly into the garbage recycling bin......

"Is there anything else besides these?" Monday continued to ask.

"There's really nothing left." Qin Haiyun shook his head with a smile: "These conditions are met." As long as it fits, it's pretty much the same. ”

"......" Zhou Yiyi smiled bitterly: "Aunt Qin, your 'nothing' seems to be more difficult than the previous four!" Who knows what kind of person you're compatible with! ”

Qin Haiyun chuckled and said, "So my aunt hasn't met the right person all along!" "That's it. Qin Haiyun glanced at Zhou Yiyi, his eyes flickered slightly, and said with a smile: "There is a person who meets the conditions in all aspects, but this person already has a wife, and it is not good for aunt to interfere!" ”

"Really?" Zhou Yi didn't care about Qin Haiyun's words. Instead, she was surprised that she had met the right person: "Aunt Qin, who is that person you are talking about?" Do I know each other? ”

"Don't ask." Qin Haiyun shook his head: "They all said that the other party has a wife, and it's too late to say anything." ”

"I just want to know who that person is." Monday: "The other party has a wife, it's not good for us to interfere, I'm just curious about who can make Aunt Qin look at it?" Is it my dad? ”

"It's not." Qin Haiyun shook his head and said, "Your father doesn't even have any abilities, and he's old, so I don't look down on him." ”

"......" Monday had a drop of sweat on the back of his head, as if he saw the picture of his father being deeply hit and crying with his head in his arms......

"Who the hell is that?" Monday asked without giving up. If you can't ask, you can't sleep.

"You really want to know?" Qin Haiyun looked at him with a smile.

"Of course." Although he felt that Qin Haiyun's eyes were a little wrong, in order to satisfy the curiosity in his heart, he let it go: "Otherwise, I won't be able to sleep at night." ”

"I'm afraid to say it, you won't be able to sleep every night in the future." Qin Haiyun said with a smile.

Monday was stunned, who? So powerful?

Thinking that he might not be able to sleep every night in the future, Monday was very entangled, should I know?

After thinking about it for a long time, Zhou Yiyi finally gritted his teeth...... Confessed.

"Forget it, let's not talk about it." Monday said: "I can't sleep tonight. I can't sleep every night in the future, so I'll choose the former! ”

"Clever." Qin Haiyun chuckled lightly and said, "There is nothing to say about Auntie, maybe she is a person in this life." ”

Speaking of which. Qin Haiyun sighed lightly: "It's good to be alone, carefree, no worries, except for feeling lonely at night, there is nothing dissatisfying in other aspects." ”

"......" I don't know why, Zhou Yi always felt that Qin Haiyun was a little lonely at this time. But if you think about it carefully, it is a matter of course, after all, she is a woman in her forties, and she has endured twenty years of loneliness and loneliness.

If a woman doesn't have a man by her side, it's really hard to bear. It's just that some women will always shout long live being single, but this kind of woman should be relatively young, if you really reach the age of forty, if there is no man around, it will be really unbearable, otherwise there will be no video of the old lady kissing Xiao Zhengtai on the Internet.

"Aunt Qin......" Zhou Yi looked at her with some concern.

Qin Haiyun came back to his senses, saw the worry in Zhou Yi's eyes, his heart warmed, and he smiled: "It's okay, aunt is fine now, and now that I have you, my aunt doesn't need other men." ”

"Uh......" Zhou Yiyi suddenly felt very embarrassed, although he could understand the meaning of Qin Haiyun's words, and knew that this was just Qin Haiyun's ridicule, but somehow, he subconsciously recalled the early morning in the villa, at that time Qin Haiyun really embarrassed him, although Qin Haiyun definitely didn't remember, but he would remember it in his heart for a lifetime.

"Hehe......" Seeing the embarrassment of Zhou Yi's unexpected advantages, Qin Haiyun thought it was a little boy who was embarrassed, so he couldn't help but smile and said, "Look at what scared you, aunt teased you!" ”

"I know." Monday laughed twice and said, "It's just a little ...... How to say it! After all, Aunt Qin, you look like you're in your twenties, and you look so beautiful, although I understand it in my heart, I will make up some messy things in my brain from time to time...... But I don't mean anything else, it's just pure adolescent syndrome. ”

These words made Qin Haiyun giggle, and looking at Zhou Yi's embarrassed appearance, it made her feel even more happy: "Aunt knows, when your father was your age, his mind was full of men and women, and he was even more unbearable than you!" ”

"Oh?" Monday lifted his spirits and asked, "What was my dad like back then?" Do you do it every day? ”

Qin Haiyun chuckled: "That's not true. Then she generously chatted with Zhou Yiyi about some things when she was young.

"In the 90s, the social atmosphere was still quite conservative, and men and women were more subtle in their objects, unlike today's young people, who just talk about it for a few days. Back then, although your father and I were affectionate and righteous to each other, we were also affectionate and polite, and the most intimate contact was only holding hands, without further action. ”

Hearing this, Zhou Yi's expression suddenly became a little weird.

Is the most intimate touch just holding hands? How does it feel so similar to a certain policy? Could it be that the current hand-holding policy is all done by Aunt Qin?

Wow! Aunt Qin, is it because you didn't enjoy further treatment back then, so now you start to take revenge on society?

"What do you think?" Seeing that Zhou Yi's eyes were wrong, Qin Haiyun seemed to feel full of malice, and couldn't help but pat him on the head, with a little coquettishness: "When I look at you, I know that I don't think about good things." ”

"Ahem, how could it be." Monday coughed twice and said, "You said that you and my dad just held hands, and didn't do anything else?" Even if the social climate was conservative at that time, it wouldn't have been even a kiss! ”

"Nope." Qin Haiyun shook his head and said, "At that time, your father and I were still young, and we focused more energy on improving our strength, and your father cultivated very hard, otherwise he would not have become a leader of the younger generation, you have to learn from your father in this regard, and learn more while you are young." Although your father has lost his abilities, he has all his knowledge, so that he can teach in school, earn money to support his family, and pay for your medical bills, which are quite expensive every month, otherwise you may not be able to last for eighteen years. ”

This is said very heartily, and as soon as Monday heard it, he nodded: "I understand, I will work harder." ”

"That's good." Qin Haiyun smiled slightly, and was about to say something more, but Monday's mobile phone rang, Monday quickly made an apologetic gesture, took out the phone, and saw the caller ID, there was no name, it was an unfamiliar number. (To be continued.) )

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