Chapter 18: May the Buddha bless
It is said that after Jun Xiang left Jiajia's house, he drove the car to the road again at a gallop, he opened the window, rested on the window with one hand, and held the steering wheel with the other hand, although the wind blowing in the middle of the night in summer was quite cool and comfortable, but at this moment, Jun Xiang was in turmoil! Worried!
Jun Xiang couldn't figure out what Jiajia's attitude was towards Ye Pei, although Jiajia didn't seem to have a big ups and downs at the beginning, and she was also very intoxicated in her arms, like a docile little sheep, but then her attitude towards herself was obviously much colder, cold like a piece of ice. So the current situation is really not optimistic and really worrying!
"Hey! It's really hard to guess a woman's mind! After thinking about it, Jun Xiang couldn't help but sigh,
"Damn Ye Pei! The skin is so thick! I don't know my own weight! If I Jun Xiang had been in love with you, it would be forgivable for you to play tricks, but I have only met you once, if it weren't for your father's face, I would have been too lazy to pay attention to you," Jun Xiang thought about it while driving, and couldn't help but muttered again,
Two years ago, I just graduated and started working, and the scene is as vivid as a movie screening. I remember that it was early one morning in early September, and Junxiang came to this Fortune 500 company with great interest and full of energy.
When I first walked to the gate of this enterprise, I was met by a man who looked very handsome, gentle and elegant, tall and tall, with black and shiny hair. His eyes weren't too big, but they were very bright. The square also has an amiable smile on his face, giving people a warm feeling, and people can't help but feel the urge to come forward and talk to him for a few words.
Jun Xiang is no exception, so, when Jun Xiang saw this, he immediately had this urge to talk to him, so Jun Xiang hurriedly went up to ask this man about the specific location of the new enterprise personnel.
I don't know if Jun Xiang is too standard or what the reason is, I saw that the gentleman smiled politely at Jun Xiang without opening his mouth, and this smile revealed his neatly arranged teeth, which were as beautiful as pearls......
It is both a coincidence and fate, after Junxiang officially worked, he learned that the man he met at the door of the company one day was his direct boss and Ye Pei's father.
Soon after entering the new enterprise, Junxiang showed extraordinary talent, and the business was simply proficient, as if it was an old employee who had worked for many years, and the business through his hands could be completed with quality and quantity, coupled with the politeness and thoughtfulness of dealing with people, and never proud of his achievements! So he was quickly praised by new and old employees, and at the same time appreciated by his boss! Soon, Junxiang was also exceptionally promoted to the middle level of the enterprise as a leader.
After many investigations, Ye Pei's father had the intention of making Junxiang his fast son-in-law! After a year of observation, his boss, Ye Pei's father, solemnly expressed his thoughts to Jun Xiang. At that time, this news made Jun Xiang feel quite embarrassed and sudden, but because of his boss, it was difficult to dismiss the situation, and he thought to himself, just to meet, there was no need to be too nervous, and it was inconvenient to offend the boss when he first came, so he had a meal together with Ye Pei's father when he didn't know anything about Ye Pei's character.
Ye Peiren's appearance is not bad, quite a bit of posture, not long after meeting, there was not a long conversation at the dinner table, and the dinner was not half of the time, but Ye Pei's speech and demeanor were already shocking! Far from being a lady, on the contrary, everything is strong! Jun Xiang can't help but think of a passage said by Li Ao, a master of Chinese culture, "A girl I know, she will never" not let the general customary writing "equality between men and women" be written as "equality between women and men", I think she must stand on the left during the wedding ceremony, and after the wedding ceremony, she must choose the posture of "on top".
As the saying goes, "a leaf knows autumn" Jun Xiang through this meal, he has a general understanding of Ye Pei's personality, he clearly knows his heart, Ye Pei is by no means the lover he wants in his mind. The decision has been made, and Jun Xiang's attitude towards Ye Pei's father and daughter at the dinner table is only "polite", and he will never leave the father and daughter with the illusion that this matter is "a foregone conclusion".
The dinner was going on like this, at this moment, Jun Xiang felt that this meal was simply "like a year", so that he could not sit or walk, so embarrassing, listening to Ye Pei's boastful talk against his will, looking at Ye Pei one by one, where he was talking about himself, there seemed to be no sign of stopping. Jun Xiang sat there and suddenly felt unusually irritable in his heart. It was at that moment that Jun Xiang had a deep understanding of the phrase "bad fate" that people often say. What is "Bad Karma"? Jun Xiang felt that today's dinner with Ye Pei's father and daughter was really a sinful fate. It's not supposed to be.
Sure enough, what shouldn't have happened finally happened, through this meal, I didn't expect Ye Pei to take a fancy to himself, since then the days have simply made Jun Xiang feel uneasy, Ye Pei not only often calls constantly during Jun Xiang's work, but also repeatedly called to make appointments to meet, but Jun Xiang was politely declined, Jun Xiang clearly understood that this is an unrealistic emotion imagined by Ye Pei, an unhealthy feeling, and a manifestation of possessiveness. Therefore, Jun Xiang made up his mind, since he didn't like Ye Pei, he would never do anything against his will in order to be promoted.
The edge is to be happy with each other, give sincerely, do not ask for returns, do not ask for results, can start at any time, can end at any time, no deliberate commitment, no selfish seeking, not to fill the shortcomings of vanity, not to satisfy the ** of the moment. Fate can not be found. But Ye Pei didn't care about these things, never considered Jun Xiang's feelings, and just acted according to his own wishes, so when Ye Pei was rejected by Jun Xiang, Ye Pei still didn't give up, and turned to his father, that is, Jun Xiang's boss.,
As a parent, it is understandable and reasonable to hope that his daughter can marry a husband with ideal conditions in all aspects, so when Ye Pei asked his father for help, although Ye Pei's father was Jun Xiang's boss, but, for the sake of his daughter's happiness, he still put down his dignity to talk to Jun Xiang again, hoping that Jun Xiang could agree to this matter, but when Jun Xiang faced Ye Pei's father and boss, although the scene was embarrassing, his attitude was still very resolute, and he still did not agree to this marriage for the sake of the future.
It is strange to say that Ye Pei's personality gives people the feeling that he is arrogant, self-serving, domineering, condescending, without modesty, and low-key style of life, but his father's style of life is different from that of the world, which can be said to be quite reasonable. When he understood Jun Xiang's thoughts, he did not use the aggressive momentum of his superiors to suppress his subordinates to force Jun Xiang to comply, on the contrary, he showed great understanding of Jun Xiang's decision. I know that emotional things can not be forced, and fully understand the truth that "a twisted melon is not sweet". Therefore, in the process of work in the future, Ye Pei's father not only did not embarrass Junxiang, but also did not make it difficult for Junxiang at work, and praised Junxiang when he should be praised, which made Junxiang convinced, and he had to admit that his boss was still a magnanimous person and a person worthy of admiration!
For love, don't say that men have possession, in fact, women's possession is dozens of times more than that of men. The difference is that men and women have different attitudes.
Take Ye Pei as an example, it is a typical possessiveness at work, although her father also persuaded her not to hang herself on a vine, to believe that the reason why Jun Xiang did not agree to this marriage was entirely because he was not your fate, but Ye Pei still went his own way, as if he had fallen into evil for Jun Xiang, and continued to stalk, there was really a tendency not to give up if he didn't get the hand vow, and in desperation, Jun Xiang also deliberately asked Ye Pei's father to help dissuade him.
After Ye Pei's father's persuasion, Ye Pei and Jun Xiang finally got along for a while, Jun Xiang thought that Ye Pei had also figured it out, and finally everything was fine and he could sleep peacefully, but he didn't expect that the "narrow road" and Jiajia tonight's beautiful date was bumped into by her and made a mess. Looking at her posture, it is indispensable to "make a big fuss". Thinking of this, Jun Xiang couldn't help but be secretly worried again in his heart, so he had to pray silently in his heart, "May the Buddha bless me and Jiajia as a lover and finally become married!" "