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Dear book friends, thank you for following along so far. (Pinyin for biqi u)
The book is over, and the pothos is very relieved that it is not crooked, and the intention of writing has been fully realized.
Originally, this book came up with a title called "Self-Talking Love". But the editor disagreed, saying that it did not fit the style of the starting point. Later, with the editor's meaning, it was called "Qin Shi Peasant Girl", in fact, Xiaohan did not farm, but only did business, and later, it was equivalent to being a prisoner for a long time. So, it's a name that pothos doesn't like and doesn't know. Until now, the title of the book has haunted the pothos.
Why is it called "self-talking love"?
When Xiaohan and Fusu tested each other, there was a lot of deception. But that's a deception that comes from love. Deceive, for his sake! But that's it, it also came together. This is more like a lot of lovers in our lives, obviously there are not many places that fit, and they think they can go on, and they have been implementing self-hypnosis.
Later, Fusu was in Shangjun, and Xiao Han tried his best to save him, also because he had love in his heart. But the saved Fusu is not what she wants. This is self-talking love.
Luthos thinks that when people say they love others, they are all their own feelings, and the person you love, eighteen kinds of martial arts, sixty-four kinds of weapons, are all displayed in your mind, not necessarily all of him. When you love, these are cute, and when you don't love it, martial arts and weapons are still there, but they are not what they used to be.
It's always hard for us to see the whole of each other. And when love comes, you are only part of the love for him.
When Fusu was not sent to Shangjun, he did not experience any tests, and the two of them were like oil. When they separated, they were still thinking about the same "she" they used to be. But when they worked hard to be together, they realized that what happened in the middle was a test of love, and how difficult it was to get through!
Xiao Han has always liked a man who is as tenacious as a weed, but for a background like Fusu, how can he be a weed?
Fusu's background determines that what he wants is perfect, and when Xiaohan is not perfect in the eyes of ordinary people, he can't cross it.
These are always things that you can't see when you are in love. So, it's self-talking love. You think your love is like this, but it's not. You just choose the part of your love that you love.
It's not a sad tone. This is the reality of life.
All we can do is cherish our time together. To love someone, to love him faithfully, purely, and courageously, both the spirit and the flesh.
When love is gone, Zhang Ailing said, "When love is going to end, it will end, and when the time comes, you can't do it if you don't want to draw an end." At this point, it's time to step away or sober yourself.
It would be stupid to ask the other person to be the way they want to be.
It's even more stupid to make yourself the way the other person wants.
So, when Xiaohan is about to die of illness and Fusu cries for her, she will say "Thank you for letting me know how far I can go in loving someone!" ”
Pothos writes Xiaohan like this because she appreciates this attitude towards love and lovers.
This is to love others, but also to love yourself.
Grateful to everyone who has ever loved, how can there be no love in the process of growing up?
Thanks to the people who have accompanied each other in every period of time, the necklace is broken, the beads are still there, and the light is still there.
Love, to be open, to be brave, to be fearless, to give each other confidence. This is what Fusu thought in his heart when he gave Xiao Han a funeral. It is also the idea that the pothos wants to express.
Love, to love yourself, to give your life for your lover is also to love yourself. If you just run away and dodge, you don't love yourself if you save your life.
Not to mention those loves that are full of disguise. That's not loving yourself. Life is so long, why spend something else with someone you don't love?
Xiao Han was able to let go of Fusu because he recognized himself. It's not hypocritical, it's really loving yourself. So, she can walk lightly and freely.
Self-talking love is about devoted, sincere love, and desperate love, which is to love yourself.
It doesn't talk about deadlines, it doesn't talk about getting old.
What can grow old is not necessarily love.
In this film, there are several men who pursue and love Xiao Han, Xiao Han always remains sober, does not fall in love because of pity and gratitude, nor does he fall in love because of identity restrictions and wealth, the reason is that he can't fall in love. If you don't love, you don't love, this attitude is to love yourself.
That's it.
It's an attempt. Stories are used to express a view of love. Discuss with the reader, everyone has the right to express themselves.
I wish readers and friends a happy life and a successful career! (To be continued.) )
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