59. Ward chat
Although I don't have any culture, but my level of conversation is still good, although I haven't undergone any major training, but my theories are still a set, just when I accompanied Wang Aiying in the hospital, just to pass the boring time, I talked about a lot of things to her.
Today, I'm going to tell her about some of the things I've seen and actually happened. However, there are many ideas that she opposes, and even the opinions of the two people are not unified, but the two people will not talk about it because they disagree, nor will they get angry because of the bluntness of such exchanges, and when I am not right, she calculates it, and when I finish speaking, he is either opposed, or corrected, or supplemented, such a conversation, in turn, is more harmonious between us, but makes us more intimate and friendly.
Once, we talked about health care reform, and I didn't give him much room to interject this time. The following is my big words to her: "I have had many disasters and illnesses since I was a child, I ran through the hospital, I discussed with others, medical injustice, this point of view is also someone else's, and I also have my own ideas, but when I say it, it is mine."
Sometimes, in the face of the background of medical reform, I think that the experts of the whole car will not be able to do this thing, but after I get in touch with the actual situation, I really feel that it is particularly difficult to do, and the interests of the game have fundamentally changed, the essence of the class has remained, simple things have become complicated, and complex things have become simplified. ”
I have experienced such a real thing since I was a child, my original home is the small courtyard assigned when I fight * land * master, my family is assigned four horse sheds facing south, my west side lives is a five-guarantee household in this village, his man's name is Li Shirong, the original lady who is in good health, I don't know what kind of strange disease she has, she is crazy everywhere, because there is no money to see a doctor she is hard, when there is no way, she gritted her teeth and topped it again, God is going to kill her, She and the function of the top of life is no longer in the manifestation at the moment, she has walked the road of burning incense and kowtowing, there is really nothing to do, so she hurriedly sent her to the x hospital to save her life, at that time her family could not pay the cost of hospitalization, the villagers borrowed money everywhere to pay the cost of hospitalization, but, not only did the hospital not look at the illness of others, but after spending money for surgery, it also gave people a critical illness notice, the hospital was afraid that something would happen to the hospital, what kind of medical dispute or something, The honesty and sincerity of the peasants did not say a word, and in the end they had to resign themselves to fate, lying on their own hospital beds and humming every day. At that time, I found the soil doctor in the sixties and seventies, the soil doctor was called Gao Haiming, after he carefully studied the condition, he adopted the method of traditional Chinese medicine treatment, where the dead horse was treated as a live horse, the disease that could not be cured by the big hospital, just treat it wholeheartedly, and he did not have to bear any responsibility, as a result, a miracle appeared in the world, it was he who pulled this person's life back from the death line, as a result, the knife left by the hospital has been thickening, and after careful treatment by others, it finally made people hard. Since then, the people of Shili Bazhuang have spread his good name, and now the reputation of the people is still popular, and the deeds of the dead horse being a live horse doctor are really heroes.
After listening to what I said, she still didn't believe it, and said, "Can this person cure her disease?" ”
I said, "You are enjoying such a high-level treatment now, why do you want to go to those soil doctors?" ”
I also told her: "Science is developed now, and he can only rely on experience, and other levels cannot be talked about at all." ”
The problem I would like to say is that hospitals do not treat the poor, and the doctors' sense of responsibility is perfunctory.
After listening to the story I told, I don't know what her inner reflection is, but she didn't say anything for a long time.
Just a few years ago, my uncle had a stomach pain, I went to the hospital to register for a doctor, and my uncle was treated by an old goblin surnamed Wang, who said that it was hired by the hospital, and the hospital could not do without it, and invited the old doctor back. She said she was 76 years old, his mother was 98 years old, and she said how much money she earned each month......
I thought to myself, what are you telling my uncle all this? But it turned out that he was showing off his fame, using it to promote and arouse people's respect for her.
I saw that she asked my uncle some uncomfortable situation, I also paid special attention to a detail, this link is my uncle's place name, I said that my uncle is the old area, afraid that she will squander money when she prescribes medicine to me, she used the computer to type out my uncle's need to do the test sheet, it turned out to be gastroscopy and carbon 12 examination, after doing gastroscopy and carbon 12 test, she turned on the computer and gave me a lot of drugs, I looked at the cost of the list, my head was stunned, she also personally confessed that I bought the medicine, She is telling you how to use medicine in person, I see her hateful mind, I think she is hurting the sky, next to a patient and my uncle is a disease, I secretly asked about his situation, after looking at his medical records and medication, I finally know how to use medicine, because my uncle's medicine is the same as his, I found the manufacturer of the medicine according to his appearance, and used one-third of the money in the outside pharmacy, I made a little clever, let your old goblin take my kickback, I'm going to drive your old goblin mad.
After my uncle took those medicines, I looked up some things on the Internet, and my uncle's stomach disease was not only not good, but I was cured of other diseases, and my uncle's body caused adverse reactions due to the medication, and the original disease was not treated well, and my uncle's low back pain and headache were added, and a lot of side effects played a role.
At this time, I was thinking about some things, the lack of virtue of doctors is more hateful than anything else, and the doctor's assembly work and irresponsibility are not specific methods for the specific situation of people, but regardless of two or three, the eyebrows are grasped, and such things are the reason for the tragedy in the world.
People say that seeing a doctor is like buying a lottery ticket, and the lottery may not win the lottery, and this disease may kill you if you win it one day.
The most hateful thing for me is that the classification of the hospital is too detailed, and people can't tell which department to find for a disease, and how many doctors do they have to make an appointment to see clearly? Sometimes, after looking at this department and looking at that department, people say that the hospital is like killing the pot, the minor illness goes in, the serious illness comes out, the good people go in, the dead come out, the normal people go in, and the neuropathy comes out.
Some people say that going to the hospital is a toss, the money is tossed, and the illness is tossed. Can't complain that at the gate of the hospital, there are so many resentful ghosts seeking justice from their own homes?
After listening to my words, she said: "You can't see this society as so miserable, in fact, people nowadays should also know that hospitals have to face many patients every day, coupled with all kinds of unhealthy trends in society, and irresponsible doctors, such a situation is a very rare phenomenon, and the whole society cannot be denied because of a little social darkness." ”
After I listened to her words, I expressed partial agreement, which shows that I have to adjust the angle of looking at the problem, I and Aiying are more and more able to communicate, she often makes my incorrect concept as a supplement, however, I am generally unconvinced, I don't agree with it on the surface, but I actually admit it in my heart.
In order to show that what I said was correct, I was looking for various reasons for her, saying yes: "I have a friend who is doing medical mediation, he told me a lot of things about the hospital, that kind of service attitude is simply not a patient to see, it is simply a relationship hospital, I have thugs around to solve small things, once something big happens, look at the energy relationship of people to solve, small things to bully the honest and poor, but you are not convinced, find the court to fight, or find a relationship to mediate, but the middle mediation is also the people suffer." This world is the world of the rich, and it is said that reason can go all over the world, but who knows what this truth depends on? If you want to talk about it, he won't talk about it, and if you don't talk about it, they will talk nonsense, how much more can you explain it clearly? ”
After listening to what I said, Wang Aiying said that she had a few surprises: "The first one I didn't think that I was a thinking person, she praised me in particular, saying that you are not a good person, and blame you for being thoughtful and having your own opinions, I like thinking people." ”
"The second unexpected thing is that you usually don't say a word, but when you start speaking, others can't cut in the queue at all, and they are quite logical, and they speak one by one, like a big cadre."
"The third unexpected thing is that although you don't look very good, your conscience is still good, and there is still a bit of integrity and justice, if people have these advantages, what are people afraid of?"
"The fourth point I didn't expect was that this person would be a terrible person in the future."
When I said this, I asked her, "What's so scary?" ”
She said: "The secret of heaven must not be divulged. ”
I had no choice but to express my gratitude for the praise she offered.
I said, "It's the first time someone has said this about me, although I'm not like this, but after listening to your words, I feel that my self-confidence has increased even more." ”