Chapter 198: Backfire
Seeing that grandma wanted Xinxin to bow her head so directly, Xinxin's parents and uncles were stunned.
Xinxin's mother was just about to speak, but Xinxin had already stood up and said loudly, "Why should I apologize? I'm not wrong! She was the one who was making a fuss about leaving. I asked her to go, and she said I was driving her! Is there such an unreasonable person? Grandma, why are you turning to her? ”
The mother-in-law blushed all of a sudden, and pointed at Xinxin and was almost speechless: "You...... You ......"
Xinxin ignored her mother-in-law, turned her face and looked at Mu Nan angrily and said, "You brought your parents over today just to sue my grandma, right?" ”
Mu Nan didn't expect things to develop like this, and said with a frightened face: "No, no! I...... I want my grandma to mediate for us! ”
Uncle said angrily: "It's been a long time since the lawsuit was filed, and now you say that you want to mediate?" ”
Seeing that they had aimed their firepower at Mu Nan, their father-in-law and mother-in-law hurriedly began to help their son argue with his uncle and Xinxin. The table suddenly became noisy.
Xinxin's mother took advantage of the chaos to help her grandmother into the back room, and the old man still didn't know what was going on, and Xinxin's mother blindly protected her short.
Seeing that his grandmother was no longer around, his uncle had no scruples, so he directly "invited" Mu Nan's family out.
The mother-in-law was still full of confidence just now, but in a blink of an eye, she touched the ash of her nose, and she was very resentful in her heart, scolding all the way. Until I got in the car and walked on the way home, I was still babbling and refused to stop. The father-in-law also felt that he had been treated poorly, and his impression of Xinxin's family dropped a lot in an instant, and he couldn't help but express a few words of dissatisfaction. When the mother-in-law heard this, she scolded even harder. Mu Nan was the only one, and he didn't say a word along the way, as if he had been tapped dumb. What happened today was not what he wanted at all, no, it was simply the opposite of what he had planned. But in the dark, as if there was a force pushing it, the development of things went in an irreversible form in the direction he least wanted to see............
Shin Shin's side here. Still immersed in a sense of anger. Grandma suppressed everyone's anger and relayed the account of Xinxin's in-laws. Xinxin couldn't help crying when she heard her in-laws belittle herself like this. While crying, she told the old man everything that happened, and told her mother-in-law how she tried her best to rectify her previous situation.
Shin Shin has been very sensible since she was a child. The adults in the family take care of her as a baby, and when they hear her crying word by word, knowing that she has suffered so much grievances from her in-laws, everyone is very unhappy. Everyone was speechless for a while, and only Xinxin was heard sobbing aggrievedly.
Xinxin's mother was sad when she saw her daughter crying. Tears also followed, and then he said angrily: "Mu Nan and their family are too much!" Chase people to their homes and make trouble! It's a pity that Yun Ping didn't come with her today, or she would never let them go so cheaply! ”
Grandma also woke up and said, "Alas, it's all my fault!" Listening to only one side of the story, the wrong child is blamed. Xinxin, don't cry, it's all grandma's fault, it's all grandma's fault! ”
When Xinxin heard this, she wiped away her tears and said angrily, "How can I blame you for this? It's all my mother-in-law! It is always possible to turn black and white upside down. Earn people's sympathy, after fooling Mu Nan, I will fool you again! ”
My uncle was also unhappy and said, "We treat them as guests, and they actually tell our mother about our happy state!" Are they so ignorant and ignorant of the depths? Today is the birthday of the elderly! Where is this here to celebrate his birthday, obviously he is here to stir up the situation! ”
Xinxin's father was silent for a long time and said: "Looking at it this way, the grievances between my in-laws and us have become deeper and deeper. Mu Nan's attitude seems to be very vague today. If it goes on like this, I see, Shin Shin. You really have to think about how you want to go from here. ”
Xinxin's mother was taken aback and said, "What do you mean?" Do they dare to mention divorce? ”
Xinxin's father shook his head and said, "I don't know either." But today, things are like this, looking at the appearance of Mu Nan's parents, I am afraid they will not give up. Naturally, we won't just put up with it. Prepare for the worst in everything. to be prepared. ”
Xinxin said coldly: "If you leave, who is afraid of whom?" ”
Grandma hurriedly said: "Where is this, just leave." Your dad meant to guard against it, but it hasn't gotten to that point yet. ”
Xinxin lowered her head and didn't speak, feeling sad for a while, and tears fell again.
Dad saw this. He walked over and patted Xinxin on the shoulder and said, "Xinxin, you are an adult now." Dad told you this in the hope that you can become mature, think about things more comprehensively and calmly, deal with problems, and live a good life in the future by your own ability. Mom and Dad are old and limited in what they can do for you. In the future, you will have to rely on yourself! You can't always be emotional, and you can't do everything without thinking about the consequences. Do you understand what Dad means? ”
Xinxin looked at her father and nodded heavily: "I understand." I'll think about it and think about it. If nothing else, for the sake of my children, I will try to live a good life. ”
Dad nodded with satisfaction and said to Mom, "It seems that going through a little thing is not necessarily a bad thing. We used to love Xinxin too much and protect Xinxin too much, but she couldn't withstand a little wind and rain. It's our fault. It's too late to change now. ”
The mother objected with teary eyes and said, "Isn't it right to love the child? It's her in-laws who are too disagreeable. If we don't help her, who will help her? ”
Dad said, "Of course we have to help her, but she also has to be independent." What kind of life she wants, what she has to give up and what she insists on for such a life, she must know and have the ability to go on step by step. ”
The uncle interjected when he heard this: "What my brother-in-law said is right. Xinxin, how do you go in the future, what are you going to do with Mu Nan, you have to have a score in your heart. After all, it's your life. No one can replace it. ”
Shin Shin looked at her caring family and the child sleeping soundly on the sofa, and suddenly felt a little frightened and confused. The complexity and hardship of family life was something she had never imagined before. In fact, she is not ready yet, she is already a wife and a mother. Up to now, she is still confused, just relying on enthusiasm to deal with her feelings, and she has never had a long-term plan and a clear understanding. This may be an important reason why she failed to handle family relationships well.
But can she be blamed? No one had ever told her about it, and she had never heard of it before, and she had rarely even heard of the fights between her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law before. The huge differences between her and her mother-in-law due to region, culture, family education, etc., were completely unexpected by her. In a hasty response, just with a kind wish, the natural result can only be to run into walls everywhere. This may be a common problem faced by many simple girls who have just entered society and have children.
Unfortunately, Shin Shin's problem is clearly more severe and more prominent. She didn't know if she could handle this qiē well, and she even began to complain about fate for letting her meet such a superb mother-in-law and a cowardly and confused husband. She even thought about divorce in the end, although it was an ending that even she feared...... (To be continued.) )