Chapter 363: Fiancée
Marriage proposals, as the most important part of the complex step of getting married, are both simple and complex. The simple thing is that if two people are already connected and don't care about ritualistic things, this is a very simple step. Ask if you would like to marry me, and answer one I do. That's the end of it, no rings, no rituals. In places where Western-style weddings are not popular, such as the mainland 10 years ago, marriage proposal is a dispensable thing, and the wedding is more important (you can receive red envelopes).
But for some, the meaning and importance of a marriage proposal is far greater than a wedding. They can have no wedding, but there must be a marriage proposal. In Du Hanwen's mind, there is such a concept, the wedding is an excuse for relatives and friends to have a reasonable gathering, and it is a legitimate reason to recover the gift money that has been sent in those years. Only the marriage proposal is the expression of the personal feelings of the husband and wife, and the life is lived by two people, and it has little to do with other people. But in the complex system of marriage, only the marriage proposal belongs to two people and each other.
So Du Hanwen refused the invitation to the party, turned off the phone, and accompanied Zhang Junning, who was still in a trance. For the girl, the proposal was expected, but it was unexpected. Unexpectedly, with Du Hanwen's understanding, Zhang Junning knew that this man was a man who wanted to start a family. There is no strange idea of non-marriage, the purpose of his love is to get married and start a family, so there will definitely be a marriage proposal.
Unexpectedly, it is said that I never thought that it would be this point in time, of course, the marriage proposal must have been unexpected, and the proposal that came to mind was never pleasantly surprised. But this surprise is too pleasant, and I'm still in college, isn't it? Well, this is not a big deal, as long as the parents agree, the girl can get married at the age of sixteen. I'm twenty years old. By September, you can go to the household office to register. Logically, of course, there is no problem. It's just that getting married in a Chinese-speaking area has never been a matter of just two people.
It is not said that marriage is the integration of two families, Du Hanwen has no parents, this is not discussed. But it seems to be in a sense. His own family doesn't know and support Du Hanwen so much. Although he is an adult, the guardianship has also been with his mother since he was a child. The meaning of the surname Zhang is difficult to erase, and the opinion of the Zhang family is a very important opinion. Dad's lack of support, and the Zhang family's unfamiliarity with Du Hanwen have become one of Zhang Junning's worries. Another layer of worry is that Zhang Junning himself is not ready to get married so early.
It's one thing to say yes to a marriage proposal, it's another thing to get married. The marriage proposal was to be agreed, because he was ready to be with Du Hanwen. It was done a long time ago. As for getting married, this question made Zhang Junning a little distressed. A gifted student who has just been separated from the sea of books and exams has just entered the university for two years. Although I have been forcing myself to mature and mature, I have been maturing constantly. I have to admit that I have just begun to understand Du Hanwen's world. I have just begun to perceive this society as a social person, and learn to be a mature woman who works hard in society, rather than a good student who is very good at studying in school.
Zhang Junning knew he wasn't ready. As Du Hanwen's girlfriend, you can always meet many stars, including the wives of celebrities. I have been in contact with the other half of many artists. Most of what Zhang Junning saw was complete vassalization. It is difficult for artists to have much time to maintain their families, and women have to take on more family roles. Celebrity wives are basically full-time housewives, especially in this era, even if it is a combination of two artists, it is generally based on the premise of the female star's retirement.
Zhang Junning, the profession of housewife, did not object, and even spent a long time trying to learn how to cook. Do housework. I don't object to being the person behind Du Hanwen who pays silently, for a while, I have always been like this. But this does not mean that Zhang Junning is happy in it, and he enjoys this life endlessly. He is also trying to change Du Hanwen, and even asks Du Hanwen to go home every day if necessary.
At this point, Du Hanwen has been doing a good job. And actively involve yourself in the operation of the company, and find that you can really help him. Of course, this is not life, life is the process that the real Du Hanwen and the real Zhang Junning need to spend time slowly. This role positioning, Zhang Junning has not yet been found. Or because he is still a student, it is difficult for Du Hanwen to give himself a suitable role for himself to play.
From what Du Hanwen has been doing, Zhang Junning knows that he is thinking about allowing himself to join the company's operations in the future. He even took his place in Komi Wisdom and had his own business. Zhang Junning is full of expectations for this, otherwise he would not have studied the media. But after all, it's a distant view, and even though it's a scenery that you can see and touch, don't you have to walk through it?
Did this proposal come a little early, maybe it would be more appropriate when I graduated from my senior year? When he put on his bachelor's uniform in the morning and took graduation photos, and put on his wedding dress in the afternoon to be a beautiful bride, Zhang Junning dreamed of this picture. But everything Du Hanwen did was blameless, and the planned behavior under the impulse of marriage proposal was already full of unpredictability. What if it's early, then I have to be a fiancée for a while.
This is the power of love, even if an inappropriate marriage proposal appears, it will not affect Zhang Junning's feelings for Du Hanwen. Accepted, quickly adjusted the role. I am Du Hanwen's fiancée, Zhang Junning looked in the mirror and said softly. Kissing the diamond ring on the ring finger of his left hand, those more rational thoughts were forgotten. Marriage is the product of impulse, and it is terrible for two people to get married after careful consideration. That's not love, it's just a sound investment analysis.
Looking at the flashing call prompt on his mobile phone, Zhang Junning also learned from Du Hanwen to turn off his mobile phone and throw it aside. Since this incident happened in the evening, Zhang Junning's mobile phone has not been disconnected. Qingfeng's congratulations were okay, but the reporters who inexplicably asked for an interview really gave Zhang Junning a headache. Neurotic, these people, it doesn't matter to you whether I get married or not. Of course, Zhang Junning was in a good mood, but he just declined the interview. It's just that there are countless such calls, and once my mother's phone couldn't come in.
Pouring himself a glass of water, Zhang Junning leaned on Du Hanwen's arms a little weakly, because he was mentally weak. The successive unexpected stimuli really made the girl's nerves a little tense after getting used to calm. Only by relying on the person next to him and feeling that Du Hanwen can handle everything well, can he let himself be empty, otherwise he will feel a little headache.
"Wife?" Du Hanwen called this not-so-new pronoun. Whether it was in the previous relationship with Zhang Junning, or in the relationship between himself and some girls who were still a lecturer earlier, Du Hanwen called this title. It's just that it's never been so apt to be called. In other words, it used to be a joke, but this time it's for real, and it feels different.
"Huh?" Zhang Junning's face turned red, and he didn't look at Du Hanwen's eyes, and whispered, "Husband." ”
"I think when I go back to Taichung this time, your father will kill me." Du Hanwen said, amusing Zhang Junning, "Nerves, my dad just doesn't support it, not against it." ”
"Are you chewing words? Isn't not supporting it an opposition? Du Hanwen was just diverting Zhang Junning's attention.
The girl looked at Du Hanwen very seriously, and frowned slightly, "Of course there is a difference, why am I chewing words." He doesn't support it because he is my father, and no father wants his daughter to find a boyfriend, only mothers will force their children to find a partner. The daughter is the father's lover in the last life, if you seduce him as a lover, can he support it? ”
"That's not still opposition." Du Hanwen spread his hands in exchange for Zhang Junning's punch.
"The problem is that his opposition is invalid." Zhang Junning was helpless, "The opposition is effective, he has already dragged me home." He is a professor at National Taiwan University, and he is the face of his father. He just feels that he can't get over face, and you never praise him, he can't find a sense of superiority. As a teacher, he has always been the only one who trains students, isn't your age just the age of being his student, and it is inevitable that there will be some thoughts of wanting to be majestic. It's just that you don't play teacher-student games with him, he's just very depressed. If you are in a bad mood, you will naturally not support it. ”
Du Hanwen suddenly realized, it turns out that the problem is here, I'll just say it. Little brother, I can also be regarded as young and rich, with an innocent family background, a good reputation, and excellent character and learning. No matter how you look at it, it's all in the category of the golden beetle son-in-law, the diamond Kaizi, why don't you look down on me all the time? It turns out that this bookish spirit will also kill people, I really forgot that Uncle Zhang is a literati, it is inevitable that there is some freshness, literary and artistic young thoughts, in popular terms, it is a little arrogant.
"Then this time, I took the initiative to ask him about relevant knowledge, my uncle is too addicted to being a teacher?" Du Hanwen humbly asked.
"That's not good, it didn't matter if I didn't propose before, but now it's different. You have to bow your head to him, and then you have to follow his will for the rest of your life. I don't know what kind of person my dad is? Stubborn and a little clever. You have to follow him, he can find a way to make you uncomfortable every day, just like cleaning up the classmates in the class who don't write essays well. Zhang Junning said with a serious face.
Du Hanwen was speechless, this girl is not talking nonsense. Looking at Zhang Junning's posture, it 100% confirms the authenticity of this sentence. probably felt that what he said was a bit excessive, Zhang Junning blushed and explained, "I mean you just need to get closer to my mother, this is the core idea, and everything else is false." ”
"So I'll buy a limited bag?" Du Hanwen is really not good at how to please his mother-in-law, this skill has just accumulated experience.
Zhang Junning tilted his head and thought about it, "My sister knows more about this, I'll ask her another day." ”
It's time to stop cooking, and it's here. Du Hanwen was also speechless, Zhang Junning's intelligence, anyone who really wanted to underestimate her would be played to death by her. (To be continued.) )