Chapter 46 Empathy Seeing Li Yao laughing non-stop, Ma Shang suddenly seemed to have found a sudden opening in his heart, and the backlog of magma was ready to erupt at once.

"You're so ridiculous, have you found an outlet to this question?" Ma Shang looked at Li Yao with a suspicious mind, waiting for Li Yao's answer with eager eyes.

Ma Shang's waiting eyes made Li Yao dare not laugh anymore, she knew the entanglement in Ma Shang's heart, this was really a serious question.

"What would you do if you worked hard all your life to get the wealth, and in the end you gave away all the wealth because you gave birth to a daughter?" Li Yao didn't give Ma Shang an answer, but asked him instead.

Hearing Li Yao's rhetorical question, Ma Shang began to feel complicated, he thought about it, sighed, and said with a helpless smile: "If this is the case, I am very unwilling in my heart, the wealth I have worked hard all my life to get has become someone else's in the end, how can I succeed?" ”。 After speaking, Marchand was a little excited.

Li Yao asked very understandingly, "Is the final inheritance of money really so important to you?" ”。

Ma Shang smiled slightly, "This question is not the idea of one or two people, almost most people think so in their hearts. ”。

Li Yao said with some feelings: "Hmm! That's true, but it's different if you think about it from a different perspective. ”。

Marchand's brain was a little numb at this time, "Think about it from a different angle?" Belch...... Please give me some advice, I have thought about this issue seriously, and I have tried to think about it from other angles, but the result is still not convincing to me. ”。

Li Yao was not sure that he would be able to help Ma Shang open this knot at this time, since this problem involved the problem of giving birth to himself and him in the future, how could it be solved, what if he really gave birth to a girl? What to do?

"You try to think about it from a woman's point of view and see if you can find the answer?" Li Yao can only take his thoughts to look at the problem from a woman's point of view, and he doesn't know what will happen if Ma Shang looks at this problem from a woman's point of view?

"Oh?! ......" As soon as Marchand woke up in his head, he said the word "oh". The reflexes in his head are very strong, the speed is very fast, and he immediately enters empathy.

Li Yao looked at Ma Shang with a nervous heart and waiting eyes, she stopped talking, let him think about it, if he understood the meaning, there would be no frequent quarrels with him in the future.

People who can empathize with problems will always be able to keep a clear head and then look for the problem. If he is wrong but doesn't know, and blindly insists on his own opinions, then he is drilling the tip of the horns, and he has to drill out of the horns in order to be willing.

If there is a quarrel between two husbands and wives, it must be that both of them are digging into the horns of the bull, and they don't know how to think about it from a different angle from this problem, then the more noisy the problem will be, the more problems will be pulled, and in the end they will break up unhappily. If one partner is unwilling to compromise, then a small problem can lead to a harmonious coexistence between husband and wife.

In the long run, there will be more and more problems and quarrels between husband and wife, and the relationship will become weaker and weaker, and two people will use narrow ideas to think that two people may not be suitable for being together, what personality is incompatible, quality, culture, etc., to look at the partner around them.

A lot of love sticks to a piece of love, love is like paint, but because there is no calm empathy, in the end become a stranger, the former vows have become a pile of nonsense, more smoked than cow dung.

The first is always the best, to borrow a line from the large-scale costume TV series "Wu Meiniang" starring Fan Bingbing, (Beautiful things are always the first cruel and obtained.) The meaning in this sentence is very wide, and it can be explained in this way for the relationship between husband and wife (cruelly put your own thoughts first, put them in the lowest place, and then empathize, and carefully manage a long-term beautiful and happy family. ）。