Figured it out

Lin Yuniang's days of recuperation after that were so comfortable, Lin's father and Lin mother felt that they owed Lin Yuniang, and it was not good to ask her for anything, basically everything depended on her, and Lin's mother also came to see her from time to time, and if she didn't come, she would send her some good things. Although Lin Yuniang doesn't really regard her as a mother, the relationship between the two has eased somewhat, and it looks like something has gotten a little better.

The reason why Lin Yuniang was able to live like this was mainly because she wanted to open it herself. Although it seemed that she had just had a dream during her illness, Lin Yuniang vaguely felt that it was a fact, and she also regarded it as a fact. Now that she knows that she can't go back, Lin Yuniang began to face up to this era and want to live a real good life.

Of course, Lin Yuniang never thought that she would become a model of ladies and ladies in the minds of others in this era. She also figured it out herself, in the past, the reason why she felt that ancient times were difficult was that she used the requirements of ancient ladies to demand herself. In fact, there is no need for her to be a lady at all! Many of the natives here are not very good people.

Instead of a lady, what if you are a little arrogant? What happens if you don't obey a little? What if you don't do your part? Could it be that the Lin family will starve her to death? At most, it's just a little bit of a thing, and she doesn't seem to be so fond of enjoyment!

Of course, if she is too presumptuous, she actually has a great influence, and the biggest impact is her marriage. Marriage was the most important thing in a woman's life in ancient times. But for Lin Yuniang, it doesn't seem to be that important. Her husband wasn't her choice at all, so why did she think about it? In fact, even if Lin Yuniang was allowed to choose by herself, she would not be able to choose a man who could match her. Even if there are excellent men in this era, they will take concubines, even if Lin Yuniang is lucky and meets someone who does not take a concubine, but the idea of male superiority and inferiority is engraved in their bones, Lin Yuniang is so strong by nature, she would rather live with a man who doesn't like her and doesn't need her to deliberately please, rather than find a man who is very good, but needs Lin Yuniang to work hard and even humble to maintain her feelings.

Of course, Lin Yuniang is not planning to do nothing, as the saying goes, striking iron also needs its own hardness, Lin Yuniang also thought about it, and worked hard to improve herself, in ancient times, women did not seem to have any serious way to realize the value of their lives, but Lin Yuniang thought, she can still do something. She first made up her mind that she must worship Mr. Lian as a teacher and have the title of a talented woman.

Intellectuals have always been privileged, although Lin Yuniang is not a man, but as long as she has talent and can show it, then she also has some privileges. If she has a bad temper, ordinary girls will naturally be disliked by others, but if she is a famous talented woman, although others may still dislike her, they may also find a reason for her, "Talented women, it is inevitable to be arrogant." ”

Moreover, although she doesn't want to get married, in this era, the pressure on a woman who doesn't marry is particularly great, and if she is a talented woman, her market will be much better. Modern people always think that the ancients advocated "women are virtuous if they are not talented", of course, this is also true, but in fact, talented women are more popular.

It's like a modern man looking for a wife who likes to find someone who is smarter, so that he can educate his children and leave good genes. It's the same in ancient times, the probability that a girl's son can read is always higher than that of the average person, and it has many benefits for children's education. If Lin Yuniang is asked to please others, or keep pretending for her marriage, Lin Yuniang is naturally unwilling, but if she reads, she likes it originally, and if she can have other benefits, she naturally likes it more.

In addition, Lin Yuniang plans not to talk about the things next to her, she must learn embroidery and painting. This is just in case, in case she really can't get married! Both of these things can be made to be made. You can't rely on your usual words to dislike Father Lin and Mother Lin, and as a result, let people support you for a lifetime! If she really can't get married, she can also make a living by embroidery, selling paintings and copying books. If she can't stay in the capital, then she will go to the Lin family's hometown, as long as Lin Mingde is still an official, no one will bully her in her hometown! As for the Lin family, which also depends on these, Lin Yuniang doesn't think about these issues, anyway, she has no other way.

Lin Yuniang's recent days have been free, and Lin Yueniang often comes to see her when she has nothing to do. As soon as Lin Yuniang saw Lin Yueniang, she would think of Lin Ye, although these two people look completely different, but there is one thing that Lin Yuniang can never compare, and her popularity is very good! It's especially appealing!

It has only been a few days since the two sisters arrived, and the relationship between Lin Yueniang and Mother Lin has been so good that it seems that they have never been separated. Lin Yuniang is sick now, and the things sent by Lin's mother, as long as Lin Yuniang has them, Lin Yueniang must have them, even better than Lin Yuniang's.

At first, Lin Yueniang was worried that Lin Yuniang would be unhappy, so she deliberately hid it from Lin Yuniang, of course, Lin Yuniang still knew about it later. As for being unhappy, if it was Lin Yu in her previous life, knowing that what her parents gave Lin Ye was better than what she gave her, then she would definitely not be happy, and she couldn't stop being jealous of anything, but now Lin Yuniang naturally wouldn't be jealous of Lin Yueniang because of such a trivial matter, not to mention that the two people have a good relationship, just say that Lin Yuniang's psychological age is almost 30, of course, it is impossible to care about this kind of thing.

This is also one thing that Lin Yuniang is more ashamed of, although she is almost 30 years old, she doesn't feel that she is very old when she comes out, she feels that she is still very young, and what she struggles with every day is the question of whether her parents prefer Lin Ye. In fact, Lin's mother is almost 30 years old, and she is already a mother of 4 children. This also makes Lin Yuniang embarrassed to be awkward with Mother Lin, and having an awkward relationship with a person who can be her mother is completely different from having an awkward relationship with a person who is about the same age as herself!

Since Lin Yuniang has decided to worship Mr. Lian as a teacher, it is naturally impossible to be the same as before, if you want to read a book, you can find a book to see, she made a general plan, get up in the morning to write 20 big characters, and then read a book for two hours in the morning, and then look at other things, of course, because the body is not yet well, the hands are weak, and Lin Yuniang still can't do such things as practicing calligraphy. She can only look at the book, look at the paraphrases, at least to understand what the book is about. Then walk around the house twice and that's her workout.