0163 Mask
"Have you heard of the Law of 262?"
“…… What is it? Li Junhan was stunned, he knew a lot about the law, and he didn't seem to have heard of this.
"That is, 20% of the people in the world, no matter what you do, they will support you unconditionally and like you, 60% of people will decide their attitude according to your behavior, and 20% of people will sneer at you, even attack, and abuse you no matter what you do......" the boss explained.
"That's the 20%?"
"Yes, people who don't like you, no matter what you do, they don't like you either." The boss nodded, "There's no way around it." ”
"Then why should I care about them?" Li Junhan was stunned for a moment, he couldn't grasp the boss's train of thought.
"The problem now is that it seems to be more than 20%......"
"So boss, you're saying I'm pushing the 60% to the other side now?"
"Yes. You can't help others if they don't like you, but you can make others not hate you. The boss continued, "At least don't give someone a handle. ”
"What do you mean? I'm just doing the show......"
"There are many kinds of effects, and it doesn't have to be that way, right?"
"......" Li Junhan could only nod, this can't open his eyes and say nonsense.
"So, these people are scolding you, and the scolding is very reasonable, right?"
"What makes sense!" Li Junhan said curtly.
I can't argue with that...... What role do you want to tell them about yourself? Please, will anyone listen?
"Because there are these people who hate you, they are likely to be the ones who are idle and bored every day, hanging out on the Internet, and venting their frustrations by attacking others." The boss continued, "Maybe they haven't watched your show at all, and they haven't understood you, just because someone said so, so they were angry, starting from the righteousness, and the righteousness was ......strict."
"Is this righteous?"
"Don't understand the rules, don't respect your seniors, don't count?"
Li Junhan lowered his head, this pot, he carried it, but he was not convinced.
"You may have this time to talk to these one by one, it may be because you don't pass the job interview and are unemployed at home, or because you work in a small company, facing the pressure of enterprise closure and unemployment, or even simply can't find a job, you can only rely on your parents to support yourself, and look at the world There are wrong people to explain, oh, I'm not that kind of person...... Do you do it? The boss asked with a smile.
Li Junhan shook his head.
No time, no interest.
"So, you need your fans." The boss gave the final answer. "They're going to fight for you. When you are doing the right thing, you can confidently announce it to the world, and when you do something wrong, you will explain it to you with a dead face...... Now you understand what's going on today, right? ”
Although Li Junhan doesn't like the word dead skin and face very much, this word describes this situation very appropriately.
Li Junhan also laughed helplessly and nodded.
You can do your own thing, on your own terms. So, you have to be able to afford to be scolded.
Because people who hate you, even those who don't say they hate you, just don't like you, as long as they want to, they can always find a reason to scold you.
It's like an event on a variety show, although everyone knows that it's just a variety show, but your performance in it can also provide ammunition for people who want to find fault with you.
"You must be a rude person!" Even if it's just for the effect of variety shows, it's just a "no big and no small time" in variety shows......
"You must just look at our OPPA as popular as you!" may be like Lee Junhan who lost Lee Seung Gi a water balloon according to the requirements of the game in the show......
This kind of thing is unavoidable.
Because in variety shows, there are many times when the audience is to see the people who appear on TV make a fool of themselves. That's why there are funny artists, they are so crazy to pretend to be ugly, in order to satisfy the audience's mentality?
That's why there are so many actors who are so resistant to being on variety shows, right?
Li Junhan finally understood why the boss was boasting about himself when he received Luo Yingshi's invitation to join the two-day and one-night program group, and why was he not as stubborn as other actors......
But I want to appear in variety shows, bring laughter to everyone, want to do things according to my own personality and wash well, and be a man, but I don't want to be scolded so much, what should I do? Count on your own fans! So, today there was a fan meeting here that didn't talk like that, for the sake of the 20%.
But 20 against 80, no matter how fanatical they are, they will not have any chance of winning. Only by making this ratio 80 to 20 will they have the ** and motivation to fight.
After all, no one wants to be a loser. And who does this number change?
Look at yourself.
Be honest, do less and make fewer mistakes. Put yourself up and don't express too much of your emotions.
Do what others do.
Strive to be a person who no one else can find fault with.
In this way, as the boss said, be a way to make people who don't like you not hate you.
Or rather, a smart look.
It's just that it's going to be tiring for sure. There is one such example around Li Junhan.
Lee Seung Gi.
It seems that since his debut, he has been superimposed with various halos.
It is claimed that there is no anti-anti.
Even Liu Zaishi, who has no anti existence in the real sense, doesn't dare to claim it, but in the news media and various entertainment reports, Lee Seung-gi's incident seems to be always mentioned intentionally or unintentionally.
Such a life will naturally be tiring.
Li Junhan can see that in the recording of "Two Days and One Night", Li Junhan can lose his temper when he is in a bad mood and be lazy when he feels tired, but Lee Seung-gi does not dare.
He has always had to maintain his image.
Even if his current image is positioned by Jiang Hudong to the feeling that he can't do anything, he has to try to convince the audience that he himself is actually a very reliable person, although he can't do anything, but he is very serious.
This comes at a very high cost.
Lee Junhan seriously thought about it, if he positioned himself in the role of Lee Seung Gi, it was estimated that he would soon give up on himself and become a real wastewood......
"Do you know what maturity is?" The boss looked at Li Junhan, who was silently wandering out of the world, and finally said another word.
"Mature?" Li Junhan was stunned for a moment, and then smiled bitterly. I'm about to be twenty-six, and I'm actually asked such a question.
"Learning to live with a mask on is maturity." The boss asked himself, "Do you know what sophistication is?" ”
“……”
"It's about knowing when you can take off your mask and live." The boss was still talking to himself. "Do you know what it means to be comfortable?"
“……”
"It's just that I forgot if I was still wearing a mask."