Chapter 53: Alone
Originally, You Xiaoya wanted to take a bath at night and then look at the account book, but she didn't expect such a thing to happen, and now her room is obviously unable to sleep anymore, so Zhou's mother neatly cleaned up the other room, she was indeed tired, and she fell asleep after a while.
At dawn on the second day, You Xiaoya got up full of energy, and as soon as she cleaned up, the two Jin Yuanjiang brothers came to greet her.
"Does the wound still hurt?" You Xiaoya saw that Jin Yuandong had medicine on his face and hands, and asked casually.
"Don't worry, mother, it won't hurt in winter!" Jin Yuandong smiled and bent his eyebrows, he wiped the scars with the bottle of medicine You Xiaoya gave him yesterday, but he didn't expect that it would not hurt at all when he came together.
"That's good," You Xiaoya straightened his collar for him, and after a pause, he spoke again: "Go to the school today, I will let the two nursing homes accompany you, but they can only help you on the surface, as for the relationship between classmates, it is still up to you to deal with it yourself, do you understand?" ”
"Relationships between classmates?" Jin Yuandong didn't seem to quite understand what You Xiaoya was referring to, and looked at her with some confusion and then looked back at Jin Yuanjiang.
"Going to school, in the traditional sense, is to let you learn knowledge, and in life, it is also to let you learn how to get along with others, and the so-called interpersonal relationship is like this."
You Xiaoya feels that whether it is ancient or modern, most of the role of the school is to learn knowledge and pull relationships. In her opinion, she hopes that they can handle many things by themselves, on the one hand, because she hates trouble, and on the other hand, she thinks that this will train them to be themselves.
"Relationships?" Jin Yuandong said he didn't understand what this meant.
"It's about making friends worth making." You Xiaoya patiently explained.
"Eh......" Jin Yuandong listened to You Xiaoya's words, although he was a little confused, but his eyes still lit up, and his friend's words ...... What should it look like?
"What's worth befriending? What's not worth befriending? Jin Yuanjiang stood aside and listened to You Xiaoya and Jin Yuandong talking, looking calm and steady, as if he understood everything, but at this time, he suddenly asked her coldly and stiffly.
"Useful to you." You Xiaoya calmly raised her eyes and looked at him.
"Can't you be friends if it's useless to you?" Jin Yuanjiang's problems are quite sharp most of the time.
"I haven't heard a word, the poor are good alone, and they can help the world at the same time. If you have the ability to help more people, then your friends will not be limited to useful and useless.
If you don't have the ability, then try your best to improve yourself, whether it is cultivation or morality, then your friend is your reference, he can help you improve yourself, instead of dragging your feet. ”
In fact, You Xiaoya didn't know how to teach the two brothers Jin Yuanjiang, but she just felt that if it was her, her dating model should be like this, she couldn't say that she was right like this, but at least in her last life, her friends, whether they were second goods or bad friends, she could always accept their help, so she just felt that this was good.
"Mother, is Yuandong now 'poor' or 'Da'?" Jin Yuandong asked as if he didn't understand.
"What do you think?" You Xiaoya really didn't know how to explain it.
"Well, this ......" Jin Yuandong's face was full of doubts, and he looked at You Xiaoya and then at Jin Yuanjiang on the side, as if he wanted to get a hint from him.
“…… Motherhood means that we should do our best no matter what the situation, whenever someone needs our help and we can help others. Jin Yuanjiang seemed to understand what You Xiaoya meant, and after digesting it himself, he felt that there was nothing wrong with teaching his little brother like this.
"The premise is that it's not a matter of aiding and abetting."
You Xiaoya added, although what she meant was not all what Jin Yuanjiang said, but at this time she didn't bother to explain so much, anyway, what she hoped was that these two little guys would not do anything harmful to nature and wrong when they grew up in the future, and finally ended up miserable, then she didn't have much to think about.
"Well, Yuandong knows, my mother is asking us to be kind people, and let others be friends with us when we help others, right?" Jin Yuandong's little brain melon seems to be able to understand the meaning like this.
"Why do you think that?" You Xiaoya was a little surprised, the child really couldn't understand it, wouldn't it be a bribe if she said it? Is there still a truly pure friendship in that way? Don't be misled, okay?!
"Didn't my mother let us make friends? My brother said that he wanted us to help others, so he used to help others to make them his friends! Jin Yuandong said that he felt that this seemed to make sense.
"Friends help each other, and when you help others, if you have a purpose, that friendship will not last long!" You Xiaoya thinks this is not a joke, children are so simple, don't teach them badly!
"So what's the use of helping others?" Jin Yuandong said that if it is useless, what is the point of doing this kind of thing?
“…… This question is still too complicated for Yuandong, but you have to remember what your mother said, the words of friends need to be exchanged with sincerity, people are equal to each other, no one is higher than whom, if you want to have real friends, this also needs to be remembered, you know? ”
In her previous life, although You Xiaoya was not young, she had never thought about how to start with giving birth to children and education, and now she wants her to educate and guide these two children, she feels that she has no clue.
And now what she said is all applied to them according to her own philosophy of life, but in her heart, she thinks that if she has children in the future, she doesn't want to use too many of her own things to interfere with their nature.
But the only thing is that there must be a bottom line for this life, and if this line is described in lofty words, it is morality, she feels that she is not a completely good person in her heart, but from the perspective of normal ethics, she can still do at least things in her life.
"Far Winter understood." Hearing her words, Jin Yuandong responded as if he didn't understand, but his little brain was still digesting this theory.
Jin Yuanjiang, who was on the side, was a little stunned when he heard You Xiaoya's words, are people really equal? As she said, he is not much better than those subordinates, he just has a good ancestor surnamed Jin, and as far as he is concerned, he is actually nothing......
Feeling that Jin Yuanjiang looked at him in a daze, You Xiaoya looked up at him, but she didn't want to, as soon as she looked up, she saw that his eyes were shining, as if he had made some decision, resolute and pure. I can't say it, she muttered in her heart: What is this guy up to the bottom of his mind?! This look is a little bluffing!