Chapter 42: "The Calf" pours out the old cow's exhortation

Berry Seed said in the secret file:

Old Niu, I'll continue to talk about the past. At that time, I was in another factory, and I had a colleague who was also a colleague. She was a few years older than me, and she was plump and mature. But her husband is short and thin, and his appearance is average, but he treats her very well. They are also northerners, and the couple works in different industrial areas and are far apart, while they are well paid and live in rented apartments. I played well with her and still keep in touch.

Now that she is pregnant with a baby and is about to be a mother, I am happy for her, but I feel a little worried and confused, why? At that time, there was also a driver who drove for the manager, who was said to be from the west, and he was completely different from the driver I mentioned to you earlier, he had a good temper, and he was also tall and handsome, and he was about twenty-five years old and unmarried.

I don't know who pursued whom first, anyway, they got mixed up later. He also openly hooked shoulders and made love in some public places. She is very good to this driver, caring for him with feminine tenderness and delicacy, alas, I don't know how to describe it, in short, it's good, I don't know if she's good to her husband? I saw that her husband was very good to her and considerate.

They may still be in that relationship now, and according to another colleague, she is still very good to him. And ...... her baby? Hee-hee, but at that time this was popular in our factory, my boss at the time was a woman twenty-six or seventeen, and she was also smart, but her husband was in Dongguan, both of them were high-paid people, but she also found a small driver to relieve loneliness. Okay, let's take a break.

Haha, realistic version, Maverick! You're not in tears now, are you? Of course, although this is understandable, the traditional bottom line must also be defined in the face of reality...... It seems to be too obvious, after all, it is not decent enough. Then you keep blowing Mavericks, I'll listen.

What to blow again? Let me think about it. Hey, old cow, I'll blow everything in front of you. At that time, when I first came out, I joined the first company, and there were many cadres in this company, some of whom were gray-haired but energetic, some of whom were young and strong, and some of whom were young and beautiful. They are at the top of the management system and have a high level of authority. We usually go to work at eight o'clock, and they can arrive at half past eight or nine o'clock, as if we have more freedom to work, and we live in an apartment building in the back garden of the company.

Let's talk about Mr. C first, he is a talent, he is the business director of the sample development department, speaks fluent English, and is the only person who can communicate directly with foreign customers. At that time, my boss's boss was a woman, sweet-looking, and his direct subordinate, and my direct superior, who was the woman's direct subordinate, looked like a lean monkey. At that time, I was not in love with "sheep", and he pursued me, which is funny when I think about it now!

I usually take some sample manifests to Mr. C to sign under the leadership of my boss, the female manager, and he is very careful when reviewing the orders, measuring the size and specifications of each sample mold accurately, and then starting to record. He doesn't talk much, but he says one sentence after another, and the whole person is Sven. The lady under his command was very annoyed by the quality and delivery of the samples made by our factory, and always scolded me, so Mr. C sat by and listened, occasionally looking up at me who was not saying a word, and then interrupted the young lady and said that she could not be blamed for this matter.

Lao Niu can be regarded as a person who understands things and tells the truth directly. Once, the female manager was always to me

It seems that it is not self-contained enough. Once, because of the delay in the development of a mold, the delivery date could not be shown to foreign guests, and the manager slapped the table and scolded me in a hurry. I felt wronged, some things were a problem with the management system, but I became her punching bag.

The female manager, of course, was married. But she has a lover, the driver I mentioned earlier who treats me very badly, so I occasionally contradict her because I can't stand it, but fortunately she doesn't hold a grudge against me.

There was a strong old man, Mr. F, about fifty or sixty years old, who was a good-natured management and development executive. He never got angry with people, especially with me, and often smiled at me gently. I also dare to say happy things in front of him. Sometimes I think old people like this tend to be easy to deal with.

But there is an e-manager who still doesn't understand him very well, and it was because of him that I quit my first job. When I first started working, I felt like he was good to me. Sometimes he would nod and smile when we met, and if he was happy, he would praise me and say good things. He's older, so I occasionally play coquettish in front of him, and he's even more happy. But soon, maybe I accidentally offended him by talking or doing something, and since then he has changed uncharacteristically.

One night, my female companion and I met to get off work, and at the gate security, I suddenly received a call saying that there was a sample mold to be processed, and that Manager E would come to contact me personally. My companion and I were talking, maybe I forgot to call him, so we waited for him there. I didn't expect that after waiting for a while, he still didn't come, and I thought maybe it wasn't too important, so I left off work with my female companion.

Unexpectedly, the next day, Manager E scolded me when he saw me, saying that I was not high or low at a young age, ignoring the leadership and management, and telling me to leave. At that time, I was embarrassed and explained to him that I was not compensating, but he rolled his eyes and didn't listen. Then you know the result, and he openly scolded me for "leaving". My boss's boss, who was the female manager, took me to apologize to him, but he ignored me. When he told me to "go" in front of everyone for the third time, I had to write my resignation.

Lao Niu, there was a dormitory worker sister at the time, usually she was very good to me, and she also said her opinion on this matter, although I thought she was whimsical at the time, but now I think about it, what she said seems to have some truth, she means that the people in the enterprise, although some of the boss is not small, but the heart is wilder than the young man, saying that he began to treat me well is premeditated, hehe! I don't know if that's the case. I'm embarrassed to say that.

Maverick you just came out at that time, the industrial society is more complicated, and it is really difficult for you. What a pity for the calf at that time! That E manager is really incomprehensible, and Lao Niu feels uncomfortable for you. But you still have some good popularity, which is like that Mr. C is very high-quality, the old man Mr. F is amiable, and the sister who is very good to you......

Maverick, you're pretty flexible; I remember working as a clerk for nearly two years before I got to know the people of the industrial society. At that time, I always buried my head in work, and I said that I was not smart, but because my work was relatively simple (as an artist), I was also concentrated. I only know my supervisor after working for half a year, and I didn't know my department manager until a year later.

So, Maverick, in this outside world, in addition to working hard, we really need to understand the crowd and understand people's hearts. I think that there may be an evil side of human nature, both due to the effects of work stress and the cause of personal psychopathology. Like that manager e, maybe there is some truth in what your co-worker sister said. Some big men are not as generous as we think, and some are even more cautious. It's a loss to the calf! But what did your boyfriend think of your situation at that time?

Lao Niu, this is all something that happened before I fell in love with "sheep". Later, after I established a relationship with "Sheep", I also told him, but he seemed to be indifferent, just talking about the past, why mention it?

This shows that your "sheep" cared about you at the time, after all, it was a man, and some aspects may be understated. On the whole, he may be a career-oriented person.

Old Niu, maybe you're right! Do you remember? I also said that I was happy, and at that time I thought that some unsatisfactory things would pass and I would stop thinking about them. "Sheep" is okay except for being stingy, such as eating snacks he will help me buy, sometimes cosmetics will also buy, but until now I understand that he has not supported me financially, maybe his idea is right, but as his girlfriend for a few years, he should not be so stingy with me, in fact, I will not use or borrow his money in vain, after all, my family needs financial assistance.

I always felt that he didn't take me to heart, that he wouldn't think to ask me when it was cold, and that he would only blame me for my own problems. The last time I said on the phone, I'm very unhappy here, he said why, I said just unhappy, if you were by my side maybe better, at least you can avoid some unnecessary troubles. The meaning of this is obvious, but he said how can I be, why didn't you say that when you left my company?

Moreover, he also said that you have to deal with things yourself, and you don't know if "the wool comes out of the sheep"? He said this as if I was a swaggering woman who loved to be in the limelight. So I was very disappointed in him, so I said that you can rest assured, when I leave this company, I will definitely find a job by myself, and I will never bother you. Forget it, old cow, don't talk about this anymore, I'm upset when I talk too much about calves.

I think although your sheep is stingy, but generally speaking, he still treats you well, maybe there are some things he doesn't understand or doesn't have the energy to care about your business, everyone has a difficult situation. In the future, I will slowly see if I can consciously let him pay more attention to you more tactfully. Here's my advice. That's it, calf, you don't have to talk about it. But I don't know how to comfort you calf.

Old cow, in fact, the calf no longer has any hope for the sheep, and it can be said that one of my cow hearts for the sheep is dead. I've had similar thoughts before, but it's only been a day or two, and this time it's been more than a week, and I'm still keeping that thought, and I think I'm determined this time. But I don't know how to confess to him. Old Niu, if someone says they love me now, should I believe it? I don't think I have the courage to try again, after all, how many years of my youth can I have?

Lao Niu, in fact, the most painful thing for me is not just how much he cares about me, or his stinginess, but that he still has a relationship with one of his former girlfriends, so I don't think he is his object now, it is a girl in a white dress, I have seen it, but this "sheep" does not know that I already know about it, he is still hiding it from me, I see how long he has been hiding it?

Oh Maverick, I really don't know if you don't talk about it! Your boyfriend is indeed at fault in this matter, as a man, you should be the first to explain this matter, in fact, everyone will make mistakes, the key is to be open and honest to say and correct mistakes. Of course, Lao Niu also thinks that you should have explained this to him earlier. I think this is probably the most tangled issue between you right now. You used to love each other like that before, can't you just dissolve this gap now?