Chapter 02: The Stubborn Man
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The pen was on the paper, and with a slight stroke, Feng Changxiang was using the most concise language to outline such a character trait as Mu Linshen: flamboyant, rebellious, paranoid, and willful.
All the rich second generations outside of the rich and jade, these personalities are common, but the problems that arise from these personalities are varied.
After thinking for a moment, he glanced at Mu Qingchen, and casually added two more words: inertia and dependence.
With such a father, it is difficult to be industrious, and it is impossible not to rely on it.
It seems that these are not enough to accurately describe Mu Qingchen's wonderful son, Dr. Feng thought about it, and added: deformed psychological development and lack of self-experience.
He uses the characteristics outlined to reverse Mu Linshen's growth: falling out of love, single-parent family, his father is busy with business, and he has a new love, which should be the root of his rebellion, paranoia, and maverick, and his inner loneliness and dependence always prompt him to do alternative things to attract the attention of those around him.
Contrary to what he expected, it did not attract the attention he expected, but let him find a sense of existence in those behaviors that were outside the constraints, but this father who cared too much also provided him with favorable conditions, so that he could release the willfulness in his heart as he wanted.
Feng Changxiang put down the pen, and when he raised his eyes, Mu Qingchen was looking at him expectantly, and said tremblingly: "Doctor Feng, Lao Wu introduced me here, you can give me a solution, he is about to drive me crazy." ”
"Your son Mu Linshen has been back to China for half a year, what do you do, I mean, for your son." Dr. Feng asked curiously, but did not say anything directly.
"It's hard to meet, and now I regret it, I really shouldn't send him out of the country." Lao Mu said depressedly, he explained that after staying in different countries for several years, the father and son were already strangers except for the title, and the only relationship link was one thing left.
Doctor Feng blurted out this matter: "I want money." ”
It was an affirmative tone, and Mu Qingchen also nodded in approval: "Yes, he won't do anything else except spend money, he changes his clothes three times a day, he is more diligent than a woman when he goes shopping, he plays with literature, mobile phones, watches, handbags, he can pull half a car, and then it's just clubbing, changing girlfriends is almost as diligent as changing clothes, it's strange that people come back from studying abroad, and he brings back a problem." ”
"Have you ever tried to restrict him financially?" asked Dr. Fung.
"I control it, as soon as I control it, he will figure out his own way, either drive my car out and mortgage it, or borrow money under my banner, and someone will come to the door when I turn around, I can't afford to lose that person with him." Mu Qingchen wanted to cry without tears.
He said that less than half a year after he came back, almost all the people who put small loans and loan sharks in the city knew his son, and his son borrowed money, and Lao Tzu repaid the debt, which is not natural, with such a big business as Lao Tzu, those creditors are not all rushing to give money, and they can't control it at all.
Feng Changxiang smiled, and asked tentatively: "I heard Lao Wu say, have you found other psychiatrists?"
"I'm looking for it, I'll tell you the truth, I found three people before and after, the first one is East China Medical University, I saw it once, this psychiatrist was my son with a psychological disorder, dead or alive, it seems that the doctor is gay, my unlucky son can see at a glance that the second place is not as good as the first, not two days later, I was fooled by my son to a nightclub, he has a family conflict, the third hey" Lao Mu seemed to have an unspeakable hidden, sighing, pouting, patting his thighs.
"Oh, that's a bit interesting, what's going on" Dr. Feng was curious, it was possible that he couldn't cure this problem, but it was unbelievable to be found out of the problem. Wind and rain novels
Lao Mu lowered his voice and said: "The third one is a woman, I don't know who hooked up with whom, anyway, I consulted this rabbit cub on the bed, what kind of woman can't be found, find a divorced young woman." ”
Look at this father, as if he had done something ugly that he would see, his face flushed and his eyes were dark and ashamed.
Snort, Dr. Feng chuckled, and quickly covered it up, regardless of his son's stubbornness or Lao Tzu's helplessness, it looked completely ridiculous at this time, he drew marks at random under all the given characteristics, there was no question of which was more important, but the same severity, this hard-working father had successfully cultivated a bad boy into a bad all-rounder.
So what about the solution
Mu Qingchen looked at Dr. Feng, with his businessman's eye, he always felt that this psychiatrist was different from other so-called experts, first talked eloquently, saying all the terms he didn't understand, and then he would be like his bad son, there was only one thing left: asking for money
He secretly felt that this should be a person with real talent and learning. At least the kind that can give him some correct advice, thinking of this, he quietly took out his pocket, took out a written check in the long wallet, got up cautiously, and put it in front of the doctor, this action startled Feng Changxiang, who was contemplative, and then what he saw made him can't help but laugh, he smiled and took it in his hand and said: "If this money can solve the problem, then the problem will not be so serious." ”
"How much does that need" Lao Mu's heart was cold, and the usual mentality of businessmen was afraid of sitting on the ground and starting the price.
"Money is the root of the problem, but it's not the solution, or so to speak, the root of the problem is not your son." Feng Changxiang seemed to have made up his mind and said.
"Can that still be on me," Mu Qingchen wondered.
"That's right, don't get excited about you, listen to me calmly." Dr. Feng waved his hand and comforted Boss Mu, who was so frightened that he got up from his seat, that he thought:
"There are many factors in the formation of a person's character, and the key ones are as follows: the influence of parents, the influence of the environment, and the influence of education. Or have the opposite effect, making him become stubborn, extreme, broken jars, in his subconscious, he will infinitely magnify his own misfortune, this psychological difference, can not be made up for by money. ”
"I know, so I've been doubling down on him." Mu Qingchen was embarrassed.
"But you used the wrong way, he kept learning badly, kept causing trouble, and kept challenging the bottom limit, to a certain extent, it should be expected to be your love, I can judge, you have never beaten him since you were a child, or, you have rarely scolded," Dr. Feng asked.
"How is it possible, how can I do it" Mu Qingchen suddenly became sad again.
"Your ignorance and protection are not love, but connivance. So, you're missing out on the best educational opportunities, and you're missing out on the best networking opportunities. Doctor Feng said, "You love your son very much, but you are like a murderer." ”
The answer was a long sigh, and Lao Mu lowered his head. How can you not understand the truth?
"Ten years ago, you treated a minor the same way you treated an adult, providing him with enough money, providing him with relaxed and free conditions, allowing him to play as much as he wanted, and not caring about his psychological problems at all; Ten years later, you want to treat an adult in the same way you treat minors, and you want to find a psychiatrist to enlighten him, so that he can learn to be self-reliant, know how to live, and cherish his family, do you think it is possible?" asked Dr. Feng.
By the way, raw rice is ripe rice, rotten wood is dregs, and it doesn't help to say anything.
As Dr. Feng explained: "What a psychiatrist can solve is a psychological obstacle, but there is no obstacle to what your son does to him, and after you have cultivated him with countless money, he has learned to enjoy it, which is not a category that a psychiatrist can solve." ”
"Then there is no way?"
Mu Qingchen raised his head and asked very sadly, he stared at Doctor Feng, and said gloomily: "Doctor Feng, I don't have high requirements, he can talk about Chengdu like an ordinary person in this life, three poor and three rich are not enough, I will close my eyes one day, I am afraid that he will not be able to hold on for three or five years." ”
Doctor Feng looked at him as if he was scrutinizing, and it took a long time before he whispered a word: "Yes"
"Ah" Lao Mu was surprised and blurted out: "You say, I am willing to spend as much as you want." ”
"No, don't get me wrong, I have to solve your problem first, and if you want him to change, you have to change first." Doctor Feng said, handed over a stack of thin printer paper, when Mu Qingchen looked through it, he reminded: "This is an uncertain plan, originally I thought the drug was a bit fierce, but after listening to you, I think it is quite suitable The solution is very simple, this is the disease of wealth, find a way to take his wealth away, the disease will naturally disappear, and the best opportunity for his character formation has been missed, so he can only artificially create such an environment." ”
Mu Qingchen didn't seem to hear it, he read a page and shouted in surprise: "Ah use hypnosis"
"Yes, to find out the deepest things in his memory, those beautiful things, and deepen the memory, I believe that human nature is good, but the external environment has made him like this." Dr. Feng said, more specifically, of course he will not talk about.
"Ah, if you want to lock it up, I can't see it," Mu Qingchen shouted in surprise again.
"You are the root of his illness, if you don't get rid of you, he will still be sick." Dr. Fung said.
"Then how can he not even cook instant noodles himself, in case there is something to do, he doesn't let me know where it is, who will take care of it" Mu Qingchen said emotionally, and when he looked at the expressionless Doctor Feng several times, he was a little angry, and chattered: "It's not your son who dares to love, you don't feel distressed, how can you educate you to say it, you need to invite someone or something, I'll spend money to invite it, if something happens, who's it?"
He complained, but Feng Changxiang smiled, and Mu Qingchen felt that something was wrong, he took this plan stupidly, and stammered, Dr. Feng reminded with a smile: "Then, that's it, you can't make up your mind yourself, how can you expect your son to repent?"
"But these are two different things, I haven't heard that locking up people is poisonous and not eating children, how can you let your father make this determination" Lao Mu said distressedly.
"Do you mind restricting his freedom of movement It seems to me that sooner or later his trend will also be locked up, and one day it will develop to the point where you can't settle it with money." Feng Changxiang said, this sentence is not polite at all, he handed the check back, Lao Mu continued, but he didn't know what to say, his lips were tied to the cheque, Doctor Feng smiled and said: "You're welcome, you can go, I'm just when you haven't come." ”
This old man was embarrassed to hold the check, hesitating at both ends, and his determination was difficult, just like facing his son who was in trouble, he was really ruthless and killed his relatives, and there were a few fathers who could do it He closed his eyes in pain, his lips were bitten white, and he didn't make this decision in the end.
Doctor Feng didn't say anything more, he didn't even take a step when Lao Mu got up to leave, and when he heard the sound of the door closing, the smile on his face was a little playful and helpless, and he threw aside the old plan text.
This is a targeted treatment plan for abnormal behavior caused by external stimuli, which he once made after summarizing a lot of clinical experience in a psychiatric hospital, and the implementation effect is unknown, because the family members who saw the program were scared away like Boss Mu.
By the way, many people know that Feng Changxiang was formerly the attending husband of a psychiatric hospital, and his original unit was:
Weinan Psychiatric Hospital