It was only after the homeroom teacher entered the classroom that the parent-teacher meeting officially began. No matter what country or nation, there will always be students with good and outstanding grades who will be publicly praised by the teacher, and students with poor performance and poor grades will inevitably be publicly criticized by the teacher.

For this reason, parents who hear that their children belong to the positive object will involuntarily hold their heads high, and the smug color is naturally overflowing. They have a bright face and enjoy the parent-teacher meeting, and they have naturally become a model for other parents to learn from, and the object of learning from experience, after all, others teach their children well.

On the contrary, parents who hear that their children belong to the opposite object will suddenly blush. With their eyes looking left and right, not only do they wish that the parent-teacher meeting would end sooner, but they also want to find a crack to get into. The part of the anger in his heart who forcibly suppressed his anger was the parent who lost face because of his own child, thinking about waiting until he got home, and then let his unlucky child who was not angry make the final decision on whether to play a women's singles, a men's singles, and a mixed doubles.

In fact, for them, personal disgrace is a small matter, and a child does not study hard is a big matter. This beating of the child is just a last resort, and the ultimate goal is to hope that the child can take the initiative and study hard. After all, parents who have been in society for many years know what the real society is all about. They all hope that their children will become dragons and phoenixes, even if they don't want that, no one wants to see their children become scum who are not needed by others and society.

This reality is often that parents at the bottom of the society, engaged in work that are not formal members of the company, dispatch employees, under the guise of various temporary jobs, etc., have low incomes, or deceive themselves and deceive themselves to use their children as small and ignorant to carry out a self-exculpation and comfort, but they seem to forget that individuals are also so delayed by their parents, or they are left to fend for themselves and go with the flow. After all, there is no shortage of reading, and they do not pay attention to the French method of communication with their children, so they are blindly simple, direct and rude. Even if the intentions are good, it is counterproductive.

He preached face-to-face with his children, "If you don't work hard now, you won't be able to get into a good university in the future, you won't be able to find a good job, you won't have a good income, and then you will have a stretched life in the future, complaining about the unfairness of the society, that unfairness, and why is your luck so bad, and God is unfair......"

If you have a little more bad luck, the small company you work in goes bankrupt or something, and it is difficult to find a job again, it is easy to slide into a life of alcoholism, malaise and decadence, and death of the body and mind." However, the child will only enter the left ear and the right ear will come out, and it will not be regarded as a matter at all. In their heads, in addition to being stupid and not playing a few games, they are self-righteous and conclude that Lao Tzu was born and extraordinary, and he will definitely be the dragon and phoenix among people in the future, you stupid people don't understand it at all, Lao Tzu can mix well casually, you are a group of birds, where you know the ambition of my bird......

For this reason, even if the parents are in tears until the end, they are forced to swear in front of their faces, "to study hard, no longer be greedy for fun", and as soon as they turn around, they are abandoned by their children. Even if the child's buttocks are swollen and broken, they often can't get the result they want.

Instead, the seeds of violence and hatred are planted directly in the hearts of children. At every turn, Lao Tzu hacked you to death, and Lao Tzu killed you...... And when you encounter a conflict with someone, you either simply speak with your fists or with a knife, and the white knife goes in and the red knife comes out. The hotbed of crime is often among the poor, and the poor mountains and bad waters come out of the people, which also means the same thing!

Parents who have not been admitted to private schools, but let their children study in public schools, and who are in the lower strata of society, who work in small companies, are just formal ordinary members and middle-level cadres, and they will be worried about this from the beginning. What if you leave your child alone and wait for him to grow up in the future? Whether it's a university or a company, it's all merit-based admission, not who can play, and whoever can play will use whom!

And directly send them to private schools, and they are not shy and feel pressure, either they are determined to save money, and they will not hesitate to take out loans to give their children a good educational environment, and take a big gamble in life and family, or they are always urging them to study, study, and study, and then be admitted to private schools with their children's personal skills when they go to school in the future.

If there are many children, the children who come out of such a family are burdened with too many things, and the individual becomes not a free body from the beginning. Once he gets ahead one day, he will inevitably have to shoulder all the responsibilities of taking care of his younger siblings, older brothers and sisters, and his parents, after all, the few resources in the family are used by you. Otherwise, you would have the status you have in today's society?

As for the children of middle-class families, they often do not choose to attend public schools. Even if the grades are poor, the parents will use the money to pave the way for them and open the door to private schools. Unless there are many children in the family, the children who are given low comprehensive scores by their parents will be directly abandoned, so as to allocate more resources to children with high comprehensive scores.

After all, in their opinion, giving it to you is also a waste. Instead of doing meaningless things, it is better to nurture the most promising children to become talents. The most striking example of this is that the father of the great writer Joyce did just that. Even if there is no food at home, I would rather everyone go hungry, and I will give money to my most talented child to buy the books he wants to read. As it turned out, his son not only lived up to his hopes, but also became the national and national pride of the Irish people, an indelible figure in the history of world literature, and everyone remembered him as a father.

For high-level families, money is no longer a problem, and the only problem is to discover the talents of their respective children in a certain aspect. Once the child is found to be interested or talented in that area, he will not hesitate to spend money. They are not afraid of spending money, they are afraid that their children will be troubled if they have no talent and belong to mediocre people. Still, it can be remedied. In the end, they will go through guò to find low-born, talented people to carry out an intermarriage, so as to achieve a win-win situation for each other. (To be continued.) )