Chapter 122: Who does the child sleep with?
Yu Jiangbin naturally didn't agree with his father's "water-saving" method, but no matter how he persuaded him, the old man refused to agree. Zhang Yuan couldn't bear it outside, so she simply walked in by herself and popularized the relevant health and hygiene knowledge to Yu's father. Zhang Yuan is a nurse, and when it comes to these professional terms, where can the old man talk about her? And to his daughter-in-law, he is not as unreasonable as his son, so he has to respond vaguely. But Zhang Yuan is not a gentle person, and she will not stop at any point, she saw that Yu's father had no objection to her words, so she asked the old man to express his position on the spot. Yu's father was forced into a corner, and he reluctantly promised that he would flush the water in time in the future. Although he is very disgusted with his daughter-in-law's behavior, the old man is a man of his word, and since he said it, he naturally can't be counted. After that, the old couple rushed to their own. However, when they get up at night, they will still secretly maintain their original habits, and Zhang Yuan is also aware of this, but she has never caught it. Besides, in order to flush the water less once, the two of them had to get up at the same time, and Zhang Yuan was embarrassed enough to think about it, so he turned a blind eye.
In fact, relatively speaking, Zhang Yuan prefers the straight character of Yu's father. What to say, happy or unhappy are all on the bright side. Yu's mother's personality is completely different, and I don't know if she was suppressed by Yu's father for so many years, or if she was born like this. Yu's mother is a person who keeps everything in her heart. When we first got along, we were fine, and everyone respected each other. As the days go by, the problem comes.
When Zhang Yuan first started confinement, it was still during the Chinese New Year, Yu Jiangbin was at home, cooking and drinking for her, and Zhang Yuan was very fat. was originally a second child, and it was a natural birth, and Zhang Yuan herself was a nurse in the obstetrics and gynecology department, so she almost didn't use others to take care of the baby. Yu's mother only needs to take care of Maomao and give Yu Jiangbin a hand when cooking. The family is also happy.
At that time, the only problem was who Maomao slept with at night. Originally, I said that I would sleep with my grandparents. But Maomao is not used to it, and it is a little noisy at night. Yu's father's family has always believed that it is a woman's responsibility to do things, and they only care about sleeping with themselves at night, and they don't care about their children at all. Yu's mother was not in good health, so he tossed so much at night, and he had no energy during the day. After two days, I couldn't bear it. The old lady proposed to let Mao Mao go back to Zhang Yuan and Yu Jiangbin to sleep.
Zhang Yuan was not very happy when she heard this, and thought: I don't need you to serve much during confinement, just look at a big child, and push it back, is there a mother-in-law who does this? But because of Yu Jiangbin's face, she didn't say it, she just said that she still had to take care of the little one, and she couldn't be busy. Yu Jiangbin also felt that this was too much to toss Zhang Yuan, after all, she was still in confinement, and she didn't agree. Yu's mother had to stop mentioning it. Zhang Yuan thought that the matter was over. Who knew that at night, Yu's mother began to talk to Zhang Yuan and Yu Jiangbin, who and whose children were brought by their grandmother, and whose children were all sleeping with their grandma. Zhang Yuan didn't put it in his mind at all, just listened to it as gossip. But Yu Jiangbin heard the smell and asked Zhang Yuan in private: "My mother's health is really not good, can you let Maomao take his grandmother for a few days?" ā
Zhang Yuan's fire came up all of a sudden, your mother is afraid of being tired, isn't my mother afraid? She directly refused: "No." At that time, I said that I would be confined at my house, but you had to come to your house. Now that I've come here, I can't take care of it, and I want to send the child back. I'm embarrassed to ask. ā
Yu Jiangbin was a big deflated, so he pouted and just stopped.
The next day, Grandma Zhang came to see Zhang Yuan, and Zhang Yuan told her what was going on angrily. Grandma Zhang said: "Maomao slept with me for two days before, and it was okay, not too noisy." Otherwise, I'll take it. It just so happens that Dudu is also at home on vacation, and the two children also have a companion. ā
Zhang Yuan disagreed: "How can there be such a thing? If you want to go back, I'll go back too! I went back to my parents' house for confinement. ā
Grandma Zhang persuaded her: "You can't be angry in confinement. Be careful to return the milk. His grandmother did something wrong. But the child is not used to her, and he suffers, right? I took the child back because I felt sorry for the child. You, don't take it so seriously, as long as the child is good, what is the burden for adults to suffer a little? ā
While the two were talking, Yu Jiangbin came in. Grandma Zhang told her son-in-law her thoughts, and Yu Jiangbin was naturally very happy. After the discussion was over, he would send the child over. Zhang Yuan pouted silently, but did not object again.
As soon as Grandma Zhang left, Yu Jiangbin went into his parents' room and reported the situation. Yu's mother was naturally 100% willing, but Yu's father lowered his face and spoke: "Our Yu family's own grandson has to be given to others to raise, it's not a shame." ā
Yu Jiangbin said in embarrassment: "Isn't it that we can't see it ourselves, and it's not for others." Just help take care of it. ā
Yu's father said, "Why can't you see it? Your mom is just panicking. After glaring at Yu's mother, the old lady was deflated at that time, and said to him: "I...... I'll stick to it. ā
Yu Jiangbin knew that his mother couldn't stand it, but he didn't dare not agree because of his father's might, so he felt a little sorry for the old lady. Finally, he thought for a moment and said, "Then let's just do this, tomorrow I will add a bed to the living room, and I will sleep with Maomao." ā
This Jian yƬ came out, and the old couple did not raise any more objections, so they unanimously agreed.
Zhang Yuan heard Yu Jiangbin say what happened, and he glanced at him and said, "Why haven't you ever felt so sorry for me?" ā
Yu Jiangbin smiled: "How old are you, how old is my mother?" You also fight for this. I can't stand you anymore. Okay, when you are seventy or eighty, I promise to accompany you every day to provide for you, are you satisfied? With a husband like me, you can steal the fun. ā
Zhang Yuan snorted and said, "It's the opposite, you." It's a wife like me, so you can steal the fun. Whose confinement is not a husband or old woman who follows the night to serve. But what about me? It's all covered by myself. You've all gone to sleep one by one, and you still want to beat a rake? ā
This is the truth, if Zhang Yuan is not so capable, needless to say Yu's mother, even Yu Jiangbin is estimated to not be so easy. Yu Jiangbin smiled when he thought about it, hugged Zhang Yuan and said, "Knowing that my wife is capable, I am blessed to marry you." ā
Zhang Yuan pushed him away and said, "It's pretty much the same." Alright, don't just talk about it here, go make me dinner! I'm starving. ā
Yu Jiangbin grinned and entered the kitchen. Zhang Yuan saw her mother-in-law's figure flashing outside the door, but she didn't pay much attention.
Yu's mother returned to her room and muttered in a low voice: "I still think how capable I am when I turn the man's envoy around." Isn't it just watching the monthly child by yourself, who doesn't see it by themselves? (Moon child: refers to a baby who is not full moon.) Alas, young people now. ā