Another working day came, and Chang Berry, as always, sat down at the computer desk early, opened the secret file sharing, and saw what her "father" said, but it was still yesterday's message. So I typed a few paragraphs:

Dad, tell us more about you and that mom. Of course, I will also tell you about my own affairs in the future.

Dad, I've always had a fear of marriage and things like that. But it's too early for me to talk about marriage. Dad, don't be surprised, I don't have much confidence in men on a case-by-case basis, but I just think that (at least in my country) marriage is everyone's destiny. My parents are now constantly nagging in my ear about marriage, but I am annoyed that as long as I make a marriage contract, I am not busy getting married. In fact, I yearn for the life of a single aristocrat, and I can't think of any charm for a woman soaked in firewood, rice, oil and salt. That's what I mean! Don't be emotional. Although I am not a traitor, I already have a boyfriend, and of course I will do my duty as a girlfriend if we can be together. But people always want to be free, and their minds can't stand the bondage, Dad.

Hee-hee, your dad continues, I'm listening......

Oh kid, you're right! I understand that too. Well, I'll continue. Of course I know you're a good woman, but ...... Alas, there is really not much to say along the way. Anyway, her basic temperament is to dare to love and hate, and she has a chivalrous complex, sometimes like Li Kui in the black pine forest, which is why I miss her so much now. At that time, she changed her way to be coquettish with me, and I was young and always pursued simplicity in terms of feelings. At that time, there was a work colleague who was an unmarried girl, with a gentle temperament, giving people a calm beauty, and being able to do things, and she was a rare "female champion". The working relationship is naturally intimate.

But there is a cadre who often gets close to her, although I am not close to women, but I know the clues, and I will play stupid in that regard (in order not to embarrass others to notice anything). But after all, she is a relatively simple woman, and she can't stand the ambiguous teasing. I didn't expect that person to create a myth in front of your mother, so that your mother had a ghost in her heart, thinking that I was having an affair, and we quarreled! If there is such a thing, it will also be pulled down and let people do the secrets, which can be like some Internet hype now...... But I don't want my mother-in-law to explain. Your mom gives me a headache at this! I don't know if it's because I'm in a bad state of mind or if those things are too boring.

Oops Daddy! It shows that mom loves you too much. But things must be reversed, she should know this. Excessive love can feel heavy and overwhelming. I hope that mom can now understand your pain. I'm not kidding you, but I think you should be proud now: you had a good wife who loved you very much, and you had beautiful scenery in front of you. Hee-hee, Dad, just look away, sometimes a little scandal of one kind or another is regarded as adding a little color to life. Even great men like the former president of the United States have made some mistakes. You should also be glad that if you are a famous person, you will have been caught up in the media about you. Dad, can you go on? I'm afraid to disturb your work, but I'm also interested in your life, because you're my dear father.

Haha, you little ghost, so cute! Oops, fortunately, at that time, the quarrel was when there were no children after marriage, in fact, our quarrels broke out without being known. Then we will also have a cold war, or a secret "nuclear war" (meaning arguing in a dark place so as not to see each other's faces arguing). This conventional way of arguing is "cool" enough: you can argue as much as you want, so as not to affect other people; As soon as someone finds out that the quarrel is "live", your mother will wipe away her tears and act as if it is fine, and I think it is embarrassing to have a disgraceful quarrel. We had a fight over that, and when she saw that I had never been so angry, and probably afraid that I would beat her, she took a towel to defend herself, and I was really angry, and I pulled her towel with my hand, and looked here and there, but I took an empty willow piece (which we call it a fence bucket locally), and slapped her on the ass a few times.

There was a doctor who was good with me. The house is not far from my house, and I saw your mother go to the doctor's place. At the time, I thought I had injured her by mistake. When she got home, I rushed to the doctor and asked her if she had been injured by me. The doctor said, "Yes!" The injury is not light! What's the point of a big man beating a woman? What kind of body did you beat her into big bags and small pimples? At that time, I was really anxious, ashamed and blamed myself, I said what should I do? Did she get injections and pills? The doctor said: I have taken injections and grabbed medicines, but I will not die.

After that incident passed, the doctor laughed at me and said: You guy quarreled with his own woman, what kind of bargain did you get, you punished her openly and she secretly treated you, but she cried and said that you have never treated her like this! She wants to scare you and see if your heart hurts? Do you think, a few pats on the butt of an empty willow object will hurt and get pimples? It is still possible to bruise a little soft tissue, where else do you need injections and medicines?

Hee-hee, my daughter is eating and laughing here! Laugh at the mother with a beautiful scheming, and laugh at your father with a kind temperament! Go on, my daughter is listening.

I'm sulking with your mom about that. At that time, a relative (cousin, a town cadre) whom I hadn't seen for a long time suddenly came to my house. In the state of the "cold war", we are still "separated". To this day, I don't know if my cousin knew that we were angry, and I am a man with little defense, and I don't know much about his character, but I think that many people are the same. At that time, my mood was unexpectedly better, because I saw that her relatives were coming, and she seemed to be fine, and we seemed to have returned to the "peaceful and prosperous times". She also made some delicious food for us. That night I was drinking and chatting with my relatives. Late at night, we were still "separated". That cousin stayed overnight at my house and slept with me.

In the middle of the night, I was suddenly woken up by your mother. She said into my ear in a panic: You are asleep, you wake up! What kind of cousin of yours, I don't think he's a madman or a monster? At that time, I was confused, and said what is the matter with you? You sleep in your room and go! Come to me for what?

She sobbed and cried and said, "You haven't woken up yet?" You know, I was sleeping in a daze, and suddenly someone pulled my hand, and I knew you wouldn't pay attention to me for a moment...... Who knew he was so evil...... I was furious when I heard it! How did he do this? I said watch me beat him! Did he bully you? She said, "No!" Does he dare? After all, in our home. But why are you still angry with me? She sobbed again. I said I didn't bully you. I'm going to tell him to fuck off! But she hugged me again and said: People are face-saving, after all, they are relatives. So I put up with it. I'm sorry to say here. Your mother was pestering me that night...... Haha, kid! I shouldn't have told you this.

Later, when my family moved to town, I sometimes ran into that cousin. Your mom would say fuck him......

Dad, what you said is also in line with human nature, and my daughter understands it very well. But that mother does have her own personality, and at the same time, it shows that she always loves you like that, and it also shows that the family is not afraid of quarrels but is afraid of no feelings.

Thank you for your understanding. This outside world! It's rare to have such a bright-hearted and sensible daughter as you!

Dad, if you were in the current society, would you be able to sit still? More than 10 years have passed in a flash, and now that your children are growing up, you have to set a good example for them!

Haha, Dad's soul is not out of the body yet, but the spirit may be derailed; But I don't want to say how pure I am now. In fact, when people reach a certain age, they can't get rid of the pain of family affairs or "world affairs", and they rarely have the leisure to ask about their feelings.

That's what Dad said, so you continue:

After I went out to work, I remember that time your mother called, and I didn't notice that it was her because I was busy with work, and I didn't hear her voice. She said on the phone in a weird way: Have you married a wife? Who are you? International jokes! I have a wife! She said what do you have? Your wife is dead! When she said that, she laughed heartily. I heard the laughter and realized it was her. Then she said seriously: If you are lonely outside, drag a temporary wife, I said I don't have time, if you feel lonely, you can do it yourself......

Father! It made me laugh and my stomach hurt! That mom was really funny and cheerful; Thank you for treating me as if I were your own daughter and telling me about your family affairs. Hee-hee, my daughter still wants to listen to your love story, because you are my dear father.

Okay, I'll talk about it:

It was winter, and the unit leader asked me to cross the Yangtze River to buy stationery in the city, but my uncle and aunt lived on the riverbank, but they settled in the city on the other side of the river to do small business. They gave the key to a good family, and a girl from that house quickly handed me the key. On that day, the river was windy, the waves were sweeping, and the boat could not cross the river. I just stayed at my aunt's house. The girl said to me: Your aunt and aunt have been busy with business for a long time and have not come back, saying that when you came, they would look for books to read at their house, and there was rice at home, and there was also salted fish and bacon for the New Year.

She is not tall and looks petite and delicate, but her big eyes are very charming...... I remember that night I climbed the ladder to the attic to look for my uncle's old antique books.

My aunt's bed is very interesting, there is a delicate little eight immortals on the wide bed, on which are placed the four treasures of the study room (my uncle is a little literati who reads Confucianism), at that time the computer was still like a rare treasure, even I have never seen it, everyone is generally engaged in the reading of paper texts, and some young people also read those old and yellowed books, such as me. I sat cross-legged and read like a little monk chanting sutras...... It must have been late at night, I looked up at the window, and saw a figure flickering, it was a moonlit night outside, and I was terrified! I had the courage to go to the hall and check the latch of the door, and then I looked at the window through the crack in the door, and saw a white shadow flickering! I'm a materialist, and I think I'm definitely not going to be a ghost. In fact, I was bold enough to make a mistake, so I gently pulled the latch open and slammed the door open, and I boldly chased after the white shadow in the darkness, which floated into the field like a flying white butterfly!

Life is sparse, the more I chase, the more timid I become, I stopped and shouted to the white shadow: Don't run if you have a kind! I didn't expect that I didn't chase the shadow and didn't move, as if it was shrinking suddenly. After a while, the shadow said breathlessly: I am not a thief! Why are you chasing me like that? As soon as I heard, oh my God! Isn't there really a monster in the world?! How is it a girl's voice?

I reacted immediately and said I knew who you were, but why didn't you squeak earlier? She said, "I'm a little afraid of you!" I said that you run into the wilderness, aren't you afraid of ghosts? She said: I am usually afraid of ghosts, but now you treat me as a ghost, so I only know that I am afraid of you.

I approached her and said, "I'll send you back." She still stood there and said, "Let me rest, I'm tired from running!" You've scared me into a cowardice, and my heart is still beating desperately! I said I'm sorry, alas, I really wronged you......