Grandma Zhang has a girl and a son, the son is strong and mild-tempered, and follows her; Daughter Zhang Yuan is enthusiastic and cheerful, with a fiery personality, with her wife Grandpa Zhang. Grandpa Zhang is a standard big man, who supported the whole family by himself, his parents and brothers took good care of him, and his wife and children were even more worry-free. Men have the ability, and women are more obedient. In addition, Grandma Zhang was originally a gentle and docile person, so Grandpa Zhang had the final say at home and abroad. Zhang Yuan is the youngest daughter of Grandma Zhang, and it is said that she should be very favored at home, but the family style of the Zhang family is patriarchal, so since she was a child, Zhang Yuan has always been behind her brother in everything, and even from time to time her parents assigned her brother to be a back. **Eating chicken legs, Zhang Yuan can only gnaw chicken feet; **In the middle of eating fish, Zhang Yuan can only ramble the head and tail of the fish; bought three new clothes for **, but couldn't buy one for Zhang Yuan. Usually at home, Zhang Yuan brushes pots and washes dishes, and does all chores, and is so diligent that everyone in the neighbors praises her; **But the clothes came to reach out for food to open their mouths, and they didn't even take a thorn in the grass. Fortunately, ** is easy-going and kind, but she never bullies her sister, and occasionally Zhang Yuan drops a cup and smashes a bowl, ** always responds for her. If Zhang Yuan did this, it would naturally be a scolding, and if Grandpa Zhang was unhappy, it might be a beating. But ** responded, the parents said a few words without pain at most, and it was over. So ** didn't think it was bitter, but Zhang Yuan was very grateful. And the ** person is tall and big, and he often supports his sister when he goes out, scaring those skin boys who want to bully Zhang Yuan and scattering in a hurry. Zhang Yuan is also proud to have such an older brother. Although parents have always treated the brothers and sisters differently, the relationship between Zhang Yuan's brothers and sisters is very good.

Later, Zhang Yuan was admitted to the nursing school, and she was the first in the class every year, and when she graduated from the internship, the old head nurse of the third hospital saw her with needles and infusions, and said that she was born to be a nurse, and the dean insisted on leaving her behind with a package ticket. So Zhang Yuan didn't spend a penny on her family to find a job. It's my brother, because he played basketball well, he squeezed into college as a sports student, but when he graduated, he became a unsalable commodity that no one wanted, and it was a job that the family spent a lot of money to find with a lot of favors. Zhang Yuan didn't have anything to say about this, she was used to it since she was a child.

But when it was time to get married, the new daughter-in-law married into the door, and Grandpa Zhang's different approach between men and women finally hit Zhang Yuan's death hole, causing her to go crazy. Brother ** talked about Qi Lingjuan back then, a major gift for engagement, a heavy ceremony for marriage, and the marriage was done in a beautiful and extravagant manner. On the one hand, Grandpa Zhang wants to save face, thinking that this is the only way to make people look good, and on the other hand, there are many Qi family gifts, and Qi Lingjuan is sure that she is afraid of her daughter-in-law. Forget it, but after Qi Lingjuan lived in Zhang's house after marriage, she had a conflict with Zhang Yuan, who was to be married. Qi Lingjuan likes to sleep lazy, but Zhang Yuan's work often requires getting up early, and Qi Lingjuan sleeps lightly, so she always says that Zhang Yuan is arguing with her. Zhang Yuan let her twice, and then she got annoyed and refused to get used to her anymore. At that time, Qi Lingjuan had just entered the door, and she was not sure about the situation of her mother-in-law's house, so she didn't dare to be too arrogant. If Grandpa Zhang and Grandma Zhang were a little towards Zhang Yuan, or even if anyone else didn't look at her, the matter would have passed. But Grandpa Zhang always felt that the girl would marry sooner or later, and she would be someone else's after all; The daughter-in-law is married, and that is the real person. So when I saw my sister-in-law quarreling, I didn't distinguish between black and white, and reprimanded Zhang Yuan towards Qi Lingjuan. Qi Lingjuan gained momentum all of a sudden, and she didn't take her sister-in-law seriously anymore. This happened again and again, but Grandpa Zhang always supported Qi Lingjuan, and said that his daughter was not. Zhang Yuan had a fiery temper, and in a fit of anger, he packed up his things and moved to the dormitory.

Zhang Yuan lived in the dormitory for half a year, and she didn't go back to her parents' house until she got married, and went directly to the wedding car in the dormitory. Such a deviant approach made Grandpa Zhang furious and swore not to recognize this daughter. He gave all his relatives and friends an ultimatum, and whoever interacted with Zhang Yuan just didn't take his old Zhang seriously. The old man is a tough man, and everyone knows his temper after many years of getting along, and it is not a joke to provoke Grandpa Zhang. It is better to have more than one thing, and since then, relatives and friends have also sparsely communicated with Zhang Yuan. Zhang Yuan is a tough person, since the old man swore to sweep her out of the house, and relatives and friends also stayed away from her, she made up her mind to rely on herself, and she never opened her mouth with her family, relatives and friends when she encountered difficult things. Grandma Zhang is a mother in the end, she doesn't dare to disobey her wife, but she is reluctant to be a girl in her heart. Later, she still secretly gave her daughter some financial assistance, but Zhang Yuan retreated, she was afraid that her father would know that her mother was affected, and she didn't want to bow her head like this. But in the end, Grandma Zhang forced two gold rings and a gold necklace to Zhang Yuan, and she begged her daughter to accept it with tears, saying that otherwise she would feel sorry for the rest of her life. Zhang Yuan refused, but had to accept it. At that time, Zhang Yuan didn't work for a long time, and she saved a little money and took it out to pay the down payment for the house with her husband, so in the end, all her dowry was given by her mother. Fortunately, the boyfriend she is looking for is a foreigner, his family is not wealthy, and his mother-in-law can't give anything, so she doesn't have anything to choose from her mother-in-law's family. It's just that Zhang Yuan suffered, and since then she has been working hard with her husband one hand and one foot, a good local girl, but her mother's family can't help at all, and her life is harder than that of a helpless girl from other places.

Later, Grandpa Zhang was seriously ill and felt that his time was short, so he said in tears that he wanted to see his daughter. After all, he is his biological father, even though he has a thousand resentments, Zhang Yuan also softened his heart when he learned that the old man was in such a situation. As she stepped into the door of the Zhang family again, the relationship between the two sides eased. Zhang Yuan is a solid child after all, when her father was sick, she ran before and after to help Zhang Luo, and served in front of the old man's bed all night long, pinching her waist and beating her back, taking care of her feces and urine. It is Qi Lingjuan, the "own family" daughter-in-law in Grandpa Zhang's heart, who comes to show up every day and disappears. Only then did the old man regret his original and let go of his old suspicions with his daughter.

When Grandpa Zhang was dying, he called his son, daughter-in-law, daughter and son-in-law to the bed, and clearly divided the inheritance, with a total of two small houses and a large house, as well as a deposit of 300,000 yuan. The small house has one son and one daughter, and the big house remains in the name of Grandma Zhang and will be owned by the son in the future. 300,000 yuan for a son, daughter, and Grandma Zhang. In the end, the old man instructed: People die like lights out, don't be extravagant in funerals, and living people live well is the greatest respect for him.

After Grandpa Zhang died, according to his last wishes, the funeral was simple. Since then, there has only been Grandma Zhang in the family, an old man, and she is cowardly by nature, so she has to suffer from Qi Lingjuan's idleness. Zhang Yuan felt sorry for her mother, so she began to come back and walk around frequently. Qi Lingjuan saw that the status of movable property and real estate had been decided, and her family property was a lot, and she thought that Zhang Yuan was a nurse, and she used her more places, so she was also very polite to Zhang Yuan.

Recently, Zhang Yuan is going to give birth to a second child, her body is heavy, and she is also old, so she can no longer be pregnant with a child and squeeze the car every day like when she was young. Only then did I go to Grandma Zhang's side and stay temporarily.

Thinking of the past today, Zhang Yuan will express such feelings. The in-laws are not good, you can stay away; But your parents are not good, what should you do?