Chapter 7: The Matter of Separation
He Hua's mother-in-law had already called Fei Wuxiao and his wife to her room, and her mother-in-law glanced at them and said: "You have been married for almost half a year, and it stands to reason that you should have separated earlier, but my mother always thinks that the two of you are getting married, and there are many things that I don't understand, so I put it off again and again and didn't mention the matter of separating the two of you. Our family's background is thin, Fei Wu and his father left early, I have been a woman's family for so many years, it is not easy to raise Fei Wu as an adult, now I see that Fei Wu is already a married person, married is an adult, you have your living habits, your mother has your mother's living habitsγγγγγ "Fei Wu has been dependent on his mother since he was a child, and now he suddenly heard his mother say that he wanted to divide his family, Fei Wu couldn't help but shed tears. As soon as He Hua heard about the separation, she was happy in her heart, because she ate with her mother-in-law, her mother-in-law always ate simply, sometimes she wanted to eat a slightly better thing, but there was no way to speak, older people and younger people have different living habits, and there is always a generation gap between one generation and another, so Fei Wu's mother still thought of the hardships of living with young people at this point.
The mother glanced at her tearful son, and the mother said: "People are like this, generation after generation, after separation, my mother doesn't care about you, and my mother is not as ruthless as those parents of others, if you have something at that time, your mother will definitely take care of it, and your mother doesn't care who cares about you?" After letting you separate the family, the two of you also know how to live your life, how to live, if you have money, you will eat better, if you don't have money, you will eat a little worse, people often say, "You have to plan to live, you have to be generous when you encounter things", "You can't eat poor, you don't have to be poor, you don't plan to be poor in your life", "You insist on being poor, not your face hurt" Although you have often heard of these words, I won't say much about them today. There were only three mothers and sons left in the room, He Hua wanted to say that if the family was separated, why should she be so verbose, but when she saw the tears on her mother-in-law's face, and Fei Wu's expression of reluctance to separate the family, she was embarrassed to say it.
Fei Wu's mother continued: "Okay, don't be unhappy, we will still live in the same yard after we separate from the house, if Fei Wu misses your mother, you can come and take a look, and if you don't leave the house, your mother will leave." This is the pots and pans and spoons and chopsticks that my mother bought for you in the city, it turned out that when your grandfather divided the family for us, there was nothing to share, and now the conditions are a little better, my mother bought you a pot and stove, what about the money, Fei Wujie got married, and the gift money received by the mother was not willing to spend, all put it there! But I can't take it all for you, you get married and the family adds money to the gift, and when the time comes, the child of the other family gets married, and the mother has to return the gift, people come and go, and there is no only gift money there, no gift money, and besides, our family is not an official, if you are an official or there is such a thing. The mother continued to speak, and Fei Wu He Hua didn't know what to say, so he could only listen to his mother's words.
Mother said: "That Li Xiaokeng in the village, I don't look at him as a good thing, and he is not young, every day in the village, I know that I travel around, this family comes in, that family goes out, and I will let him come to our house less in the future, it is enough for me to see him." When the two of you have a child, your mother will have to show you the child. "Pity the hearts of parents all over the world, Fei Wu's mother said a lot of words, but He Hua thought in his heart, when he separated the family, he saw that his mother-in-law could give him a little more money, so that he could have a better life in the future.
Cutting boards, rolling boards, basins, brooms, my mother-in-law has bought almost everything she needs to get by. He Hua saw the pots and spoons at home, He Hua said: "From now on, we can eat as much as we want, we don't have to eat leftovers all day long, boiling buns in the morning, eating noodles at noon, eating buns and drinking water in the afternoon, I can't figure it out every day, the life of the old lady at home is like this." Fei Wu said: "After separating from home, we must be careful when spending money, so as not to be unable to catch it from the beginning of the year to the end of the year." It turned out that she was used to eating with her mother-in-law together, but He Hua was still a little unaccustomed to separating from the house, so she said, "What are you going to eat tonight?" Fei Wu said, "You cook by yourself, how do I know what to eat?" He Hua said: "You go to your mother's house to see, do you have any buns?" You bring it and I'll fry it for you. Fei Wu went to his mother's house to take a look, and took two steamed buns over, He Hua saw Fei Wuguang taking two steamed buns, so she said again: "You, it's really three places that don't stick back and forth, how do you eat just take the buns, go and bring two more eggs, Fei Wu didn't say you, how can you bear bricks and not carry tiles." What do I say and what do you do? When the mother saw He Hua count her son, the mother was unhappy, and the mother said: "Son, you can't let He Hua talk about you every day like this, you don't say a word." Originally, after the two of you separated from the family, Mom didn't want to talk about you more about some things, you are a man's family, you will be the head of the family in the future, and you will lead the family to live in the future, you see that you are now in a nest, so that He Hua will step on you at every turn, Mom is still alive, she dares to bully you like this, Mom will die in the future, and she doesn't know how to say about you. Fei Wu heard his mother's words, and Fei Wu had nothing to say. The mother continued: "You are like today, originally she was a daughter-in-law's family, she didn't cook, as if she was reasonable, and she didn't have any face in what you said. Besides, you two just got married and have no money, and you eat and drink like this every day, I think you two can eat for a few days. The mother glanced at her son, and the mother said to her son: "To be a man, you have to have a man's temper, go to the chicken coop and have the eggs that the old hen has just laid, you can take them all back, lest He Hua say that his mother is stingy." β
People are the same, since her son got married, Fei Wu's mother often felt that her son was no longer like the original son, and he raised him with a handful of and urine since he was a child, who knew that after he got married, he forgot about this mother every day, and asked him where He Hua went after a while? If it was where I went, would my son be so worried about asking? It seems that after people get married, they are all to their daughters-in-law, and there are to their mothers." This statement is also true.
He Hua had already cooked the meal, and the fragrant smell wafted to her mother-in-law's room, and her mother-in-law felt delicious when she smelled it, so her mother-in-law came to see it, and her mother-in-law said, "He Hua, the food you cooked, my mother smelled the fragrant smell in the room." How much oil do you put in it, and look at the pan full of oil. "People are the savings of the elderly, and the young people's hair is not fine, which is the generation gap between one era and another, and you must slowly look at the habit if you are not used to it.