"What are you talking nonsense?" Lu Jiangzhou stopped the two younger brothers who were actively introducing boyfriends to their daughters, and said, my heart hurts, if my daughter can accept a man, he is not demanding much now, just be a man!

"Second uncle, little uncle, I didn't pat?" Lu Hao'er shook her head and said.

"Hao'er, is there a reason? You don't tell us the reason, how do you make us believe, you are a good girl, you are the same age, and our family atmosphere is not bad, how can you think like this. Lu Jiangdan asked worriedly, "Or is it because I have set a bad example." ”

"Mom, don't guess. There are many positive role models in the family, grandfathers and grandmothers. Aren't the three uncles and three aunts a family harmony! Gu Yaluo shook Lu Jiangdan's hand and said comfortingly.

Lu Hao'er hurriedly said, "Oops! Auntie, how cranky you are, it has nothing to do with you, really. She held up her hand and said, "I promise it has nothing to do with all of you here, it's my own reasons. ”

"But why? There has to be a reason! Why do you have to be like this, a child? Lu Jiangdan asked, and everyone looked at Lu Hao'er in unison, waiting for her to give a reasonable answer.

Lu Hao'er's cold eyes flashed with a faint brilliance, and he said indifferently, "Artur Schopenhauer said: All great ideas are born outside the walls of the university. ”

"Don't drag me to the text, tell me the truth." Impatiently, Jiang Huifen waved his hand.

"How did you get into college, what does this have to do with college?" Lu Zhongfu asked puzzled.

"Just to use an analogy, what is the purpose of going to college? Don't tell me I go to college to learn knowledge. Improve capabilities. Of all the answers, I only agree: in order to find a job, the woman is to pack up and find a good man to marry. The three things of a man in order to find a matching woman who can marry and in order to find a friend are all nonsense. Why do you have to stay in college purely for the sake of studying? Where in the world is there for you to learn knowledge?

People go to university to get a diploma that can be recognized by the company, so that they can have a decent job and enjoy the material life of the middle class. Lu Hao'er paused and said, "Buddha Shakyamuni had doubts about birth, old age, sickness and death. Instead of going to the school to ask the teacher, he ran to the woods on the banks of the Nirenzen River to reflect on his own heart. Diogenes, the ancient Greek leader of cynical philosophy, was reluctant to stay in school. And like to lie on the grass on the hillside and lazily bask in the sun. Nowadays, people think of universities as a sacred place for learning knowledge, but they are putting the cart before the horse. ”

Lu Jiangchuan pondered for a moment and said, "What do you want to say, all true love exists outside the walls of marriage." ”

"I hear it, you just want to be in love and not get married. That's a hooligan. Lu Zhongfu pointed at her and was shocked. You're playing with other people's feelings, that's irresponsible. ”

Lu Hao'er hurriedly waved her hand with black lines on her face and said, "No, no, grandpa, I didn't pat, I didn't want to pat, I didn't want to pat, and I didn't want to get married." ”

"Get down to business." Jiang Huifen said with a tiger face.

"Would you forgive me if there is a reasonable reason?" Lu Hao'er looked at them and asked slyly.

"The reasonableness of the reasons and the understanding of the non-understanding are different issues." Lu Zhongfu looked at her for a moment and said, "There are some problems. Even if you have plausibility, it's hard to understand. For example, the problem at hand. It seems to be this nature. ”

"Then there's no need to ask for any reason." Lu Hao'er pursed her lips and said.

"Rather than unconditionally opposing something, it is better to understand the other party, but have no choice but to insist on the attitude of opposition. As an elder, I want to understand you in everything. Lu Zhongfu looked at her and said, "The best way to understand each other is to have a dialogue, and now we want to hear what reason you have for saying that you don't want to get married." Why? ”

"Mom, let Hao'er stand up and say okay?" Zhu Cuiyun pleaded.

"It's such a big rebellion, she still knelt down and said okay." Lu Zhongfu said stiffly with a wrenched face.

"Haoyi, take a chair for Hao'er." Jiang Huifen still felt sorry for her granddaughter in the end, and looked at Lu Zhongfu after the words fell.

"Give her a chair." Lu Zhongfu waved his hand.

Lu Haoyi moved a chair over and helped Lu Hao'er get up and sit on the chair.

Lu Hao'er sat on the chair and rubbed her knees, raised her head, looked at them calmly and said, "I don't like marriage, so I don't want to get married, marriage represents a kind of certainty." The essence of life lies in the near-infinite possibilities, and the more possibilities, the more passionate and energetic life becomes. Everyone can change their current situation and pursue a different self through imagination and hard work. That's what makes life interesting. As a person who lives by the pen, he is more suitable for such an exciting and colorful life. But marriage is all about maintaining certainty. You get a marriage certificate with a person today, as long as you don't get divorced, you will be with that person for ten or twenty years, even before you die. Isn't this life boring? ”

"Shit! Do you think you are a great man in the world? Lu Zhongfu wrenched his face and reprimanded, "Don't use this as an excuse for me, are all famous writers in the world celibate?" ”

"As for being boring? My wife has lived with me for nearly 50 years, half a century, are you bored? Tired of watching? Lu Zhongfu looked at Jiang Huifen and said.

"Boring? Tired of watching? Jiang Huifen coughed lightly twice and said, "How come, I can't see enough!" "It's no wonder I'm tired of watching it for a long time, and it's boring.

"Wife, what about you?" Lu Jiangfan looked straight at Chen Annie.

"Not boring, new discoveries every day. It's true. Chen Annie nodded heavily.

"Haoqi's mother?" Lu Jiangchuan looked at his wife Cheng Wanyi and said.

"Don't talk about it, it's not boring, it's boring, you know it in your own hearts." Lu Hao'er waved his hand.

The juniors pursed their lips and snickered, and they could see how against their intentions they said.

Lu Hao'er's face was still flat and said, "Of the middle-aged marriages I know, none of them still have love. Of course, middle-aged people think that this is right, love is short-lived and fleeting, it cannot last long, and sooner or later it will be transformed into family affection. But that's what I find ridiculous. Obviously, love has disappeared, so it has to be called 'transformed into family affection'. No matter how good the relationship is, there is nothing left to say after ten years of marriage. This is normal, most marriages are not the ideal choice, but the second best compromise. Two people who are not an ideal choice are together, tea rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea every day, running around for tickets, children, houses, and cars, and living a life like this for ten years, there is really nothing to say. (To be continued.) )

PS: Add a new chapter, chapter 594 has been blocked, waiting for review, basically does not affect reading