Chapter 58: Fever
Shin Shin grinds on the bed until dinner is served before getting up. In the dining room, Xinxin's mother prepared a table full of dishes for the Chinese New Year. The mother still felt that it was not enough, and kept saying: "I am in a hurry, and I haven't bought several of the dishes that Xinxin loves to eat." Wait until tomorrow to let your dad get up early and go to the morning market to buy it, and then make it for you to eat. ”
In order to let Xinxin's little two eat a meal, the old couple had simply eaten some in advance, and then took the initiative to pick up the child and let Xinxin, Mu Nan and grandma eat well. Although there are only three people on the table with chopsticks, because Xinxin hasn't eaten her mother's cooking for a long time, her appetite is great, and after eating a meal, the dishes on the table actually go seven or eight points.
At night, the family gathered in the living room to watch TV, Xinxin allowed Mu Nan to go to the bedroom to read a book, Mu Nan happily touched a book on the old father-in-law's bookshelf and hid in the bedroom. Xinxin's father is a teacher, and there are several bookshelves of books, and Mu Nan can't move every time he stands in front of the bookshelf, and he can't wait to move home. Xinxin had already booked with her father, and she didn't want anything else, she would want these shelves of books for the old man in the future. For this, Ni Yunping also teased her: "If you only need books, then we will earn it!" Xinxin didn't care, who called Mu Nan like it!
I don't know if it's because of blood relationship, or because Xinxin's mother takes good care of her, the child has been very well-behaved since she got into the hands of grandma and grandpa, she doesn't cry or make trouble, she eats when she eats, urinates when she urines, and grins happily from time to time. Xinxin watched TV for a while, and then remembered that her mother had also watched the child for most of the day, and she wanted to take it over to her parents to rest, but found that her mother didn't seem to be very tired. So, curiously asked my mother for advice. Mom has already shown her brother that she has grown up a child, and the experience is just right, so she told Xinxin about parenting: "Little child, you can't wait for him to cry before you think of letting him eat and drink Lazar, although he is just a villain, but he is also a person, isn't it?" It's just that people are still young, and the rules are not quite the same as adults, but they also have their own rules. For example, how long does it take to eat, and how long does it take to pee after eating. How long do you have to sleep, how long do you have to wake up. If you lie down for a long time, you have to hug it, and if you hold it for a long time, you have to lie down for a while and stretch your body. Also, even though they are small, they like to play with people. When you are fed, you throw them there and ignore them, or you hug them but only care about the adults themselves, of course they are not happy. You have to coax and tease him so that he can be happy. In addition, the expressions of children are all signal lights, and you can see what kind of expressions they have when they want to eat, what kind of expressions they have when they want to sleep, what kind of expressions they have when they want to hug you, and what kind of expressions they have when they want to pee. There are also differences in the sound of his crying, and they all represent different meanings. If you master the rules, children are comfortable and adults can save effort. If the child is irregular, the adult will be tired. If you can adjust the child in time, it's okay, but I'm afraid that the adults will be confused, the more irregular the child is, the more troublesome the adults will be, and the more tired and irritable the adults will be, and it will become a vicious circle in the long run. So you, a mother, must pay attention to observation and study. ”
Xinxin sighed lightly and said, "Alas, my sister-in-law is so happy, she didn't care about anything when she was a child." Like me, you have to learn everything by yourself. Then he complained helplessly: "My mother-in-law doesn't know anything, I told her that the child should go to bed on time, and she still thinks I have too many things." She thinks that as long as the child cries and feeds milk, everything will be fine. ”
My mother said apologetically, "It's just that you live too far away from us, if you are closer, I can come over every day to help you." ”
Xinxin waved her hand and said, "Forget it, it's useless to get close." Mu Nan's hometown is all old antiques, and the grandson must show it to his grandmother, or it will be a shame. So in the end, the child still has to show my mother-in-law, and it will make you have conflicts. So it's okay like this, I don't have to worry about it when I'm far away, and I'll be able to support myself and have enough food and clothing. Hee-hee. ”
The mother glanced at her daughter distressedly, and said helplessly: "The main thing is that your father is still rehired and has to go to school." Or I really want to move over and help you watch the children, and see that you are tired, and you have lost weight. ”
Xinxin comforted her mother and said, "Who said it, I have weighed it, and I have grown ten catties of meat." Besides, I think it's good to bring a little more and get closer to the children. Besides, there is a pocket, she has to be picked up and dropped. Grandma also needs someone to take care of her. Mom, don't think about it, I'm fine now. ”
Mom nodded and said, "Mu Nan is a good boy, you should be more considerate and considerate of him." To tell you the truth, your brother didn't have as much devotion to your children back then. ”
Xinxin listened to her mother praise her man, her heart was still very beautiful, she just wanted to take good care of Mu Nan these days and report it to her mother, and suddenly saw Mu Nan coming out of the bedroom, so she hurriedly stopped, this man is a little potato, without praise, he can't make him proud and complacent.
The family spent half the night happily. The wall clock on the wall struck nine o'clock, and my mother got up and urged them to rest: "Go to bed early." Children's sleep should be regular, go to bed early and get up early, which is good for both adults and children. And Mu Nan has to go to work tomorrow, it's far away from their unit, so they have to get up early. ”
When Xinxin heard this, she took the child and Mu Nan into the room. Coaxed the child to sleep, Mu Nan hugged Xinxin again and performed a Zhou Gong ceremony, and the two fell asleep soundly.
Sleeping until midnight, Xinxin felt that the child arched into her arms, she unbuttoned her clothes in a daze to feed the child, but found that the small body next to her was very hot, she woke up all of a sudden, reached out and touched the child's forehead, so hot! Xinxin hurriedly woke Mu Nan up, and Mu Nan also encountered this situation for the first time, and the two of them immediately panicked. Xinxin called her parents up with a crying voice. The father hurriedly took out a thermometer to take the child's temperature, 37 degrees 8. The mother brought warm water towels to cool the child's palms and feet, and told Shin Shin not to be in a hurry and observe first. There are always children's medicines at home, and you can take some when necessary. But the current situation is unknown, and the burn is not particularly high. You can take a look at it first.
Mu Nan was more anxious than Xinxin, but he didn't know what to do, so he dialed the phone to his home in a panic. This may also be the instinct of most people, when encountering an unknown situation, especially about children, the first reaction is to ask for help from their parents.
The mother-in-law answered the phone sleepily, and woke up immediately when she heard it. Because I didn't see it with my own eyes, there was a child in my hometown who didn't quit because of a high fever, and my mother-in-law immediately tightened her scalp, and told Mu Nan to send the child to the hospital quickly, saying that it might be dangerous if it was delayed. Mu Nan also panicked when she heard this, and hurriedly called around to find a car.
Xinxin's mother was going to persuade her, but after all, she is not a doctor, and her experience may not be suitable for other children, so no one can pack a ticket and say that the current situation is fine. So I simply changed my clothes and decided to go with the past, and there were always multiple people to discuss.