"Before we go out, shouldn't we mother and daughter have a good talk?" Cheng's mother watched her daughter, who had her back to her, throw the towel onto the table.

Cheng Wanyi turned on the faucet and washed her hands, turned around and said, "Okay then!" "She didn't want to go on like this forever, she really had to wait until her mother agreed to her marriage, and when.

The one-month consideration period should be enough, but I really don't agree, so I have to let grandpa and grandma come forward.

Cheng Wanyi went back to the room and changed into clothes for going out, wearing a bright blue floral bubble short-sleeved waist, a slim chiffon print dress, and an expressionless and elegant sitting on the sofa opposite Cheng's mother.

Cheng's mother spoke first, "We are mother and daughter, do we have to be like this for an irrelevant man?" Seeing Cheng Wanyi's excited expression, she raised her hand and said, "Listen to me first, I shouldn't be emotionally attached to you, I feel very ashamed." ”

When Cheng Wanyi heard this, she tightened her cheeks, and said embarrassedly, "No, I understand my mother." ”

"Of course, this contains my hope for you, my mother's dream has not come true, I hope you will complete it." Cheng's mother continued, "I think that parents, hope that their son will become a dragon and their daughter will become a phoenix, this should not be condemned, right?" ”

Cheng Mu looked at her silently, pointed to herself, and said, "Wanyi, look at me." I'll talk about myself. Is this how my mother's personality turned out! The nagging every day is endless, and sometimes he even says something against his will, just like you said with a double personality. obviously doesn't like it, but you have to pretend to greet it with a smile. That's what you've seen. She paused and continued, "Do you think that's what Mommy is?" ”

"Didn't you say it had changed?" Cheng Wanyi said dryly.

"Hehe...... Cheng Mu smiled bitterly, "Change, it's not an ordinary change." I don't even know myself anymore, I can't believe it, I can't believe it, I've become like this. You don't know, your deceased grandmother and grandfather, your current uncle and aunt, they see me become like this, I don't know how distressed and sorry I should be! She took a deep breath and continued. Compared to the past, I am not normal now. You may not believe it, but my original personality was very quiet and gentle. ”

"Hehe......" Cheng Mu looked at her chuckling and said with a wry smile. Don't believe it, I can't help it if you laugh at me. She continued, "I like the meekness of character, and later married your father, and is old. There is a small one below, serving a large family. Everyone has become like this, why should they change! If it didn't change, Mom might go crazy, Mom didn't dare to say no to Ben! Even once, my mother didn't dare to say her opinion, and she had to look at other people's eyes all the time, if I insisted on my own character. "Not only will you go crazy, but you'll also make others uncomfortable." I had to grit my teeth. I changed myself and became what I am now. I also often feel confused from time to time, isn't this me, the nagging every day, the hippie smiling face, as if wearing a mask, is this me? Where did I go? She said sadly, "Where am I, of course, no matter what kind of marriage will make some changes for women." There is always one side to sacrifice, and women are at a disadvantage, this is a reality of society, and I am an extreme example. ”

Cheng Mu said with a smile. "Do you know what the marriage I envision looks like? In a picturesque, beautiful, clean and beautiful house, there is a very well-behaved baby, listening to music, reading books, and listening to music and enjoying the rain with him on a drizzly night. I myself loathed myself. How could I be inconsistent and unrecognizable! ”

Cheng Wanyi pursed her lower lip and said, "A girl's dream is just a dream, and reality is cruel to everyone, mother." Willing, willing to have to give, to have to give. Although my mother's marriage revolves around us every day, my father loves you, my grandfather and grandmother respect you, and my children are filial. You are just as successful. ”

"You must study! Don't live like your mom. Cheng Mu said tirelessly. Study hard and fulfill your mother's unfinished dream. She pointed to herself and said, "Don't be like me, throwing yourself into the crucible of marriage, and finally turning into a wisp of green smoke and nothing." ”

Cheng's mother continued, "There are also some of my mother's friends who are getting ahead, and they just look different from my mother. So confident and chic, so dignified and elegant, as if with a kind of aura. Whenever you meet them, you know that your mother always feels inferior and can't hold her head up. I only know that I live at home, revolving around the oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and gas stove, and I can't talk to them anymore. Mom wants to die, do you want to be like me? Even if I beg you, don't be like me, okay? That's not your life. If you are like your sister Wanting who has a bad mind and goes to work after graduating from college, I won't force you. ”

He added, "But you are different, you have brains, thoughts, and you can have a more brilliant life after completion, how can you be an ordinary woman!" ”

"Mom! Why don't you ask your friends if they would like to live what you call a successful life? Cheng Wanyi paused for a moment and continued, "Mom, didn't you notice that your successful friends, an old and decent woman, with a halo of success, sat next to you impassionedly, 'Although I have no children and no family, I have a career...... It sounds desirable, but behind it! It was a lonely old age, and when I came home, I was faced with the coldness of a room, without the slightest temperature. Do you know how she felt? ”

When Cheng's mother heard this, she said stiffly, "How do you know that they regret it!" You're not a roundworm in their stomachs. With tears in his eyes, he choked up, "I feel sorry for you, I can't stand the distress." ”

"Mom, I'm nothing special, just a woman." Cheng Wanyi said helplessly.

"No, you're special." Cheng's mother said stubbornly, "Look at the eight characters of the birthday, the fortune teller also said that you will definitely succeed, and you are destined." You're going to make it, you're going to make it. ”

"You believe that." Cheng Wanyi couldn't laugh or cry, her mother really tried her best to persuade her, and even used the words of a charlatan.

"The Master said that your marriage will be difficult, very rare. Because you have a stubborn character, you don't have the stubborn temper of the Yellow River. Do you want me to watch you two fight every day? Say that you will not marry an older man who can tolerate you, and you will not find your true destiny until you are in your thirties. This is the first time I have told you that you should not give up on your studies no matter what, so as to leave yourself a way out. ”

"Mom, are you so optimistic about my marriage? We are not eighteen or twenty. We're all twenty-eight and know what kind of life we want. Cheng Wanyi smiled bitterly, and even said the words of retreat, really.

"Persuade that man to let her agree to continue your studies after you get married, otherwise you will resolutely bite the bullet and not marry him." Cheng's mother persuaded her bitterly, looked at her and said angrily, "You girl, did you listen to my words?" What do you mean by turning your head. ”

Cheng Wanyi turned her head to face her and said, "Mom, I have already told you, I have made up my mind to pay attention, and I chose him between marriage and him." I haven't heard much of these words in the past month or so! Repeat, repeat, isn't it interesting? ”

And he said, "I'm a woman, not a man." I just want to get married, I don't want to glorify my ancestors, as long as I'm happy. ”

"Do you do laundry, cook, clean the house, and have children all day?" Cheng's mother talked about the lifestyle of women after marriage for thousands of years.

"Mom, what's the matter, women don't all come over like this, and this kind of life is also beautiful." Cheng Wanyi argued.

"Wonderful?" Cheng's mother sneered.

"What's wrong with serving your loved ones wholeheartedly, and does it make sense to do something spectacular?" Cheng Wanyi said.

"In addition to these things you can do, you can take on another responsibility to society, don't just think about your small family." Cheng Mu raised her voice.

"Mom, run my little family well, this is the most basic contribution to society." Cheng Wanyi said sincerely, "It is precisely because of your most faithful contribution to society, Mom, that if all housewives learn from you, there will be hope for society." Serving the elderly wholeheartedly is a virtuous helper to her husband, so that he can have no worries and work hard in society; Isn't it good enough to raise children to be useful! Isn't there no meaning and value in such a life? ”

"Are we going to continue arguing like this?" Cheng's mother rubbed her fingers and said, "Promise me, if you don't get married, he is a feudal old antique and not worth it." ”

"No, I'm getting married."

"Then I firmly oppose it."

"Mom, you're against me getting married."

"I don't want to see you again in my life, you bad girl." Cheng's mother raised her eyes viciously and said, "I don't want to ...... for the rest of my life."

"Whatever you want, Mom!" Cheng Wanyi had an indifferent attitude.

"What?" Cheng's mother couldn't believe it and asked sadly.

"Whatever you want, what can I do." Cheng Wanyi said resolutely.

Cheng's mother trembled, with tears in her eyes, she couldn't believe that this was her baby daughter who had been holding her in the palm of her hand for nearly thirty years, and she didn't even want her mother for a stinky man.

"Mom, can I go?" Cheng Wanyi stood up and said.

"Even getting married is on his own, and he goes out to ask for instructions." Cheng Mu sneered. She cried, "I don't know where you are obsessed with him, you actually treat me like this, and you have such an attitude towards my mother." "What did I do wrong?" she asked, "What did I do wrong?" What did I do wrong, and I fell to this point, you can tell me, where is Mom sorry for you. ”

Cheng Wanyi sat down again, her eyes red and said, "Mom, I didn't do anything wrong." ”

"No, Mom must have done something wrong?" Cheng Mu pointed to herself and said, "I spoiled you, how could it be like this, like this." (To be continued.) )

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