Chapter 536: What is Marriage

"Congratulations!" Cheng Wanyi smiled, "Our whole family can supervise you!" I hope you do what you say! ”

"Yes! Aunt Xiao! Lucifer replied.

"I'll do the rest!" Gu Yaluo reopened a bottle of champagne and poured it for his peers one by one.

Finally, everyone raised their glasses to congratulate Gu Yaluo and the two newcomers.

&*&

Lucifer is back, and Lu Jiangdan plans to return the house key to him.

"No!" Lucifer waved his hand and said, "I've been living in the new house for the past two days, and I'm tidying it up by the way." ”

After seeing off Lucifer, everyone dispersed.

"Luo'er, come up and let's talk." Lu Jiangdan took her hand and said.

"Good!"

&*&

The mother and daughter went back to the fourth floor, and Gu Yaluo brought two cups of water over and put them on the coffee table.

Gu Yaluo took a sip of the glass and chuckled, "Mom, what do you want to say?" ”

Lu Jiangdan put down the glass and looked at her lovingly, "Luo'er, most people in the world will get married. There is a kind of man who will feel at ease even if he doesn't do anything and just appears in your sight.

There is a kind of man who has very few words, but every word he says is a promise, and you never have to worry about being deceived by him.

There is a kind of man who will not take you into the world of drunkenness, vanity and luxury, and lust, but will give you a warm, stable, comfortable and happy nest.

Lucifer gave me that feeling, so I agreed. Lu Jiang Dan paused and continued, "You have received the best wishes and hopes from the whole family. But getting married doesn't mean you're happy. Isn't it now said that marriage is the grave of love? That's not without reason, it takes art to run a happy marriage well. ”

"Hmm!" Gu Yaluo replied simply. Mom's evaluation of him is quite high, and that guy doesn't know how much homework he has done.

Lu Jiangdan tapped his index finger on the armrest of the sofa, looked at her with clear eyes and said, "What does marriage mean?" Luo'er, here I want to talk about what I should do as a girl. If you look closely at the two solemn words 'marriage'. They all have the word 'female', and marriage is largely decided in the hands of women. ”

"Since ancient times, infatuated women have a negative heart! In a patriarchal society, how can marriage be decided in the hands of women. Gu Yaluo shook her head and smiled. There was a hint of sarcasm in his voice.

"Maybe you don't care about these two words, but be patient and listen to your mother's explanation!" Lu Jiangdan lovingly took her hand and said, "You have to love to get married." That is to say, because of love, you came together, and because of love, you got married. You tell me you love each other. Mom was very happy when she heard this. This is the basis of a happy marriage.

But Luo'er, there are still many problems that have no reason. Because of love, you have to learn to give silently for each other and don't ask why. Why do you think your aunt can cook by herself for decades, Luo'er, there is no reason. When the wife watched her husband gobble up the fragrant meal that his wife had cooked, she was very happy as a wife. Being able to do something for your lover is the most important thing. Don't ask why. We should be able to make our lover happy. ”

Lu Jiangdan smiled and said. "I knew that you would be dismissive and listen to my mother's explanation patiently: marriage requires girls to be able to remove the 'faint' and 'cause' next to the female character.

The word 'faint'. Luo'er, you may say, how can you live a muddy life? Luo'er, that's not what it means, 'faint', that is, you don't need to see it very clearly, very clearly. Aren't we yearning for a beautiful mirage? If we do get closer, we will be disappointed. At a distance, you will find that marriage is more beautiful. Didn't someone say that the happiest marriage is the perfect combination of a blind husband and a deaf wife? Although this is not a good thing to hear, it is very reasonable. Don't think about all the rights and wrongs very clearly, wrap the marriage in a hazy coat, giving people a feeling of 'faint', which is also the secret of a long-lasting marriage.

Of course, don't forget the word 'cause', everything has a cause to have an effect, and the premise is that the man is worthy of the woman to give up everything. If ......"

Lu Jiangdan said with some difficulty, "If it's not worth it, then swing the sword and cut the love silk, the short pain is better than the long pain." ”

Gu Yaluo looked at her uncomfortable appearance and held her hand with both hands, hoping to give her strength.

"Mom, aren't you alone? I didn't want to find a partner. Gu Yaluo looked at her quietly and said indifferently, "Or do you still have him in your heart?" Can't put it down? ”

Lu Jiangdan raised his eyes and looked at her and said very calmly, "It's long gone, I just want to live peacefully." That encounter consumed my whole life, and I no longer had the energy to deal with another relationship, maybe this is the fate of fate. "That's good, I can do whatever I want alone?" It's very comfortable! Man? She pouted disdainfully, "Okay, let's not talk about that." ”

Holding Gu Yaluo's hand with both hands, he said, "Luo'er, love is like a beautiful flower, I sincerely hope that the fruits of beautiful flowers are beautiful." When you are full of gray hair, go and pick the fruits you have planted with your heart. Mom, I wish you a happy marriage! ”

"I know." Gu Yaluo nodded and said, "Love may be different, but the way to manage marriage is not much the same. People who let go easily will never find beautiful legends, because marriage is a lifelong business. ”

"Lucifer is right, yours have really grown up." Lu Jiangdan hugged her shoulder with emotion and said.

&*&

Jiang Huifen sat on the bed, holding her chin with her hand and pondering, "Old man, did you say that kid had an intention!" ”

"Now that I think about it, it should be, right?" Lu Zhongfu scratched his chin and said.

"Do you think he has a pedophile?" Jiang Huifen said amazingly.

"Poof......" Lu Zhongfu cried and laughed, "What nonsense are you talking about?" Don't be cranky. ”

"Old man, we really have to move!" Jiang Huifen knelt in front of him and looked at him with burning eyes.

"Hmmm! It's not something you've been looking forward to for a long time, rejoice. Lu Zhongfu glanced at her and said.

"People are in good spirits when they are happy, don't you do this." The smile on Jiang Huifen's face reached the root of her ears.

And he said, "When you're in a good mood and when you're bad, is it the same expression?" Don't pick at every turn. Be kind at heart. ”

Looking at the old man's stunned appearance, Jiang Huifen smiled and said, "Old man, I think what Lucifer said is too right. Life is rare for seventy years, and I am almost seventy years old, so I will live in the future! I'm going to do what I want. ”

Lu Zhongfu was stunned for a moment when he heard this, and then he was really nervous, and then he thought, "Do you have it according to your own meaning?" I don't have any money, how do you live? Lu Zhongfu said on the ground.

Jiang Huifen suddenly got stuck as if she was pinching the neck of a duck.

"Hehe......" Lu Zhongfu smiled happily.

"Laugh, just keep laughing! I slept. Jiang Huifen turned over, turned off the lamp, and lay down.

"Angry?" Lu Zhongfu looked at Jiang Huifen who was lying down angrily and said with a smile.

"Who's to say it isn't? But what can be done? Although you are a problem, who makes me inseparable from you, this is my life! Jiang Huifen said with emotion.

"Old woman!" Lu Zhongfu grabbed her hand and said, "We both have to live a long life and have a good life." ”

"God has the final say, you don't count." Jiang Huifen waved his hand away and said, "It's hot, slimy." ”

&*&

"I'm so happy!" Lu Jiangzhou looked at Zhu Cuiyun happily.

"Of course, who is not happy to move to a new house!" Zhu Cuiyun grinned and said, "Dad, a mansion in the middle of the mountain!" Although it is not the top of the mountain, it is either rich or expensive to live in. It's all villas and other houses, and now we're going to live in a big house. ”

"When the house is big, you are not afraid of being tired of cleaning!" Lu Jiangzhou glanced at her and said.

Zhu Cuiyun was stunned for a moment, then waved her hand and said, "Don't be afraid, if you can live in a new house, even if you are tired, I am willing." ”

"Alas......"

"What are you sighing for?" Lu Jiangzhou looked at her and said.

"You are really, you are still a father, even the youngest snail is getting married, how old are Haoyi and Hao'er in our family." Zhu Cuiyun thought of Haoyi Hao'er, who was getting older and older, and she didn't have a good mood anymore.

"Haoyi is 28, and this Hao'er is also 26." Lu Jiangzhou thought for a while.

"Yes! Haoshan's children are more than three years old, and our Haoyi has never even received a girlfriend at home. Hao'er didn't talk about a boyfriend, what do you say about this? Let them go on a blind date and do nothing. Speaking of blind dates, Zhu Cuiyun's mood was even lower.

Looking at the passing of the years, they are getting older and older, and they are all about to become sick of their hearts.

"You say that they want to be talented and good-looking, why can't they succeed?" Zhu Cuiyun sighed.

Lu Jiangzhou said, "Aren't the two of them going to school? ”

"Yes! Is Haoyi studying for a PhD? Hao'er is also studying for graduate school. Zhu Cuiyun's anger didn't hit one place, "It's really going to school." ”

"No, I'll have to talk to both of them." Zhu Cuiyun said that the wind is the rain, got up and got out of bed.

"Okay, don't look at what time it is, I'll talk about it tomorrow." Lu Jiangzhou pulled her and said.

"As long as you protect them, his second uncle and uncle, and aunt introduce them to the two of them, and Haoyi will not be able to go out two or three times. Hao'er's girl didn't even go. Zhu Cuiyun said sadly, "Dad, what can I do!" ”

"Maybe it's because the marriage hasn't arrived!" Lu Jiangzhou said dryly.

Zhu Cuiyun patted his arm in horror and said, "Husband, did you say that Hao'er is still very afraid of getting along with men because of that incident!" ”

Frustrated, he said, "Ah! What can I do? ”

"Don't scare yourself." Lu Jiangzhou patted her hand and comforted, but no matter how you heard this voice, she was out of breath.

Zhu Cuiyun rolled over and got out of bed, pulled her slippers and knocked on Lu Haoer's room.

"Please come in!" Lu Hao'er, who was sitting at the desk, put down the pen in his hand, then stood up and turned around to see the man clearly, "Mom! It's so late and you don't sleep. Lu Hao'er looked at Zhu Cuiyun with an ugly face and said, "Mom, your face is not very good." (To be continued.) )

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