Chapter 32: Understanding
"You hate her?" Su Rui knew that Lu Fei had always known how to forbear.
"I know what you're trying to say." Lu Fei put away a smirk, "If you want me to pretend, the other party must at least be a person who can look at the past, and I really can't pretend to be friendly and sisterly to her." ”
"If you don't like it, stay away, don't embarrass yourself like this." And the person who hates him so much has to maintain face and smirk, for Su Rui, Lu Fei is difficult enough.
Even if the material world she had experienced was similar to her, in terms of the spiritual world, they were indeed not the same kind of people.
Lu Fei sighed, "If it's really like what you said, it is estimated that I can go to the Green Lantern Ancient Buddha for the rest of my life." ”
Su Rui enlightened her, "Then you also have to divide things to people, for example, last time, you were right to break the fruit tree and have the courage to take responsibility, and Director Lin embarrassed you, you obviously think he is narrow-minded, but you have to pretend to be very tolerant, I couldn't understand it for a while." Later, when I saw him slapping the table in front of my aunt in the office, I suddenly understood something. ”
Understand why Lin Liguo, an employee, dares not to take his boss seriously?
In the final analysis, it is a difference in the times.
Now is the era of the rise of intellectuals, and Lu Mu, as a leader, must have the mind of a leader, so she is strict with herself and lenient with others.
The people who are treated strictly are naturally her children, "There is a saying that 'the prime minister can tolerate the affairs of the world', I think this is how my aunt asks herself to teach you this, right?" As you once said to me, your world is not what you want, I think in an environment like yours, you have to do better than ordinary people, you have to be thorough, you have to take care of a lot, so you can't help yourself. So later, I can understand that your behavior of stopping the fault on yourself that day and swallowing all the dissatisfaction in your heart is not hypocrisy, but to let yourself learn to be tolerant, tolerance will not lose anything, on the contrary, you will really gain. ”
"That's what you think?" Lu Fei's eyes lit up slightly, she was always happy to be understood, she used to deal with a group of girls who almost lived with masks in the compound every day, but since she met the real and simple Su Rui, she would often have a sense of hypocrisy, especially when she said something wrong.
Lu Fei blushed a little when she said, "My mother did educate me like this, but I can't be truly tolerant and generous now, I can only pretend, so many times, I feel very tired and disgusted with my hypocrisy." When I first met ordinary you, because of my natural superiority, I dared to speak to you without any fear, and now that I think about it, you must think that I am arrogant and a nuisance, right? ”
Su Rui shook her head, "To tell you the truth, in the past, in order to protect myself, I also said things against my will, compared to your situation, it is even more unacceptable for me to flatter people I hate or even hate." ”
She remembered that when Liu Fengxian first beat her mind, she hypocritically said that she would live, although it was mixed with sarcasm, but in the end, it was also a loss of heart.
Lu Fei smiled, "Isn't that how to behave in the world. In fact, sometimes I envy you for living such a simple life without scruples. ”
"It's impossible for everyone to live a simple life without scruples, I just treat myself better within my ability and give myself more choices within the scope of what I can afford."
Su Rui thought of her own experience again, "What I said just now, the person I hated and flattered, was the hostess I lived in the countryside before, they took the living expenses given by my mother, but they didn't give me a full meal, and they still had me to work in the field on weekdays, I endured it for a long time, but the more I retreated, the more unscrupulous they hurt me, and finally I couldn't bear to resist, although I successfully got out of there, but I got myself bruised all over my body. Sometimes I think that if I had been tough at the beginning and let them know that I wasn't a bully, maybe I wouldn't have been hurt in the end. ”
After talking a little far, Su Rui said again: "The two things I said, in fact, have something in common, the initial forbearance and tolerance will always make those who take a step back suffer, but the results of the two things are different, the concession to Coach Lin is the leadership style of a strict self-lenient person, and tolerating people like Liu Fengxian is to hurt yourself again, and Yang Zhenzhen is for you, whether it is Director Lin or Liu Fengxian, it depends on your own judgment." ”
Lu Fei held her hand, "I understand what you mean, Yang Zhenzhen is certainly not a person who can help me realize my own value for me, and the closer I get to her, the more I will give her the opportunity to hurt me again." ”
Su Rui smiled and nodded, the friendship between women is so mysterious, and a few words have shortened the distance between each other.
But in all fairness, if she was in the position of Lu Mu and Lu Fei, she wouldn't necessarily do that.
She remembers that her father used to teach her that to be a good boss, you need not only to have a broad mind and know how to make good use of people. It is more important to appoint people on the basis of merit, and those who lack virtue and ability are in vain no matter how talented they are, and they may eventually let themselves go further and further because of a thought.
Dad was able to become a successful entrepreneur in that chaotic business environment, and he must have persevered for a reason.
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Because Su Rui was not familiar with the compound, Lu Fei was solely responsible for organizing and publicizing the task of going to the trial tour.
Today, she took two cans of apricot jam and some food to the military academy to visit Lu Feng in the car.
Hearing the little warrior's report that a girl came to him, Lu Feng originally walked very slowly, and saw the petite figure outside the yellow line from a distance, his body rushed out like an arrow off the string, and rushed to Su Rui in a moment.
Su Rui smiled and looked at him who was running out of breath, "Why are you running so fast, do you still have a time to see your family?" ”
When Lu Feng heard her claim to be a family member, his heart was hot, and he asked several questions in a row: "Why did you come here suddenly?" Why don't you call me in advance, doesn't the letter tell you the contact information? ”
He took the things in Su Rui's hand and held her little hand, unable to hide the joy in his heart.
The smile on the corner of Su Rui's mouth deepened, "I temporarily decided to go to the city with Lu Fei, and I came to see you by the way, so let's go." ”
"Let's go?" Lu Feng held her hand tighter, afraid that as soon as she let go, the person would be gone.
"Fool, lie to you!" Su Rui couldn't help laughing, "I wanted to surprise you, so I came directly." ”
Lu Feng pretended to be angry and snorted.
Because Lu Fei always said that she was boring, Su Rui wanted to tease him, how to say that she is also a young girl now, and she can't always live as a young woman.
Lu Feng snorted again, let go of her hand, and walked towards the school.
Su Rui trotted to catch up with him, and when he walked in front, she followed quietly, like a child who had done something wrong, and did not dare to provoke him again.
All the way to the dormitory, he put down his things and turned around, the corners of his mouth slightly curled.
Su Rui lowered her head, and was about to admit her mistake, when she was suddenly embraced by a pair of strong arms.