With the support of Mu Nan's one-sided policy, the mother-in-law can finally let go of her hands and feet to watch the child. She was full of joy and thought she was doing her best. Maybe it's because of her age, my mother-in-law likes children very much, in addition to always holding him, she always likes to tease him. If the child is sleepy and about to sleep, she teases him to make him active again. If he fell asleep, she would make all kinds of noises around him, clapping her hands, calling him loudly, shaking the rattle around, and doing everything she could to wake him up. As soon as the child opened his eyes, the mother-in-law immediately happily continued to play with him. Xinxin was very angry, but the child had already woken up, and there was nothing she could do. Later, the mother-in-law simply went directly to the child's ear to clap her hands and wake him up to play with herself. Shin Shin couldn't stand it anymore, so she simply locked her door and didn't let her mother-in-law in. But the mother-in-law is not in a hurry or impatient, people can't come in, and the voice can still come in. She knocked loudly on the door outside, and asked in a loud voice, "Is the child asleep?" So the child was woken up again. Xinxin told her mother-in-law that it was not good to let the child sleep, but her mother-in-law was still aggrieved, and replied, "Didn't he sleep?" Xinxin almost collapsed, every day as soon as Mu Nan entered the door, Xinxin had to negotiate with him about this issue. Mu Nan is also the first two big, because her mother-in-law has already complained to him, saying that Xinxin doesn't let her play with the child. He couldn't figure out who was right and who was wrong, so he had to deal with both sides, but neither side was pleased, his mother-in-law complained that his ears were too soft and only listened to the pillow wind, and his daughter-in-law relied on him to know that he protected his mother regardless of right and wrong. Mu Nan was so annoyed that she finally got angry. Xinxin is naturally not afraid of him, and her mother-in-law will not resent her son, but she has put the accounts on the other party, and the conflict between her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has begun to escalate.

After that, when Xinxin was breastfeeding, her mother-in-law would also come over to tease the child, which made Xinxin very annoying. Once the child only cared about feeding and ignored her, the mother-in-law was anxious, so she patted the child back and forth to attract his attention, and the child only cared about where to eat and ignored her, and the mother-in-law was a little annoyed, and the child's hand was heavy. Xinxinke was not happy, and forcibly pushed her mother-in-law's hand away, afraid that she would hurt the child. But even such a rough intervention could not dampen the mother-in-law's enthusiasm for teasing the child.

The angry Xinxin told Mu Nan several times about this, but Mu Nan was so annoyed that it was difficult to mediate the relationship between her mother and wife, so she simply turned a deaf ear to Xinxin and her mother-in-law's appeals. As a result, on the ninth day of the mother-in-law's visit to the child, the child did not sleep for a day, not only did not sleep, but also cried vigorously, and the family took turns to hold, walk, and pat, to no avail. The mother-in-law was helpless, but kept saying, "This kid is too noisy and disobedient." It's too noisy, it's too disobedient...... I've never seen a child like this. ”

Xinxin said: "Always hugging, always don't let the child sleep, no matter how good the child is, he can't stand it." How old is he, how can he not be allowed to sleep all the time? I don't sleep when I get old, and my whole biological clock is out of order. The child is sleepy and can't sleep, so it's strange if he doesn't make trouble. ”

Mu Nan saw the seriousness of the consequences this time, and finally stood on Xinxin's side and began to complain about her mother.

The next day, the mother-in-law was ordered to leave the room, leaving Shin Shin alone to guard the child. The child was free of the disturbance of his mother-in-law, and finally fell asleep peacefully. And I slept for seven hours straight at once. This left the mother-in-law with nothing to say.

In private, Mu Nan sighed while accompanying Xinxin: "It is said that my mother has seen so many children, how can this be?" Really old and confused? ”

Xinxin pouted and said, "It's not up to you?" You always say that your mother is old, and it is hard to watch the children, and your father helps wash the diapers, and you also cook the meals, so that your mother-in-law can watch the children wholeheartedly. She has nothing to do all day long, so she chats with the child, thinking about the child's fun and teasing him every day. But that's not it. When you were young, she had to go to the field, cook, and do laundry, so how could she have time to pick up you, so naturally you couldn't keep holding and teasing like this. ”

Mu Nan nodded in agreement, but was a little puzzled: "The children of the two elder brothers' families are also raised by her, and there are no such problems!" ”

Xinxin glanced at her mouth and said, "You still don't admit that you have an elm head!" Did anyone wash her diapers at that time? Does anyone help her cook? She also grows her own vegetables. To put it mildly, the toilet in your house is far away in the yard, and she can let the child sleep a few times a day even if she goes to the toilet a few times. It's like us here, all in the same room, and as soon as we raise our feet, we come back, and the child's eyes haven't been closed, and he wakes up again. Hearing this, Mu Nan nodded vigorously and sighed: "It's true." So let's do it, let my mother cook in the future, let her wash our clothes, find some work for her, and she won't have time to keep an eye on the child. Xinxin said, "I don't care about your clothes, I'll wash my clothes myself." But I'm afraid I won't be able to be a filial daughter-in-law in the future, and I'll say her if she does this again. Anyway, I'm okay to guard the child, and she doesn't like me to just don't see it. The young couple discussed it properly, and the plan was implemented from the next day.

Mother-in-law got up in the morning and waited for Mu Nan to cook, but Mu Nan said, "Mom, you will do it in the future." I love to eat what you make. ”

The mother-in-law said, "You can do it." Or you do. He urged Mu Nan several times in a row. Mu Nan couldn't do it, so she had to go into the kitchen. Xinxin was very unhappy to see it. At noon, her mother-in-law came to ask Mu Nan to cook again, and Xinxin repeatedly told Mu Nan to "unite the front". So Mu Nan refused to enter the kitchen again, and her mother-in-law finally stretched her face and went into the kitchen.

If the son's behavior brought only a little unhappiness to the mother-in-law, the daughter-in-law's behavior made her aggrieved. Although the daughter-in-law did not explicitly say that she would not let her look at the child, when she watched, the daughter-in-law did not leave the left and right for a step, and was not allowed to hug him for a while, not to talk to him for a while, and not to tease him for a while. In the end, she could only sit there like a wooden man and watch the child, without saying a word. Where is this to see children, obviously they are living a sin! She complained to her father-in-law, but her father-in-law just sighed and let her endure it. He didn't dare to tell her that his son had told him not to wash her diapers. But seeing that his wife was so wronged, the old man decided not to listen to his son, and still took on the "heavy responsibility" of washing diapers.

When they were walking together, a group of old ladies heard what happened to their mother-in-law and began to give her ideas.

Aunt Li was the most righteous, and immediately said: "She doesn't let you look at the child according to your own wishes, so you just don't show her at all." If she is too tired to do so, she will know your benefits, and there will be no so much to do. ”

The mother-in-law shook her head when she heard this: "She just sees a lot of herself, and always instructs me to do some rough work." I'm going to cook, wash dishes, do laundry, ......"

Grandma Zhang always values harmony, she persuaded: "People are their own mothers, and they are their own daughters-in-law, so they are also their own children, let them be as good as they are, what are the old people fighting for with their children." ”

The mother-in-law also shook her head: "That's not the same as her own child, let her be like this, she will still want to be like that, and she will have to step on my head in everything in the future, when will this be a head." ”

Aunt Li said: "If you want me to say, you are too wretched, in a word: don't do it for her!" ”

The mother-in-law was embarrassed and said, "Then what can I do, I was originally here to see the child, I didn't do anything, and my son couldn't talk about it." ”

Aunt Li said, "Stupid, you won't work a little harder." What are you doing slowly, doing this, can she still tell you to do that? If you have nothing to do, just lie on the bed and rest, she wants to ask, you just say that your back hurts and your legs hurt, and she can still wake you up from the bed? ”

The mother-in-law nodded: "Then she's embarrassed." Okay, then I'll do as you say! ”