Chapter 33: There is an emotion
In this life, you will always meet a few special people, this kind of person may just be your pure spiritual sustenance, but he can not be simply classified as a friend, because his love for you is beyond the boundaries and ideas of ordinary friends, but you and he have never sublimated it into a lover's specific behavior, between you or often as light as water...
Although Jiajia herself can't figure out what type of emotion she has for Gao Fei in her heart, in the past few days since Gao Fei left, Jiajia has been in a bad mood, and her heart is still like that continuous drizzle tonight, although she is afraid of this cool feeling, but it seems that she can't change it and doesn't want to change this situation. Except for working hours, mobile phones are basically turned off, and they don't go anywhere, except for work, they almost stay at home.
Jiajia's abnormal behavior in the past few days, Mei Xin saw it in her eyes and was anxious in her heart. I often secretly wonder in my heart, "Is it awkward with Junxiang?" Why don't you see Junxiang dating Jiajia? "
Now without exception, after Mei Xin made dinner, she began to figure it out again, standing at the top of the stairs, looking upstairs for a while, frowning for a while, looking thoughtful. As if she was struggling with whether to go to Jiajiawu to ask what was going on: just when she was at a loss,
"Dududu" The phone next to the coffee table at home rang, so Mei Xin walked over quickly to answer the phone:
"Hello! Who are you looking for? Mei Xin asked politely
"Is it Auntie? I'm Junxiang, have you been on a business trip recently? Her phone can't get through, I want to ask her how is it? Jun Xiang came from the other end of the phone with a concerned greeting
"Oh, she's okay! Maybe I've been busy with work lately! Don't worry, I'll ask and ask her" Mei Xin put down the phone and went straight to Jiajia's room on the second floor.
"The problem seems to be Jiajia, since Junxiang drank soup and left, today is the third day, and I haven't seen Jiajia and Junxiang dating, Mei Xin is wondering, I didn't expect Junxiang to call Jiajia" Mei Xin thought while walking,
Unconsciously came to Jiajia's door, and when she walked to the door, Mei Xin was abnormal, and pushed the door directly into Jiajia's room without knocking on the door.
"Jiajia, what's wrong with you? What are you crying about? Feeling unwell? Mei Xin walked quickly to the bedside and asked with concern.
"Nope! I was blown by the wind on the balcony just now, and there may be sand in my eyes," Jia Jia lied and tried to cover up.
"Oh, it's okay! I'll help you look at your eyes," Mei Xin said and raised her hand to try to touch Jiajia's eyes
"No!" Jiajia hurriedly used her hand to block her mother's outstretched hand.
'Why?' Is it awkward to have trouble with Junxiang? Mother saw that Jiajia didn't let her touch her eyes, and suspected that it was because of Junxiang, so she continued to ask.
"Nope!" Jiajia persisted
"I hope you two are okay, but he just called home, saying that your mobile phone is often turned off, and you can't get through, listen to his tone, and it doesn't look like it's awkward, why are you turning it off? Mei Xin asked suspiciously
"I didn't deliberately turn off the phone, maybe when he called, he just happened to encounter a phone out of battery or I didn't pay attention to the shutdown" Jiajia is still looking for an excuse to cover up and fly high.
"Is it so coincidental for so many days?" Mei Xin is such a smart person, and she immediately felt that Jiajia was lying to her. So, I asked Jiajia rhetorically.
"Believe it or not, I'm too lazy to explain 1" Jiajia replied to her mother angrily, then pulled the towel over her face and ignored her mother.
Seeing Jiajia's attitude, Mei Xin wanted to immediately lift the towel quilt on Jiajia's face, just before her hand touched the quilt, Mei Xin inadvertently glanced at the roses on the bedside table, although a little about to wither, but you can imagine the water and beauty when she first bought it. So Mei Xin stood up, moved to the bedside table, and carefully counted the number of roses.
Only then did I realize that there were 101 flowers,
"Oh my God, 101 flowers, a lot of them, who gave them? Soaring? Still is? Mei Xin muttered in her heart, so she turned her face to look at Jiajia, but she didn't expect Jiajia to open the towel at this time and be peeped at her mother in a corner, because she hadn't heard her mother's voice for a long time, Jiajia thought that her mother had left, so she opened the corner of the quilt to take a look, but she didn't expect that at this time, they were looking at each other
"Jiajia, you sit up for me, my mother is also here! Don't lie to me! Let's be honest with my mother! Mei Xin patiently persuaded and sat on Jiajia's bed
"What do you say? Didn't I tell you everything? Jiajia also tried to hide it.
"Who do you think I am? So easy to be deceived? Let's be honest. Who gave this rose? What's going on? Mei Xin asked further, and her tone became tough and indestructible.
Seeing her mother's resolute attitude and affirmative expression, Jiajia estimated that it would be difficult to hide it any longer, so she finally couldn't resist her mother's inquiries and told Gao Fei about it one by one.
"Don't go online if you're fine, just don't listen, now you're asking for trouble! Mei Xin said angrily
"In what era is there now, how can anyone not go online?" Jiajia retorted, "Are you still hard-mouthed? However, in the end, you still know the way back, and you did the right thing! Long pain is better than short pain" Mei Xin affirmed Jiajia's decision to leave Gao Fei, and then continued in a serious tone:
"Actually, marriage is not just a matter of two people. We used to think that loving someone is our own business, and it has nothing to do with others, and when we have not yet entered into marriage, we always imagine life is very beautiful! It was perfect, thought it was a world for two people. It is the ocean of love, and all hardships and hardships will be broken by love, but when we enter marriage, you will find that love and non-love can be a matter of two people, and talking about marriage is a matter of two families. The reason why marriage was invented by human beings was to solve the problem of inheritance and determination of private property after the social division of labor. Therefore, marriage is not only an emotional issue, but also a utilitarian social issue, so we must not ignore the opinions of family members, friends, and especially the thoughts of both parents. “
"It's really worthy of being a university teacher, and you're teaching me again" Jiajia couldn't help but whisper when she heard her mother play the same old tune again
"If you understood what I meant, why should I repeat it?" Mei Xin was very unhappy when she heard Jiajia talk to her in an impatient tone, but in order for Jiajia not to have any more feelings with Gao Fei, Mei Xin decided to take care of it to the end, so she continued:
As the saying goes: "Things gather by like, people by groups", and the way of thinking of the people around you is often the way of thinking you are used to. The more recognition and support your marriage gets, the higher the coefficient of happiness will be, on the contrary, even if you love each other again, you need to think carefully.
Although Goofy loves you very much at the moment, and you love him too, the reality of living apart is in front of you, even if he or you are willing to give up your living environment to work in each other's city, if the new city you live in again can make each other happy, then maybe you will continue to be happy, but if it is not satisfactory, then one of them will definitely attribute the cause of this "frustration" to the other party, so that the conflict will naturally arise, and the endless quarrels will follow you like a shadow, and then what happiness will there be? "
"Got it, Mom, you have a lot of social experience! I'm really convinced" Jiajia knows that if she doesn't agree with her mother at this time, then she won't be at peace tonight, and her mother will definitely continue to talk to herself, so Jiajia simply praised her mother Mei Xin
"That's it! I eat more salt than you eat! Mei Xin heard Jiajia praise her, and couldn't help but smile happily, and couldn't help boasting to herself.
"Of course, after listening to you, I think Gao Fei is also a very good young man, and it is also a kind of fate for you to be able to meet him in the vast sea of people, and I also hope that you will maintain this kind of close friendship, and it is not a bad thing to have another bosom friend after all! After Mei Xin boasted, she continued to say her opinion of Gao Fei noncommittally.
"Okay! With your support! I'm relieved," Jiajia smiled happily.
"Oh, by the way, Jun Xiang just called and said that your mobile phone couldn't get through, you call him back now, so as not to worry him! Junxiang is very good! Take advantage of it! Mei Xin got up and walked out the door.