"You have to understand your father, your life has just begun, what about his? He's already halfway there, and he's been walking with guilt for your mother, can you help him unload this heavy backpack? ”

"In heaven, your mother must be happier now than she was five years ago, because she sees the ice between you and your father melting. Pen @ fun @ pavilion wWw. ｂｉｑUｇE。 info make her a little happier and support your father in his pursuit of Aunt Vanessa, okay? ”

"Take out the responsibilities and responsibilities that adults should have, let your dad look at you with admiration, and let him know that you are no longer the kid who can only play with his temper, okay?"

Little Harney looked at the sky as night fell, the lights came on, and the spring New Zealand night sky was bright and quiet.

Listening to Wang Bo's persuasion, Xiao Hani looked at the night sky with a blank expression on his face.

Seeing this, Wang Bo understood that he needed to add another fire, he drove to the church, and said, "Come on, this is the closest place to God, your mother is a devout believer, go and talk to your mother." ”

Godfather Rudy was cleaning up when he saw them come in and nodded, "Is there anything you need my help with?" ”

Wang Bo said: "Thank you, godfather, this child wants to go and talk to his mother in heaven, where should I go?" ”

Rudy took them to the statue of the Virgin Mary in the side room, and he put his hands on little Hani's shoulders and said, "Son, this is the mother of all of us, your mother is here, talk to him, tell her everything you want to say, and remember, God and your mother love you forever." ”

Little Hani's eyes were a little moist, and he said in a low mood: "Thank you, Godfather, please let me be quiet, thank you." ”

Wang Bo patted him on the shoulder, and then left with his godfather.

They sat down outside to chat, and Godfather Rudy said, "Another suffering soul saved by the Lord, Mayor Mare, you should be able to feel the mercy and glory of the Lord, when will you send your child to be baptized?" ”

In New Zealand, infant baptism is a sacrament of Christian initiation, whether it is actually received or baptized, and the child is considered a Christian after baptism.

Of course, doctrinally speaking, this is to wash away the sins of the child's past life and allow him to receive the Lord's forgiveness as soon as possible.

With regard to infant baptism, the New Canon Code provides that under normal circumstances, it is the duty of the parents to arrange for the baptism of a child within a few weeks of his birth.

However, if the baby is not healthy enough to be life-threatening after birth, he should be baptized immediately.

The doll has been born here for almost three months, and it has been more than ten weeks, and Wang Bo didn't bring him to baptism, which made the godfather very anxious: there are so many ungodly believers under his hands, and the business is not going well, he can't handle it on God's side.

Wang Bo coughed and said, "I personally oppose infant baptism, which will hinder the child's freedom." If he had been baptized, would not that have imposed on her the religious responsibility that the child might oppose in the future? Isn't this a bit against the human dignity of children? ”

Godfather Rudy said anxiously: "Why do you think so?" ”

Wang Bo waved his hand and said, "This is the truth, I think I should wait until my daughter reaches the age where she can make a free choice about her beliefs, and then let her be baptized." Until then, we parents and you as godfathers should stay out of the way, and it's best not to put pressure on her. ”

Godfather Rudy put aside his anxious mood, and he showed a harmless smile on his face and said, "Listen to me, King, do you know the instructions for infant baptism? This is a directive issued by the Congregation for the Doctrine of the Faith of the Holy See on October 20, 1980. ”

Wang Bo shook his head and said, "I'm sorry, I don't know. ”

"Let me tell you," continued the godfather, smiling, "that there is no such thing as pure human freedom, which is completely unaffected, and even at the level of nature, parents make choices for their children about the fundamentals of their lives and their future values. The so-called neutrality of the family towards the religious life of its children is in fact a negative choice, which is enough to deprive the children of the most necessary benefits. ”

Wang Bo translated: "Does it mean that in the choice of Christian liturgies, a neutral attitude is a negative attitude? Baptizing a child, the most necessary benefit of her life? ”

The godfather nodded with satisfaction, "Yes, you understand it correctly. ”

Wang Bodao: "But I don't understand very well, hey, the child came out, and my daughter's baptism will be discussed later." ”

Little Hani strode out, obviously he had just shed tears, and his eyes were a little red.

Godfather Rudy asked with concern, "Are you alright, my child?" ”

Little Hani smiled, "Thank you, godfather, I'm fine, I think I understand what my mother meant." ”

The two drove back, and on the way Wang Bo asked, "What do you think is your mother's attitude?" ”

"If she were still alive, she would surely scratch Lady Vanessa's face." Little Hani said.

"Huh?!" Lao Wang immediately stepped on the brakes, this horse was in vain?

Little Hani hurriedly added: "But she has gone to heaven, so I think she hopes that the old man and I can live happier, and if marrying Lady Vanessa can make him happier, then I am willing to bless him." ”

Wang Bo restarted, retracted his fist and said, "After finishing the words in the future, don't stop halfway, I almost hit the wrong person." ”

Little Hani: "......"

The next morning, Wang Bo took little Hani to the Salvation Army store after work, and Mrs. Vanessa was packing up some old clothes, mainly washed jeans, which she carefully labeled and hung on the shelves.

"Hi, ma'am." Wang Bo took the initiative to say hello.

Lady Vanessa smiled and said, "Good morning, Mayor Mare, hey, Carlisson, good morning too." ”

Little Harney's name is Carlisson, and Hani's name is Carlisle, and Carlison means Carlisle's son, which is a common way of naming in New Zealand.

Wang Bo looked at Xiao Hani, and said with a stiff smile on his face: "Aunt Vanessa, good morning, that's the case, I want to tell you one thing, my father didn't tell you about this matter, Mayor Wang told me that I should do it for him." ”

Vanessa led the two of them to a secluded corner and said, "What's the matter?" ”

Little Haney shrugged and said, "It's, well, my dad actually likes you a lot, Aunt Vanessa, and I'd love to see you and him together if you want." ”

Wang Bo smiled, good boy, well said.

Vanessa was stunned for a moment, then laughed and said, "You're a good son, Carlisson, I don't know what to say, I'm proud that Carlisle has a son like you." ”

"But," she said, "there are some things that no one else can do for you, and you have to do it yourself." But I am so grateful that you came to see me today and said these words to me, I know it is hard for you and I am grateful to you. (To be continued.) )