Chapter 104: Grandma is leaving

Shin Shin's mother's side has been a bit busy lately. Originally, because Xinxin moved back to live, Ni Yunping's family went back to her parents' house. But Doudou is used to living with his grandparents, and he starts to make noise to find Xinxin's parents after a few days. So, Ni Yunping and Xinran came back with their children every weekend, and then went back to Ni's mother in the evening, anyway, it was convenient to have a car. Even sometimes thinking about my grandparents, Xinran simply drove Ni Yunping and the child from work and took them directly to Xinxin's mother, and the family went back after dinner. So although they live in the Ni family, they spend a small half of their time at Shin Shin's mother's side. As a result, Shin Shin's mother's workload has increased a lot, because often her daughter, son-in-law, son and daughter-in-law eat at home. In addition, she has to take care of an old one and a small one, although Shin Shin is there to help, but she is not good at housework since she was a child, and Shin Shin's mother feels sorry for her daughter to come back to live for a while, and she is reluctant to let her do more, so she is often tired and has back pain at the end of the day. Fortunately, Xinxin's father will soon have a winter vacation, and the old couple will work together, and the situation will improve a lot.

Xinxin just felt that she could do everything at home without asking her aunt, but she found that her maternity leave was about to expire. In fact, her maternity leave has already been exceeded, and it was delayed that Zhang Yuan gave a fake note, and it was extended for another half a month. No, it's coming again. Although before giving birth, Shin Shin had been insisting on going to work with a big belly and did not take a day off in advance, and she had always been good in the unit, the leaders of the unit did not say much about Shin Shin's extended leave. But a clear-eyed person, who doesn't know that she is fake sick and really looks at children. Ten days and a half months is counted, after a long time, someone will definitely bite it. It's not easy to find a formal job now, and Shin Shin doesn't want to make a fuss about these few days off. So, she was ready to go to work. In this way, Shin Shin's mother's task is even heavier. In view of the current situation, Shin Shin's parents discussed that they would not let their father re-hire him next semester and concentrate on helping with housework at home.

Shin Shin's unit is far away from her parents, so she can only eat at the unit at noon and go home in the evening. On the first day of work, something went wrong because of this. The child had never left Shin Shin, and when he didn't see his mother come back at noon, he began to cry endlessly, and Shin Shin's parents took turns hugging and patting him for more than two hours before finally coaxing him with milk powder. In the evening, Xinxin came back and found out, and she was so distressed. I took a taxi back at noon the next day. The child is not crying, but the money for taking a taxi back and forth is almost catching up with Xinxin's salary for a day, and where can he afford to eat like this every day. So, on the third day, Shin Shin changed to taking the bus. The bus is cheap, but she has to wait for the bus, reverse, and wait for her to get home, and then she will have to rush back after a while. Because the time was too tight, Shin Shin later simply bought something to eat and ate lunch in the car. Xinxin's mother was distressed enough, and quietly discussed with Xinxin in private, do you want your parents to pay for them to buy a car? Xinxin didn't agree, she didn't know how to drive, and Mu Nan's unit was not close to her unit, so if he was picked up, it wouldn't save much trouble. However, with Shin Shin's current situation, it is also unrealistic to learn to drive by yourself. So having a car doesn't help much, so you can just make do with it first.

Mu Nan also asked Xinxin if she wanted to bring her father-in-law and mother-in-law back. was also immediately vetoed by Shin Shin. During the days with her mother, she was already hungry. It's my mother. Now she would rather be tired than go home every day to see people's faces.

After tossing for a while, Xinxin has obviously lost weight, and she looks very tired every day. Grandma couldn't stand it anymore, she said to Xinxin's mother: "Children will be tired if they keep tossing like this." I'll move your brother there, and you can follow her back to her house." ”

Xinxin's mother didn't think about moving to Xinxin's side, but the house there was small, and her grandmother couldn't keep up, so she gave up. At this time, when she heard her grandmother say this, she said, "How can you do that?" Whoever moves it won't let you move. You're so old, you can't toss around. ”

Grandma said: "Let me watch the children toss, I feel even more uncomfortable." Besides, I'm going to stay with your brother for two days at most, so what kind of toss. ”

Xinxin's mother still disagreed: "Here, you are used to eating and living rules, and we are used to serving you." When I moved there, it wasn't because I was afraid that my brother wouldn't serve you well, but because I was afraid that they wouldn't understand your living habits and you wouldn't be able to adapt to it. ”

Grandma is also a tough temper, and since she has made up her mind, she can't say anything. Xinxin's father, Xinxin, and Mu Nan all came to persuade her, but she refused to give up. In the end, even Xinran and Ni Yunping were called back and participated in the persuasion army together, which temporarily appeased the old lady.

Everyone thought that was the end of the matter. Unexpectedly, the next day, Xinxin's uncle and aunt came to the door with a bunch of things. Xinxin's parents talked for a while, and her uncle offered to pick up her grandmother. Grandma has lived here for many years, and although my uncle occasionally mentions whether he wants to live with him, this is the first time that he has come to pick up someone like this. So Xinxin's mother immediately guessed that it was the old lady who secretly said something to her son.

She said to her brother, "Don't listen to your mother's messing around there, she is old, and she is idle at home every day, and she always thinks about what she has and doesn't have." In fact, it was not what she thought at all. We're doing this very well now, why do we have to send the old lady away so aggressively? ”

Aunt Xinxin listened and said, "It's not that Mom wants to go over by herself, it's that we want to take Mom over for two days." For so many years, we haven't taken much care of the elderly, so that my sister and brother-in-law have been affected. Now I'm retired and my kids are older. There is nothing to do at home, and picking up my mother to play for two days can be regarded as letting us do our filial piety. ”

Xinxin's mother said, "Brother and sister, you are too polite. You come here every once in a while, and you don't have enough to eat, isn't it the same? Mom is in good health, even if she eats with us, we don't suffer much. The main reason is that the old lady has been used to living here for so many years, and I am afraid that she will not be used to it. According to my idea, I might as well not move. I appreciate your kindness. ”

My aunt looked at my uncle in embarrassment, and my uncle took over and said, "Sister and brother-in-law, do you think that I am not having a good time, and I am afraid that I will not be able to support the old lady?" ”

Uncle Xinxin has been laid off for many years, and over the years he has repaired bicycles, run insurance, worked on construction sites, carried muddy work, endured a lot of hardships, and suffered a lot of sins. Xinxin's mother felt very sorry for this younger brother and often wanted to give him some help. But Uncle Xinxin is a tough man, he knocked out his teeth and swallowed blood, and he refused to take advantage of others. He said he didn't want any money from his sister. In the end, Xinxin's mother simply took her grandmother over, and then borrowed her grandmother's hand to stuff some money into her uncle's children from time to time, so as to help them get through the difficulties. After her uncle's children went to college, Shin Shin's mother often secretly sent money to her children, so that her uncle could pay less for her children's living expenses. These grandmothers and aunts all know, and they only hide from their uncles.

In recent years, the basic security and various subsidies have been improved, and the children have graduated and started to support their families. My uncle's life finally got better. But compared with the income of Xinxin's parents, it is still a little worse. When he said such a thing now, Xinxin's mother was also sorry when she heard it, and she couldn't insist on letting her mother go to him, so she had to nod her head and agree.