"Besides, you used to be strictly controlled by Grandpa Lu, the boys are better, but the girls have a strict curfew." Lucifer continued in a warm voice, "The poor are suddenly rich, and all of a sudden, they have no reins, so they do whatever they want, and lawlessness arises, and the characterization of young people is too poor. ”

It was as if he wasn't a young man, but now everyone was listening, and no one was thinking deeply......

"The extravagant are rich but insufficient, and the thrifty are poor and have more than enough. The heart of the extravagant is always poor, and the heart of the thrifty is always rich. Lucifer's eyes were clear, his voice was clear, and there was a lazy and lazy taste, "Prosperity is blinding, and money is confusing." Once you get lost in your heart, you lose yourself. ”

"Grandpa, this is abstaining from luxury and advocating frugality!" Lu Haoyi looked at his younger brothers and sisters.

"Grandpa, this is for us to accumulate blessings and cherish blessings in the future. Accumulate merit, and it will be rewarded in a hundred years! Gu Yaluo smiled brightly, revealing a mouthful of snow-white teeth.

"Luo'er is right." Lu Jiangdan sat in the middle of them and said, "You can't indulge yourself if you have money, boys indulge, and there is a chance to turn back, people will say that the prodigal son will not change his money when he turns back; Girls can't do it, their lives are over. You are not small anymore, especially in the relationship between the sexes. ”

"Isn't youth just about fresh clothes and angry horses? People are not amorous teenagers? Youth who is not rebellious and not crazy is also worthy of being called youth? Lu Haoshan was silent for a moment and thought for a while before he said.

"You don't really think that smoking two cigarettes, drinking some wine, and smoking white powder just think that this is youth! When you really want to touch it out of curiosity, think more about yourself when you are sweating and barbecuing meat next to the fire on dog days. It's hard-earned money. It didn't fall from the sky, but the wind blew. Lucifer shrugged and said, "Of course rebellious and crazy youth can. Life is yours, it's just that it's too early to advance, and everything has a price. ”

"A few years of indulgence may be exchanged for a lifetime of humility and bottoming!" Lu Jiangdan sank his face, and his cold eyes swept towards the juniors and said, "I'm not preaching to you, the bottom people have to be people." It's not like everyone is blowing air conditioning in the office! It's not appropriate, but I'm the best example of not listening to the old man and suffering a loss. ”

"Mom!" Gu Yaluo's three siblings shouted disobediently.

"Auntie!"

Lu Jiangdan smiled with relief and said with deep understanding. "Really, at that time, your grandfather was very strict, this was not allowed to be done, and that was not allowed to be played. At that time, I always felt that I had grown up. Oh God. My second child always felt that after breaking out of the cage, I could be free and do whatever I wanted, but I found that it was a blessing to be controlled by my parents. Only they will have no worries and love you in return. ”

She suddenly remembered her father, who had some vicissitudes of life, and pitied the hearts of parents all over the world. No matter how much you worry about it, it's all for your own children.

"It's a little annoying, isn't it? Do not say. Lu Jiangdan held the warm teacup in his hand, and bursts of warmth came.

"How can a man be noble?" Gu Zhanyan's heart was sour, he knew that his mother was uncomfortable, so he hurriedly asked, but he was deeply stimulated by Ashley's blonde boy.

Lucifer, who was calm and elegant in his bones, said slowly, "It is not easy for a man to become noble, he must have a successful career, a noble status, enough money, and good knowledge and cultivation...... This requires a slow build-up. ”

"On the contrary, it is very simple for a girl to become noble - she does not have to have the status of a princess, a wealthy background, gorgeous costumes, and an aristocratic education...... There is only one thing she has to do, and that is to wrap herself tightly like a flower bud.?"? His eyes are deep, like the eyes that have been precipitated by seeing all the red dust and glitz, and he is not happy, angry, sad or sad. It is like an ancient well, without wind and waves, and there is nothing in your heart. It seems to be able to see through the treasure mirror of the soul, torturing the soul, which is not shocking and daunting.

"What do you mean?" The younger Lu Lu asked.

Lu Jiangdan realized that it was a bit early to talk about this topic, but in ancient times, men and women were not at the same table at the age of seven, and they were not young, so he put it in layman's terms, "It is to keep a distance from those stinky boys and always respect their bodies and minds." ”

"Huh......?? Ha, there are boys and girls in our class kissing in the woods! Lu Hao'er blushed and said.

"College students are so open now!" Lu Jiangdan smacked her tongue and said, she realized that this chat was necessary, "Children, don't say that grandpa, grandma, father, and mother have old concepts, but no matter what era, whether it is the East or the West, for both sexes, as long as a girl is awe-inspiring, she will become noble in the hearts of men." This has nothing to do with the era, it has nothing to do with the region, the so-called trendy concepts are temporary, I am talking about an eternal truth. ”

Lu Haosi immediately said, "Auntie, I never pull and pull with those boys. I remember one time when I went to a competition, there was an English boy who came up to me with a smile and hugged me, and said what the etiquette was to meet, and he didn't hug me, and he immediately raised his leg and kicked him, just kicking him...... There, scare that guy stupid all at once, hehe......??"?

"Little Four did the right thing!" Lu Jiangfan walked over and said.

"Dad!"

"Second uncle."

"Second uncle." Everyone got up and said.

Lu Haoshan let go of the rattan chair and said, "Dad, sit." "Get up and go and squeeze on the chaise longue with Gu Yaluo's three siblings.

"I am a man, I know what men think, and I know very well what kind of women men dare not despise, and even remember them for life." Lu Jiangfan said sincerely, solemnly, and from the bottom of his heart, "Nowadays, with the rise of the feminist movement, the status of women is getting higher and higher, and many women think that being as open as men is to pursue and create pleasures without quality, which is a manifestation of equality between men and women." In fact, in this way, you are lowering yourself and becoming some kind of plaything. ”

Lu Jiangfan said in a deep voice, "A person should not pursue beauty, but beauty." A noble girl must be wonderful. Although this era is dazzling, there are still such girls, who may be of humble status, may be poor, have no high-end fashion, and do not even have beautiful appearances, but they hold their hearts high and radiate the stars and moonlight. I love them.

Remember what I said, girls: If a very serious-looking man says another diametrically opposed theory to you without a foundation, it is definitely for another purpose, to kick him. ”

Lu Jiangdan looked at them kindly and said, "Second brother is right, expand it, no, in the past, if a woman wants to get ahead in this society, it is indeed not easy to rely on her own efforts, but as Sanmao said: No matter what, it is always unforgivable for a person to fall for some reason, the more no one loves, the more you must love yourself." How can someone who doesn't even love you love you? How can you get everything you want, and even if you do, you will end up losing it in the same way. ”

Lu Jiangfan then said, "Yu Guangzhong said: It is a pity and a waste for young girls to choose men because of material things: they have lost the opportunity to find out who they are, they can only discover the treasures in their bodies while they are young, and they will regret it when they are old and face danger again!" Don't choose the 'easy way', it's actually the hardest. Unsophisticated women are accustomed to good times and are easy to be harsh; And the sophisticated woman is well versed in adversity, but she is lenient with the world. ”

Gu Yaluo's clear and clear black eyes flashed slightly, as she became more and more open, how many women in later generations understood this sentence?

I'd rather cry in a BMW than laugh on a bike. Hehe, when you are old, you can still laugh. Maybe some people just care about the present, and don't care how dark the future may be.

No matter how the outside world changes, the elders of the Lu family love and educate the children in their unique way, hoping that the children can understand.

&*&

The winter day was cold, the silver light poured all over the place, the starlight was a little dim, but the night was extraordinarily quiet. Quietly in the study, Lucifer was wearing a black nightgown, sitting lazily at the desk, his slender knuckles leisurely flipping through the account book to read the income data of the past few months, Qingjun's lips outlined a perfect arc, and there was a faint starlight flashing in Gujing's waveless eyes.

The phone on the table rang ......, his long and cold eyes glanced at it lightly, put down the teacup in his hand, stretched out his long arms, and picked up the earpiece unhurriedly, "Hey! Hello! I'm Lucifer. The flat voice seemed a little ethereal in this quiet study.

"Luo'er said you were on a business trip, but you're finally back." When Cheng Wanting heard that someone answered, she gasped and said, "It's me, Cheng Wanting, didn't Luo'er tell you?" "withoutyou" has been nominated for a Grammy Award. ”

"Oh!" Lucifer's indifferent and deep voice also came through the telephone line.

"How do you react the same way as the snail?" Cheng Wanting pouted, more concise than Luo'er.

Lucifer said amusedly, "Why should we be ecstatic and sleepless all night?" It's just a nomination, not an award. ”

Cheng Wanting was stunned, her trembling fingertips gently covered her lips, her beautiful big eyes sparkled, her eyes were full of indescribable surprise, and she slammed her mouth and said, "Tut...... You're really a family, listen, you say exactly the same, this tone! "What a bow!

'Family! This feels really good, Lucifer heard a smile on the corner of his lips and reminded, "Nanny Cheng, have something to say!" The low voice was a little gentle.

"Oh! I'm worried! At the time, it was said that it would not be exposed, but now? Cheng Wanting hesitated, scratching her head a little irritably.

"What did the higher-ups say?" Lucifer's eyes were clear, and his expression was indifferent.

"Oh! To continue to maintain the mystery or to be exposed, and now the top management is also in a dilemma? Cheng Wanting sighed in distress.

"Don't worry, it's still early, waiting!" Lucifer said indifferently, his voice still as calm as water. (To be continued......)

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