27. Happiness is a cup of tea 2

“… In the past, I used to sit in the classroom and listen to others talk about learning methods, and then learn from others' learning methods. Today, since I am fortunate to be able to stand here in a different position to speak, I personally feel that it is necessary to talk about the commonplace learning methods. After all, who doesn't want to take their grades to the next level?

In fact, everyone can have different learning methods, and there is no need to be the same. At the same time, it doesn't necessarily mean that everyone sitting here really has any light tricks in learning. Sometimes the scope of application of a person's learning method is really wide, and it can be used by dozens or even hundreds of people together, and the effect is not bad. But such a good thing is a very special phenomenon after all. More often than not, one person's learning method only works for this one person, and if a second person is replaced, not only will it not play a positive role in itself, but it may also be counterproductive.

Far from it, there are examples of this all around me. Both of them are good friends of mine, and it is not an exaggeration to say that their grades are "outstanding", but they have very opposite learning methods to each other.

Everyone doesn't have to look back, for various reasons, the two of them couldn't show up in our room tonight - Wei Yuntao improvised on the spot.

One of them was very good at staying up late, better than I could, and we used to stay up late together. After all, staying up late is not good for the body, so I changed it a long time ago, but she still lingers in it and enjoys it. She had six hours of sleep a day, and staying up all night was her usual routine, and she never seemed to know tired and tired, and maybe only on weekends would she get a good night's sleep to make up for the sleep lost during the week. It's just that whether she can make it up or not is only known to her. Fortunately, her hard work and efforts have not been in vain, there is always a reward for her efforts, and her extraordinary diligence has been exchanged for her proud good results. It's not in vain that she has stayed up so many nights more than others; It's not in vain that she has completed more exercises than others; It's not in vain that she has read more information than others. It's worth it! The other person is the opposite, his favorite thing to do is sleep. Even if he only slept for a second the first night, he had to make up for it the next day, otherwise he felt that he had suffered a big loss, and he couldn't even balance psychologically. In his spare time, he was no longer visible in the classroom. Learning is learning, and rest is resting. He clearly distinguishes between the two. I studied seriously in class, and I had fun after class. The enviable grades he has come purely from the digestion and absorption in the classroom. Even his mental arithmetic ability is many times stronger than the average person doesn't know. He can give the answer to a simple question at a glance. So it's a matter of course that he has good results.

Can you say that these two methods are not considered learning methods? Moreover, these two very different learning methods can make one person perform well ahead of the rest of the class. But both of these are the most extreme methods at the same time, which one can be used as a reference for our third person? I don't think so. What do you say?

People are inherently different from each other, that is, the ten fingers are still long and short, coupled with the wisdom of creation opportunities, and even the same big tree may have completely different conclusions in the eyes of different people. So why do you have to ask yourself to learn from others? There is nothing wrong with making up for weaknesses, but things must be the opposite! You can't blindly see the east and learn from the east, and see the west and learn from the west, if so, it will inevitably become an example of the east. Personally, I don't deliberately learn from this person and that person, what I do every day is nothing more than listening carefully to lectures, taking notes, doing exercises, plus personal understanding, that's all. Personally, I think it is important for everyone to choose the most suitable learning method according to their actual situation. Why do you have to order every cat to be white to catch mice?

Mei Xueyao wrote another note: Wei Yuntao is talking about you and An Ning.

Tang Tang came back: I think Wei Yuntao is not only a roundworm in your stomach, but also a roundworm in my stomach. It's just that when did roundworms evolve so advanced, they could come to the stage to speak human words, and they said so boldly.

After the meeting ended, Mei Xueyao made Tang Tang a cup of tea as usual, blew it carefully, and then handed it over. This is Mei Xueyao's habit. Every time Tang Tang came down from the conference room, the first thing he did was to take the water cup from Mei Xueyao's hand with a happy face, and then raised his head and drank it all.

It's just that today, Tang Tang took it, maybe the water temperature was still a little hot, Tang Tang's hand took the cup trembled slightly, and the tea in the cup swayed slightly. "Yaoyao, I'm sorry, I..." Tang Tang only felt that the glass in his hand was much heavier than usual, and the weight made him almost unable to speak.

Mei Xueyao didn't speak, her eyes just looked at the tea in Tang Tang's hand. In Mei Xueyao's eyes, Tang Tang has always been as good as ever. This kind of excellence has nothing to do with Tang Tang's grades, Tang Tang's ranking, and even less with whether Tang Tang can go to the conference room on the sixth floor. Even if Tang Tang can't go to that conference room in the future, Mei Xueyao will make a cup of tea with the right temperature for Tang Tang every time. This cup of tea has nothing to do with homework.

Tang Tang obediently raised his head and drank the tea in the cup.

Wei Yuntao walked in: "Guess you're all there!" Who can go out with me to breathe, I'm going to suffocate. ”

"Ask Tang Tang to accompany me," An Ning said, "I still want Yaoyao to accompany me." ”

"That's what I said," Wei Yuntao said, "Didn't Mei Xueyao accompany you all day long, and it wouldn't be bad for a while." ”

An Ning glanced at Wei Yuntao deeply: "That was before!" Now it is true that Yaoyao accompanies Tang Tang all day long. Only by sending Tang Tang away, Yaoyao will have my existence in her eyes. ”

"Oh?" Wei Yuntao's curiosity was suddenly raised.

"Tang Tang and Yaoyao were there all night, you and me, where is there a big living person like me in my eyes! The two of them are transparent to me. An Ning teased. I'm telling the truth, I don't believe you can ask the two of them if there's such a thing! ”

"An Ning is jealous, haha-" Wei Yuntao laughed even more.

"Humph!" An Ning turned his face away.

"An Ning," Mei Xueyao smiled, "How about making you a cup of apology tea, don't be angry anymore." ”

An Ning turned around: "I really regret giving you two a matchmaker, I regret dying!" I only care about my own sweetness, and I don't care about the feelings of us who are single. Tang Tang, don't leave yet, you really call me to pick up. An Ning pretended to raise his right hand towards Tang Tang and stretched out his palm.

Tang Tang jumped up and ran out of the classroom directly.

"Tell me leader, where are we going now?" Tang Tang put his hands in his pockets and faced Wei Yuntao.

Wei Yuntao smiled evilly: "Let's go to the garden, how about it?" ”

"Begging for a beating!" Tang Tang swung his fist over, and it was about to be implemented.

Who knew that Wei Yuntao had already taken precautions, and one sideways dodged, and Tang Tang's fist smashed into the air.

Tang Tang didn't accompany Wei Yuntao to the small garden after all, the small garden full of miracles. It's strange that the place where the two misunderstandings between him and Mei Xueyao were solved were actually there. The first time was An Ning who asked Mei Xueyao to the garden, and then misunderstood Bing Shi; The second time was when Mei Xueyao herself ran into the garden inexplicably, and then indirectly cleared up the misunderstanding through Wei Yuntao's mouth. What a lovely little garden! It's his Tang Tang's blessed land, how can he go casually? So when Tang Tang forced Wei Yuntao back to the dormitory, Tang Tang also rode the motorcycle home.