Chapter 489: Introspection
Lu Jiangfan listened to Chen Annie's nagging self-reflection, "The reflection is deep enough!" Hope you can really do it. ”
"Of course, of course." Chen Annie nodded hurriedly, raised her hand and promised, "In the future, Chen Annie will resolutely implement the principle that men are the sky, women are the earth, and the husband is the sky." ”
Lu Jiangfan looked at her and shook his head and smiled, "It's not too early, I should go, let's talk about something in the evening!" ”
Chen Annie sent Lu Jiangfan away, cheered up and cleaned up the table, although Xiao Wu's matter has not passed, but at least her husband is fine.
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In the evening, there was a shower in the sky, which swept away the heat of the day and suddenly cooled down.
Lu Jiangfan carried his briefcase and went directly to the rooftop house.
"Jiang Fan came back so early!" Lu Zhongfu beckoned, "Come and sit." ”
"Second uncle!" Gu Yaluo put down the green tea in his hand, turned around and took a teacup and sat down cross-legged, holding the pot in his hand and pouring tea for Lu Jiangfan.
"How can Dad have the leisure to come up?" Lu Jiangfan sat cross-legged on the cool bamboo mat and asked softly.
"Oh! Isn't it raining just now that the tea restaurant is not busy, so I came up to rest, isn't this at your request? Lu Zhongfu teased, picked up the teacup and took a sip, "I didn't put this briefcase, you didn't come up before you went home." ”
"Hmm!" Lu Jiangfan turned the teacup and said casually, "It's still early, come up and sit down." He raised his eyes and said, "Dad, how about we have two drinks?" ”
Gu Yaluo stood up and said, "I'll go get the wine." ”
"Don't bother with the women, what's in the fridge here? Just cut two apples and you're done. Lu Zhongfu waved his hand.
"What to drink?" Gu Yaluo asked.
"Grab two beers." Lu Zhongfu said.
"Why don't you have a drink!" Gu Yaluo took out two apples and two cans of beer from the refrigerator. Poured into a glass.
"It's okay to drink as much as I can, but I don't like to drink." Lu Zhongfu pushed away the empty teacup in front of him and said.
"What?" Gu Yaluo raised her eyebrows and said.
"I hate the way I get drunk." Lu Zhongfu said in a deep voice.
"Hehe......" Gu Yaluo pursed her lips and smiled, no wonder she drinks every time she eats and drinks. The men of the Lu family were just drinking.
"But people! Get drunk when you should be drunk, and shake when you should shake. Lu Jiangfan suddenly sighed, "It's not interesting to live seriously?
Lu Zhongfu looked at him calmly in surprise, "I do." ”
"Got it!" Lu Jiangfan sat down and bowed his head in response.
"Put away those exhortations in front of me, I've been like this all my life, and I don't plan to change my lifestyle." Lu Zhongfu said stiffly.
"Eat apples!" Gu Yaluo peeled the apple and shook her wrist. The apples are placed on a plate and at once they are separated like petals.
Lu Zhongfu was surprised, "Luo'er's knife work is good!" ”
"Hehe...... Gu Yaluo handed the fork to the two.
Lu Jiangfan took a bite of the apple with a fork. He took another sip of beer and said, "Dad, because of your good education, I am very confident that I have never failed once in self-cultivation, and I will do it seriously." to this society. Although I didn't make much contribution, I didn't do anything bad, although I didn't do business, but in this financial war, I tried my best to do my best, recovered a lot of losses, and only took my share. The family is also well organized, and he has never asked his wife to borrow a single yuan. I didn't let the kids go hungry......"
"Haha......" Gu Yaluo snorted, "Why did the second uncle suddenly sigh so much!" "The conversation changed." The philosophy of my grandfather and second uncle is worth recommending. Unlike some people, it is good to be able to manage their own home, but for society, it is dispensable and inactive. But the two of you, who have been diligent and thrifty for so many years, have done something meaningful to the society. What an example! How can you be presumptuous! ”
Lu Jiangfan glanced at Gu Yaluo meaningfully, why did I say that, would you not know?
Gu Yaluo shrunk her neck and smiled.
"What are you talking about?" Lu Zhongfu looked at him and said, "You did a good job, and what Luo'er said is also right!" ”
Lu Jiangfan took a sip of wine and said, "However, I feel that the times are changing, in this family, we men are happy, and everyone else seems to be suppressed. "It seems to be for me." ”
Lu Zhongfu looked him up and down, "You're not sick, are you?" Why did Haoshan's mother rebel. ”
"Dad, what did you say? They dare! Lu Jiangfan rubbed his cup and said, "I just want to be like a happy family?" Isn't it satisfying family members in a luxurious material life? It's better that we lose our authority as the head of the family! You can get it. ”
"That doesn't seem right!" Gu Yaluo's eyes flashed slightly, and it seemed that the second uncle was seriously reviewing his behavior, but it sounded awkward, so he said, "How can you one-sidedly emphasize the luxurious material life." ”
"That is, there must be a cheerful and good wife in the family, I want to figure it out." Lu Jiangfan continued.
"Jiang Fan is not right to think like this, Si Chen, only the family." Lu Zhongfu immediately said.
"Dad, we're just discussing, and I want to find a way to make the whole family, including me, happy." Lu Jiangfan hurriedly said.
"Listening to what you mean, you still want to give up the authority of the head of the family and practice some kind of democracy." Lu Zhongfu suppressed his anger and said, "What bullshit democracy and freedom, that is, it makes people lawless and arbitrary, and there is no difference between the elder and the young. As the saying goes: no rules, no rules. ”
"Grandpa, for a person who is used to being controlled, maybe he sees democracy as lawless, right?" Gu Yaluo looked at Lu Zhongfu and said, "But after all, people have their own personality, independent personality and thoughts, and sometimes we must respect them." ”
"Let the wife be in charge, the man is the wife slave, and the wife speaks ten sentences, and does not dare to refute even a word, so that a man who is the head of the family is like a fool." Lu Zhongfu pouted and said, he absolutely defended his position as a man and the head of the man's family.
"Grandpa, please change your perspective. You can't put full freedom of speech and criticize for nothing. What is home, a man and a woman form a family. Even if you don't accept it, as a member of the family, you should have to say what you think! Gu Yaluo retorted in a low voice.
"A family where women say more than men are lawless families." Lu Zhongfu glared and said, "Women are always nagging. ”
"Grandpa, are you disgusted with grandma?" Gu Yaluo smiled maliciously, "You can enjoy your wife's voice as beautiful melodic music!" Physiologically, generally speaking, women talk a little more than men, don't they? But as a man. This should be acknowledged and respected generously. With a small face, he said solemnly. You can't use men's superiority to suppress us women, although we can't be completely equal between men and women, but women must also have the right to express their opinions. ”
Rome wasn't built in a day, it had to be built slowly.
"Oh! We have a women's rights defender in our family. Lu Zhongfu looked at her and quipped. He asked again with interest. "What should a woman do, she is unrestrained at home, and she spends all day long."
"No, no...... Grandpa you should feel that this is a woman who pleases herself, a woman no matter what age, cherishes her beauty, don't you think she is cute? Gu Yaluo immediately retorted, "Do you like your grandmother to be unkempt?" ”
"According to Luo'er, should I allow you to wear miniskirts! Exposed white thighs. It just dangled in front of my eyes. Lu Zhongfu asked again with a beer in his hand, and the words fell. He took a sip and said, "Do you think that's right?" ”
"Grandpa, we are at a good age, and we are trendy young people, and we wear our favorite clothes at home, why should we object? This is a guarantee of freedom. Gu Yaluo looked at the old man and turned his head in disgust, and continued, "Men should be more tolerant, not the slightest dissatisfaction, they should be filial to the elderly, and if they need to love their wives, they should be loved." Children like freedom, so give them freedom. Repression can lead to misfortune for those who are oppressed, because people want to be free, and no one likes to be oppressed. ”
"This is using sophistry to cover up a man's incompetence, self-cultivation and family, even the family is not well governed, and letting the wife and children climb on their heads to and pee, which is a manifestation of cowardice and incompetence." Lu Zhongfu criticized directly and unceremoniously.
"Dad, this should be considered a sign of love for them." Lu Jiangfan said loudly.
"No, it's the head of an incompetent family." Lu Zhongfu said insistically.
"As long as the family can be happy, incompetence is understandable." Gu Yaluo blinked and pursed her lips and smiled.
"Why do you want to live a luxurious and luxurious life?" Lu Zhongfu's eyes narrowed and said.
"No, no!" Lu Jiangfan hurriedly waved his hand in a panic, and he continued, "However, if you rely on your own efforts and live a life commensurate with your age, I think it should be possible!" ”
"What are we all striving for?" Gu Yaluo said gently, with a gentle smile on her face, which looked particularly soft and moving, "Do things seriously, and wait until a certain age to live a happy and happy life." Grandpa is so diligent and thrifty, and he also wants to live with his family! Isn't that a sin? ”
Lu Zhongfu suddenly said angrily, "What have you done for the sake of this society, do you only care about your own small family." Is it right to just think about earning money to support your family? ”
"Grandpa, you are biased when you say this, we are self-reliant, live seriously, do not add the slightest burden to the society, never do anything sorry for the society, and have a dark personality and are not anti-human and anti-social." Gu Yaluo hurriedly declared, "You can't blame us too much, not all people are as strict with themselves as you and maintain their own philosophy of life." ”
"No matter what you say? I was respected by many people. Lu Zhongfu looked at Lu Jiangfan almost scoundrelly and said, "You respect me very much!" ”
"Of course, Dad." Lu Jiangfan nodded.
"The family truly respects and loves, and does not want that kind of false respect." Gu Yaluo muttered quietly.
Lu Zhongfu put down his wine glass heavily and said, "I am respected and loved at home at the same time. ”
"Ahh Hehe......" Gu Yaluo smiled at the old man's paranoia.
"Dad, drink, drink." Lu Jiangfan hurriedly appeased his old father, who was on the verge of anger.
Although the conversation was fruitless, the seeds were planted in the hearts of the two big men. (To be continued.) )