Extra: The right way to solve relationship problems in high school
readx; When we were in elementary school, we didn't understand anything, it seemed that as long as we ate and drank well every day, we could always be happy, there were a lot of friends, even if there was occasional friction, the worst case was to fight a cold war, I believe that in a few days, we returned to the way we were when we didn't quarrel; In junior high school, our adolescence is overflowing, one by one began to rebel, although some still listen to their parents, but I believe that the vast majority of people are still open, secretly a set, at this time, our circle of friends is much smaller, who has a good impression, who does not have a good impression, they rely on their own feelings to make friends, not at all like we are small, casually can mingle with many people, even an extremely simple piece of sugar, a popsicle can also become a small bond of friendship for us, And junior high school, not only in addition to making friends with their own feelings, but also absurdly developed the so-called love of junior high school students, that kind of love, but only too much affection for someone is not real love. Pen? Interesting? Pavilion wWw. biquge。 info It seems that some people disagree with me, but I do. After all, if you think about it, how long did you last in junior high school? The exception is a few people, because there are some people who are precocious, but only a few people.
When it comes to high school, everyone is more cautious in making friends, and some parents often warn their children not to contact those bad students in your class, and to have more contact with good students. I can understand this, but I don't agree. What makes a good student? What is a bad student? Is it just the results that make the decision? Of course, good grades are advantages, but bad grades cannot be said to be disadvantages. Although his grades are not good, his quality and living habits are good, so is he a bad boy? Lower the requirements, even if he doesn't study well and has bad living habits, but he still has advantages, but we don't see it. A person's good or bad is not something that can be judged easily. Therefore, it is still up to you to judge yourself when making friends.
As for feelings, I haven't thought much of this until now. But there are still some eyebrows. I remember that I was just a freshman in high school, and I thought I liked someone very much, so I thought about how to meet her every day, how to be alone with her, but after chasing her for five years, it was still a void... Think about my high school, self-harm, smoking, drinking, it seems like every shadow of her can appear. This situation is something I don't really advocate, and you must not be like me. You can treat your parents as your bosom friends, communicate with them more when you have something on your mind, don't feel unaccustomed, and communicate with your parents more can relieve psychological pressure. I believe that there must be many people like me, who are afraid that after telling my mother, their parents will criticize them and even beat them, so don't think so. Trust me, if you do, your parents will not only be happy to hear you tell your story, but they will even praise you and tell you what to do. I feel this very much. Otherwise, there are too many secrets in my heart, not only will I be depressed all day long, but even my parents will worry about us, and in the same way, learning in this state is absolutely unreliable.
High school is our best era, although every day is extremely busy, every day is constantly doing questions, endorsements, but we also made our own girlfriends and brothers, talk and laugh with them every day, this kind of life, when you get out of high school, there will not be too many opportunities to communicate, cherish it. The same is true for communicating with your parents, when you go to college, you will always find that you are always thinking about something around you, always thinking about the delicious meal cooked by your mother or father, or even a simple bowl of instant noodles. So, don't waste the opportunity in front of you, and boldly tell your parents those secrets that are hidden deep in your heart, so that they can feel some comfort. For these feelings, I just want to say, don't deliberately hide him, but go with the flow, hiding and tucking will only make your life full of gray, and there will be no gorgeous world.
Xiao Yu has said this, and the rest needs to be understood by himself.